Flirting?

[CtBoyWonder]

I think a co worker of mine is flirting with me. Actually he is one of the
assistant managers in the store I work at. Which changes the dynamics
of things a bit. What signs should I watch out for that a guy is flirting
with another guy?

For example.

#1 I've noticed he goes out of his way to greet me.
#2 When he does greet me, he seems very happy to see me
and speaks to me is a soft voice. Since he is loud by nature
I find this as "something is up" Also when he shakes my hand
he holds it much longer than a regular hand shake.
#3 Last week, he asked me why I was tired. I told him I stayed
up on the computer way to late last night, He responded that
I was A "bad boy" and when I looked at him after that comment
he had this look on his face. It actually shocked me. It's been
A long time since A guy looked at me like that.
#4 Also I've noticed that he treats me differently that other co workers
at the store. He has a reputation for being a "jerk" but is totally
different when dealing with me.
#5 Yesterday he was in my office, and started singing (in Spanish)
while looking straight at me. The Spanish thing worried me, because
I don't know any Spanish, he could say anything he wanted, and I
wouldn't know.
#6 He is very touchy-feely.

How should I handle this. Part of me says something is up. The other
says it's in my head. One thing he does, with other coworkers that he
is friendly with is check out girls and make sure they see it. I'm not
even sure I would want to pursue something. He is after all one of my
bosses. I just want to know what is really going on. I know everyone
will say no coworkers, or bosses. Off limits.

 

[spencer]

just ask to hang out. what were you waiting for?

 

[soccerboy029]

Eh, you said it yourself. Steer clear of boss folks!

 

[CtBoyWonder]

After talking this over with a couple friends. I decided that
I'm going to slowly "go for it" and keep it outside work.
Tomorrow night he invited me to "hang" with him while he
runs the store. I plan on showing up just before he leaves,
and walk to his car. I will play it by ear. I think if he is
"gunning" for something, being alone in a dark parking lot
may open things up. I'm not expecting an epiphany, but maybe
a clearer sign of his intentions.

 

[spencer]

After talking this over with a couple friends. I decided that
I'm going to slowly "go for it" and keep it outside work.
Tomorrow night he invited me to "hang" with him while he
runs the store. I plan on showing up just before he leaves,
and walk to his car. I will play it by ear. I think if he is
"gunning" for something, being alone in a dark parking lot
may open things up. I'm not expecting an epiphany, but maybe
a clearer sign of his intentions.

this is a good sign. he invited you to hang out while he's doing random things. IMO, that's better than hanging out to do something (getting a drinks, even a movie). it means he thinks of you.

however I think you should take it slower and not try to proposition him this weekend just because he invited you to hang out. I dunno maybe i'm wrong and he wants instant gratificaiton.

 

[CtBoyWonder]

this is a good sign. he invited you to hang out while he's doing random things. IMO, that's better than hanging out to do something (getting a drinks, even a movie). it means he thinks of you.

however I think you should take it slower and not try to proposition him this weekend just because he invited you to hang out. I dunno maybe i'm wrong and he wants instant gratificaiton.

He' now jealous. I have dinner plans with a friend tonight, before the "hang out"
session. Another coworker asked me what I was doing tonight. with him right there, I said I have a "date"! and he was snotty to me and wanted to know who I was going out with. I told him and he was not amused. This friend is a girl, and since I don't date girls. It's just dinner and conversation. I was like "wow" he's jealous. It kinda felt good inside. A guy is actually jealous on the account of "me".

I will take it slow. I just want to see what happens if we are alone not in work.
I'm not looking for have sex on the first encounter. I just need more clearification
on what his intentions are.

 

[G-Lexington]

I can't speak for you, but if someone I was into got jealous and snotty when they found out I was meeting somebody else (before our first "date"-not-"date", especially), that'd be a dealbreaker, and I wouldn't want anything more to do with him....

Lex