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I've wondered what kind of relationship would work for me. I'm not antisocial -- I can get along with people, one-on-one or in large groups just fine, socially and professionally. However, I do a lot better when I have solitude for "me" time. Being around other people 24/7 wears me out. Maybe a 3-day a week thing would work. Schedule it in and otherwise live in separate houses. :-)
 
I'm single because I have finally accepted that I'm gay, but have yet to come out to anyone. As such, I have no idea where/how to go about finding other gays around me, much less any who would want to deal with a closet case. That and I've never been proud of my body, so I don't imagine anyone else would be either :(.
 
I like the honesty in here. Well a friend told me the other day "you're single because nobody is ready for you."

I somewhat agree with that! I've got myself in order, I live life one day at a time.

I guess I just don't ever actively seek relationships, I assume everyone is straight so I probably miss any flirting directed at me, and I'm happy alone.

I'm just waiting for the lucky guy who comes up to me and blatantly hits on me. Whether he's Mr. Right or Mr. Right now. (to an extent, not looking for a hookup, but a brief relationship is cool)
 
I'm single because:

I'm very picky.

I live in a small town, where everyone knows everyone and I don't have the energy to import someone, which is what my friends do.

If I were willing to jump into another relationship with a girl, I'd be in one, but I've resolved to not do that because my actual attraction to women is debatable.

I'm tired of breaking hearts.

I lack the self-confidence to put myself out there.

There are other reason, as well.
 
I met someone a few years back and it looked like he was the man of my dreams that I have been waiting years for. I was so happy. One night we talked all night long, and it was official, we were a couple. He would one day move in with me. He was in a wheel chair at the time and my house would be hard for him to get around. He was in physical therapy and would some day walk again. At that time, he would move out of the assisted living home he was in and move in with me. Three days after it was official, he died of a heart attack. And my heart broke. I haven't had no interest in a relationship since. Maybe some day I will again.
 
coloradobottom said:
I met someone a few years back and it looked like he was the man of my dreams that I have been waiting years for. I was so happy. One night we talked all night long, and it was official, we were a couple. He would one day move in with me. He was in a wheel chair at the time and my house would be hard for him to get around. He was in physical therapy and would some day walk again. At that time, he would move out of the assisted living home he was in and move in with me. Three days after it was official, he died of a heart attack. And my heart broke. I haven't had no interest in a relationship since. Maybe some day I will again.
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That's horrible! I think you need this.... (*8*)
 
Single because it's the only way I'll get through life. Always single, always will be, won't change it for Mr Right. (that is a viable option you know)
 
some of us are simply fated to be alone in life.
 
I'm single because I am a sit duck, i don't look for any.
I'm single because i want a love like fairytale, however people on internet are so slutty and i am kinda beaten down.
I'm single because school is way too busy.
I'm single because i still live with parents (until next may i will go out of state for school)
I'm single because people are blind so they cannot discover me.
 
Many reasons....here are a few for starters...
  1. too shy. i would never approach someone.
  2. work-a-holic, work at home.
  3. don't meet new people very often. I normally just spend time with friends.
  4. i'm not into hooking up
  5. i'm an odd bunny - vegetarian, environmentalist, bi-racial, etc. I tend to not be interested in stuff that mainstream amercia is into. In fact, I find that stuff boring. Boy, if you could just see the look on peoples faces when I tell them that I don't drink alcohol: it is always a look like....'what a freak!' I have no idea why that is so important to people.
  6. i'm not religous
  7. i'm 41. once you hit 40 in the gay world, that is the end of the road to a lot of gay people.
  8. clique - it is difficult to find someone with similar interests, being that my interests are not typical.
  9. attraction - it is a requirement. just because someone has a penis does not mean that the other gay person has to find them attractive.
haha....seems almost impossible when looking at all of that....
 
I'm single because I'm afraid...

I think...
 
Ram said:
I will so date you.
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awwww....your soooo sweet! :kiss:

I saw Saawariya yesterday and Om Shanti Om before that. Saawariya reminded me of an Indian version of Moulin Rouge. I think that I actually enjoyed Om Shanti Om more. :)

Dang, it is difficult to get tickets. I'm so glad that I bought them online because everything was sold out at the Naz8 all weekend. I love that they actuall have Samosas at the snack bar. :gogirl:
 
That any relationship will turn into the relationships my mother had...
 
I'm single because I'm too scared to go out and meet gay guys! Twice I've been asked to go to a gay club with some friends but I always back out at the last minute. I'm so hopeless. :mad:
 
I know it's not my mother, it's just that relationships I've had so far always start to go that way, so I just cut it off before anyone gets hurt...
 
Me first ex left me because I had issues then. That was last year.

Never met anyone whom I fell head over heels until last month. And, this guy at this moment, looks like he's got issues to deal with. So, I guess that leaves me still single!
 
im single because all guys i've met (not many anyways) happen to be sluttie and bitchy u.u
 
:mad:well are you really interested??:confused:............i'm in central ct.now for the winter..........:( dont know anyone:help: work in a stop and shop!oops! am a florist:wave: and just want someone new and younger than I..| who just wants bed fun and nothing else*|**|*well just ask:kiss:
 
I'm single until the following happens (in this order):

1) I'm out to all my local friends (working on this - well, I've told one so far...).
2) I work up the nerve to ask out this guy I like, and see if he likes me back.
 
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