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Flirting or More ?

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Hello guys -
he the issues, short and sweet. I own a few hair salons and one client been coming in, he ( 25 ) I am (36) he lives right around the corner. I been remodeling this salon and he stops all the time before work , sometimes for 1 1/2 hours. As far as I know he straight and I am gay but never come out to him or make remarks.
Well last 2 weeks every weekday he stops in and says stuff about being good friends and he can talk to me. Well we got on to the gay subject and issues and he said he would do gay porn if given a chance. He texts me all the time with messages but adds a twist - like one text today he said he had a big surprise for me the tomorrow, and I texted back and said how big ( being smart azz) and he said it was almost 8 inches and only for me. The other day he wanted me to cut his hair and we were texting and i said what do I get out of it, he said anything I want.....we joke around as in pushing each other and talking about sex. He ask me to come visit him at work cause he bored. He gave me a new cell phone cause my died.
Now it is probably me over thinking but does this sound normal or am I missing the obvious ?
 
Sorry to say, but that was a little hard to read for me, but here is what I have to say.

Have you asked him if he is straight? you didn't make that clear, you just assume hes straight, but he said he would do gay porn if given the chance? To me thats a hint he's not straight.

Actually you didn't make it clear if he knows your sexuality? I take it your out though?

Let him know your sexuality if you're comfortable doing so, the whole comment he made about gay porn sounded like he was reaching for some kinda answer from you as to your sexuality.

I wouldn't get your hopes up, but you've not even said if you would like anything out of it?

Let him know your feelings on the subject, other than that there's not much you can really do.
 
sorry it was all over the place.
never came out and asked him - but know he had a girlfriend, i did her hair for 2 yrs.
I never said i was gay - he knows the guy I am always with and he is gay. So i assumed he knows I am.
I been smitten with him for a while now but do not know what i want from him.
I guess I was looking to see if you guys had any advice.
I may just ask him if he ever had relations with a guy since he mentioned gay porn and drop a hint and see if he wants to do dinner....lol
 
Sounds to me he likes you.
But I guess you won't know for sure unless you ask him.
 
Founds like Fag-Stag to me.

There are guys who like hanging out with the gays because
1) they get lots of attention
2) gay clubs are more fun and the drinks are cheaper
3) because they pick up on all sorts of fashion and lifestyle tips without having to buy "Men's Fitness" or "GQ"

In these days of "metrosexuals", it's all very confusing.

If you enjoy his company and he enjoys your company, don't give it much thought. With a little luck, he knows how to fix cars and do minor repairs around the house.
 
ok....great point Kara
maybe your right - i do enjoy his company and like the little so-called flirting I get ( as to what i think is flirting)
thanks so much. maybe I am seeing into it to much
 
ok things changed with my issue. He and I talked and I told him I was gay and he cool with it and said he not and thats all good too. BUT when he is drunk he text me all the time and says stuff no straight guy says in conversation like he doesn't want to loss my friendship and he a little freaked out about they way we text and he sent me a ring tone of Timberlake "apologize" and just jokes with me to flirts during that time . He asks me to go to eat or to hang out but i cant cause i got so much going on with my work.It seems like when he drunk he feels different - can this be and should I ask him when he drunk if has feelings ? But when he stone sober he kinda a dick. Make sense ?
 
If I had a dollar for every time I told someone I was not gay when I was his age, I could retire.

Anyhow, at the very least, he's sending you mixed messages. You can either sit back and enjoy it and go with the flow, or you can get him a bit relaxed (with booze) and try to get him to open up more.

I've known a ton of straight guys in my life, yet I know for sure three things have not happened with one of them:

1.) They did not hang around a beauty salon for 1.5 hours before it opened, helping out the owner.

2.) They did not ever tell me they'd do gay porn if they were asked.

3.) They never surprised me with anything close to 8 inches. Hell, they rarely surprised me at all with anything.

Good luck. If I was a betting man, I would bet that he's not totally straight.
 
Invite him over for dinner.

Seriously.

And have condoms and lube on hand, because there's a better-than-even shot you're gonna need them. Just be gentle with him the first time out, OK? Leave him better than you found him. :)

Lex
 
The problem with 3 beer queers is that they sober up and want to be "straight" again.

It's one thing to have friends who are a mess. It's another to get sexually involved with guys who are a mess.

If you're busy with work then your time could be better spent... like with a guy who has his act together and knows what he wants and doesn't text while intoxicated.
 
Run like hell.

The guy is trouble.

When he has the balls to pursue you when he's sober, give him a roll, but until then, he's just so much extra baggage.
 
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