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Flirting Direction & Advice Needed on This Guy

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I live on campus, so I depend on our Dining Commons to eat everyday. I've been noticing a guy working there for a while: he's white, in his early 20s, the reason why he caught my attention was because at first, every time he handed me things over, he always had a "different" smile on his face. but I'm an Asian guy with a smiley baby face, so a lot of people will smile when they look at me.

One night, I ordered onion rings, which few people order, so my order was ready before many other earlier orders. He called my number, I went up to him. A girl jokingly asked him why I was before her, and he said: "Well it's my boy, I gotta take care of." He doesn't talk in a super straight-guy-next-door way, so it could mean something, but it could still mean nothing.

My friends all suggested I chat more with him, so I did the past Thursday. As he's working there at every late night session, so I started the conversation by asking when he gets off work everyday. I also asked him where he lives as he gets off work late every night. There was some awkward silence, but he broke it by asking me more questions about where I come from and what my major is... After my order was ready, I ended the conversation by asking for his name--I already knew, but I just I wanted to tell him mine by the way.

Just tonight, I went there again just to talk to him more, but as he's always busy cooking, and I'm really shy when it comes to this, so we didn't get to chat tonight, but he did chat with someone else briefly about video games--according to him, he has an X-box, which could make him straight.

I think that should be all I know of him for you guys to give some further advice--I just want to know if he's gay so I may be able to ask him out. Thanks.
 
VanHiscers said:
I live on campus, so I depend on our Dining Commons to eat everyday. I've been noticing a guy working there for a while: he's white, in his early 20s, the reason why he caught my attention was because at first, every time he handed me things over, he always had a "different" smile on his face. but I'm an Asian guy with a smiley baby face, so a lot of people will smile when they look at me.

One night, I ordered onion rings, which few people order, so my order was ready before many other earlier orders. He called my number, I went up to him. A girl jokingly asked him why I was before her, and he said: "Well it's my boy, I gotta take care of." He doesn't talk in a super straight-guy-next-door way, so it could mean something, but it could still mean nothing.

My friends all suggested I chat more with him, so I did the past Thursday. As he's working there at every late night session, so I started the conversation by asking when he gets off work everyday. I also asked him where he lives as he gets off work late every night. There was some awkward silence, but he broke it by asking me more questions about where I come from and what my major is... After my order was ready, I ended the conversation by asking for his name--I already knew, but I just I wanted to tell him mine by the way.

Just tonight, I went there again just to talk to him more, but as he's always busy cooking, and I'm really shy when it comes to this, so we didn't get to chat tonight, but he did chat with someone else briefly about video games--according to him, he has an X-box, which could make him straight.

I think that should be all I know of him for you guys to give some further advice--I just want to know if he's gay so I may be able to ask him out. Thanks.
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Reminds me of how I used to be a bit, haha.

Well...an xbox doesn't really mean they are straight or not - I know a few people who own xbox who are bi/gay...then again it can depend. It's cool to 'judge' base of stereotypes, but boy...I've seen some people's stereotype totally caught me by suprise...since they were bi/gay.

Sounds like he does have something for you - especially if he doesn't do this to others (especially what he said when you picked up your food). I'd suggest to take it slow. Get to know the guy first that way you can have your mind set on asking him. Once you know him, you should be able to more or less able to figure out what side he leans towards. Get something that you know he likes (In this case, video games). a lot can stem towards that and once you have a means to talk to him (say maybe if you have the same game as him), you'll have a path to actually talk to him more. Once you folks have a solid topic that both of you are interested in, it'll make conversations a lot easier :)
 
Assuming he takes the weekend off, ask him "How did you spend your weekend?" This question is to find out more about him.
 
Sounds like you're going in the right direction, but LOL at you thinking him having an xbox makes him straight. That's so odd. Like gays don't play video games...
 
< has a 360, xbox, nintendo 64, super nintendo and shit tons of hand held games. Just saying


anyways why not just ask him to hang out, maybe he just is being friendly so there's no harm in being friendly back.

Ask him what he did last weekend, after he tells you tell him he should totally join you and your friends friends to hang out this week
 
Thank you guys for your replies.

I spent a big part of tonight pitying Chris, the guy I've been talking about, has to be straight because one of my best girl friends told me there's a guy working there called Chris has a crush on her, but after our Facebook investigation, we found out there are 2 guys named Chris working there, or it would have been a be an awkward situation.

I know gay guys play video games too, but we do play different genres of games compared with straight guys, and due to the availability of games on different video game station, gays guys are more likely to go with PS3 I think, it's just my guess though.

Anyway, I went there again tonight, we chatted just a little bit about his education, cos last time we talked about mine.
 
well, just take what comes along and see what happens. continue chatting with him whenever you get a chance, and you'll find out more.

I too used to believe in the video-games == straight stereotype, but I've since realized that it really is a very weak one at best. Playing video games is too common of a hobby, regardless of what you play.

Now, if you find out that he listens to Celine Dion and Lady Gaga...
 
Honestly, it doesn't sound like much more than a friendly guy as of right now. BUT it could be more.
The closer you get, the more you know, the better the assessment, Lol. Good luck. ..|

By the way . . . I own an xBox and play only two games from time to time, but the game I play more than any other is a sports game (NBA). Hope that debunks the stereotype lol. ;)
 
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