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For the last time: there is NO straight guy who engages in same-sex sex

sexual behavior versus sexual orientation.
look em up, different.
you take a sexual being and place them in an oppressive environment, such as jail, and sexual behavior takes over.
 
manformanfun said:
But aren't there women in the world that you would say "for one time, HELL YEAH!"???? Then are you bisexual?

I am a gay man! Let me repeat---I am a GAY MAN, but I can see an exceptionally beautiful woman, and have a fantasy over having sex with her. So if I have a fantasy and do not act upon it, am I GAY, or BI?

I have fantasies about handsome men a lot more than beautiful women, so by law of averages, I am GAY! And I have been with one wonderful man for over 20 years, and a good decade more of only men before him. But still, every now and then, there is a woman who gets me UP and READY!!

Explain to me where you would place me on the Gay, Straight, Bi meter.
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You are a bisexual (by definition) that attracted to men 75% of the time. However, you can call yourself whatever you want.
 
Nightcharm said:
Fantasizing and engaging are two different things. I have seen myself in sexual situations with girls before but I just know it's not my thing and I will never engage in sex with a woman.

As soon as you do engage in a sexual act with someone of the same sex then you're not straight [anymore].
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The question I pose is were they ever heterosexual in the first place?
 
It's hard for me to know where to come down to print on this subject. I was a 15 year old who was normally horny and got along splendidly with the girls but never allowed myself to be in a position where I might do something foolish. The foolish things that could happen we I could get a girl pregnant or I could contract some "social disease" and I carried a package of those things that were clearly marked as being "for the prevention of disease only"-- which I never used. My sexual models were all heterosexual, a whole small town full of them.

We were friends; we quickly became more than friends. Together we were two teens who were discovering things about our own sexuality that we would never have dreamed possible had we not had the privacy to pursue our explorations of the possibilities of male-to-male sex. The glow of our two years of homosexual lovemaking remains to this day although we have both settled down as married men, faithful husbands, good fathers and very closeted.

To make things clear I say I am not "ex" anything. I found out that I could enjoy sex in both the same sex and heterosexual settings. I had three same sex partners; so, was I a homosexual during those times? I don't know; I do know that I was engaged in homosexual activity. Today folks see me as conventionally heterosexual. I keep my mouth shut. Deep down I admit to myself and to my first lover (still my best friend) that I still get that old feeling when we are together.

Go figure. I say only that in my life all the sex has been beautiful.

Peace!
 
TierraSimms said:
The question I pose is were they ever heterosexual in the first place?
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lol. exactly!

from my experience, the actual number of 100% straight men in the world is a lot lower than what we're told. I can't tell you how many men who've never been with a guy before, wanna 'experiment' or develop a crush. I worked in construction after high school and had to deal with damn near the whole crew after my 17yo ass.

and that whole thing about men in jail having sex with men as part of 'sexual behavior'? I dont totally buy that. many men in jail refrain from having sex with other men for religeous reasons (muslims) or other reasons. its not a given that because you're in that environment you're gonna go after the dick...not if you're 100% heterosexual. I hate the idea of telling people what their sexuality is, but if I see a guy with his dick in some other guys butt, he ain't all straight to me....sorry.
 
TierraSimms said:
The question I pose is were they ever heterosexual in the first place?
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Well, society makes us think that we're all straight from the get go and then we "happen to find out" that we either aren't or are. I think it's best if we assume everyone to be bisexual and then once you hop into bed with someone of either sex we know where you stand.
 
What about the guy in the business suit that goes into a book store(porno shop),watching a str8 video and sticks his dick though the hole,and a hungry mouth is there? Is he gay now ?

He knows that a guy is on the other side of his booth,Yes. But all he cares about is busting a nut,or loves getting head,that his wife won't give him.

No He is not gay now,but he is happy gays live !
 
a man having sex with other guys are a frequent, from time to time, every once in a while basis, more than once - may be many things, but he is NOT straight
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Wow! Quite a statement....Also don't know the purpose of the post. I really don't think about it that much...Ben Affleck said it best from his interview in Details Magazine...."I tell ya, you fix one pipe, they don't call you a plumber - but suck one dick..."

I think you get the idea....We are too huge up on the "sexuality" of straight guys....It's what feels good and turns someone on...If a straight guy does stuff with another guy, who are we to say what they are..stgraight, gay, bi, bi-curios....I just hope they enjoy it.....
 
ah, labels... how about they're just erotic entertainers? anyway, why force feed people labels when they obviously don't need it?
 
This is from his interview with the magazine in 1999 when Armageddon was released....The entire interview is pretty cool....He is has a very cool attitude toward gays and who'd be his "homosexual crush".....Hopefully he is straigh because it would make his words that much cooler....His views are similar to my best friend and I love them both!!


wilehart1978 said:
Wow! Quite a statement....Also don't know the purpose of the post. I really don't think about it that much...Ben Affleck said it best from his interview in Details Magazine...."I tell ya, you fix one pipe, they don't call you a plumber - but suck one dick..."

I think you get the idea....We are too huge up on the "sexuality" of straight guys....It's what feels good and turns someone on...If a straight guy does stuff with another guy, who are we to say what they are..stgraight, gay, bi, bi-curios....I just hope they enjoy it.....
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letme said:
What about the guy in the business suit that goes into a book store(porno shop),watching a str8 video and sticks his dick though the hole,and a hungry mouth is there? Is he gay now ?

He knows that a guy is on the other side of his booth,Yes. But all he cares about is busting a nut,or loves getting head,that his wife won't give him.

No He is not gay now,but he is happy gays live !
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Tell him to go get a female prostitute. That's what they are for, are they not?
 
come on guys, so if a guy sticks his dick into a watermelon does that mean that he undoubtedly has to be sexually attracted to watermelons? sure, i would also love it if all straight men were in fact secretly bi but just because i would like that doesn't make it so..
 
When I was 15 I thought of myself as being pretty much like the guys I knew; for lack of a better term we thought of ourselves as "regular" (the term straight hasn't been around that long, right?

Well. given the right friend and the degree of privacy that good friends seek, my friend and I found ourselves bonding in friendship that extended for two glorius years. We were still regular fellows who had discovered a part of our sexuality that we thoroughly enjoyed. Distance put an end to our sexual activity and I next found myself bonding with a delightful young lady. That also ended when we both moved out of town but not together. Two subsequent "homosexual" long term relationship were similarly satisfying; today both of those friends are still in long-term relationships with men. I myself have settled down as a "regular" married man and seek no change!

I don't "fool around" while I am in a relationship, but I do admit that sometimes I do get that "old feeling" remembering the three wonderful men with whom I once shared a sexual bonding that is uisually described as homosexual activity.

Question: How shall I describe myself?

Am I a straight man who had a few lapses?

Am I a gay man who is just posing as a straight man?

Or may I describe myself as a man who has made the happy discovery that for me love with a man and love with a woman are each in their way wonderful?

Peace!
 
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