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For the moment I want to be alone sorry papi

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If you bf were to tell you this how would you take it?
Or better asked how would you interpret ALONE.
Alone for a day, need time to think, SINGLE... hmm iono
 
He said "for the moment". So I'm assuming he needs a break from you. I've never had this happen with a "guy" .. except in sex where I told him I need him to stop pounding me for a moment :D

But, seriously, in my relationships with females (relationships are usually relationships in all cases) that means they want a day or two to themselves... maybe you're including yourself too much into their personal time and they need a breather.
 
If I were to say this it just means I need some personal space for a bit, it doesn't mean anything bad, just me be honest about my needs, it doesn't reflect badly on the other person. Pleas respect his needs and then he will respect yours. We can't all be joined at the hip all the time, that just causes tension and resentment in my experience.
 
Well I spoke with him...

He doesn't want a relationship.

So that's that folks.

:(

We had a good run and good times. Now to manage the two trips I already have planned with him... grrrr
 
What matters is what you want.

If you want a relationship, take your business somewhere else.

Like maybe to a grown-up boyfriend?
 
Now he's saying he's confused and it's not that he doesn't want a relationship he just needs time...

So yeah, I'm just gonna give him space and keep everything cool and relaxed...
 
Well, I'd smack him for calling me "papi", but that's just me. :)

Other than that, I'd have no choice but to give it to him. Relationships require the consent of both parties, and if he's not ready right now to do it, then there's nothing to be done.

Lex
 
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