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alley

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Lolololololololololol-----
 
The point is you get tired of living a lie. I came out at 62 and could finally be who I really am. Young people today have no idea what it was like back in the 60's and 70's when you were more or less forced to live in the closet if you ever wanted to be a part of mainstream society. I would be happy to discuss this with you if you'd like.
 
When I was 21 I put a single's ad in the local paper.

Half the guys who replied were married! One guy even sent me his wedding photo. I guess that was the best pic he had of himself.

I ended up going out with a guy my age who knew some of my old friends (he went to a school in a neighboring town). All he talked about was some girl in my school he had a crush on and how he'd like to marry her.

That's a real turn on.
 
If a man gets a hardon while getting it up the butt or giving a blow job, he's hardly straight. Bi, perhaps.

That's what I hate about these so called "straight" websites. "He's a happily married straight professional who loves the cock."

Whatever.
 
People wanna fit in. Is that a surprise?

And older guys grew up in a much more conservative time where there was more pressure to have a wife, start a family, etc...
 
People never agree with me when this topic comes up, but here goes anyway.

I believe any combination is possible. I've known guys who got married at a young age and never experienced an attraction to men till much later. They were in love with their wives, and then they just -- changed.

And the other way around, guys who start out gay and end up with a woman. Not to mention the possibility of being in love with your wife and another man at the same time.

So when you hear about somebody who left his wife for another guy in middle age, don't automatically assume his marriage was a sham. Life is more complicated than that.
 
Well maybe its cuz they wanted to create a stable environment for their family/kids and usually at the age of 50, the kids are grown up?
 
Because every passing moment is a chance to turn it all around.
 
JasunStrikesBack said:
What the fuck are you talking about?

I'm 40 and I get laid a LOT. I'm not sure what you think about older men, but men in their 40s and 50s have plenty of sex. And often with younger men who like older men.
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Qft---(!)(!)(!)



I am seeing a 29 year old and get messaged on-line by guys much younger than that. I don't hold their age against them---as long as they can keep up. :D

I do prefer guys in their thirties and forties---but I always have.
 
the point is to LOL lol

Anyway people come out at that age because they are ready to have fun.
 
mydrew1 said:
The most important things in life are love, happiness, compassion and understanding. These inform our virtues.
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And thus the reason for my reply!!



To the OP if you really are interested as to why here is a whole thread with some pretty good reasons .
 
After a quarter century of indifferent relationship with my wife, we agreed to divorce. She is finally, happily married, and I am happily partnered almost 24 years to my man. I am happy too.

If you would like to PM me, I have journaled this in my blogs, and written extensively about it. I would not have it any other way. I have never been happier or more content, and the sex has been best these last 23 years.

Shep+:wave:..|
 
Hellosir said:
thanks elwood, those stories are amazing but kinda sad that some of them lost everything to find happiness
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As others have said, things were different 20, 30, 40+ years ago.

This is why I and many others here highly encourage guys in the Coming Out forum to come out. Now.

It's so different now. Much, much easier.
 
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