Know the feeling, bubba.
I'm told sexuality is a bit of a spectrum, people. I certainly believe that. We're "wired" to be stimulated. Some stimuli poke us in places we didn't know existed or might not have expected--anyone ever fall in love?

Usually creeps up on you, huh?
As a side note, it's been my experience that comfort and familiarity play a large role in almost anything we're willing to try. If we don't feel vulnerable or assailed, I find, we're often more flexible in our boundaries. Many times, fear is the only inhibiting factor. Or such has been my experience. After that, it seems to be a, "Meh, sure, why not?" mentality.
My personal quarrel with getting involved with a woman is all of the hurt feelings I've caused--not to pump myself up. To that end, I have to admit that, since coming out, the lack of interest on the ladies' part has been a bit of a chink to my vanity.
Nevertheless, it's a beautiful thing to see a woman with a look of pleasure on her face. It seems to me that women seem so much more sincere or comfortable with their pleasure. I dunno, they seem to
revel in it more than men. Men seem to
hunger for it.
My tastes would be Cate Blanchett or Kiera Knightly.