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For the Women of JUB: Would you Consider a Relationship with a Bisexual Man?

Re: A Question for Females about Bisexual Men

hey! I am not flaming anyone *pout* just offering my opinion from experience
 
This question is for the women. Would you consider being in a serious relationship with a bisexual man?

I'm curious if you think its important for a bisexual man to bring up his bisexuality early in a relationship. If he were to wait several months and then reveal he is bisexual would you feel he was being dishonest?

I feel bringing it up casually early into the relationship is a courtesy and shows honesty. Also, is a man's sexuality that important to you?

Serious responses only.Thanks!
 
hey there! :D

I have dated a bisexual man and he didnt tell me when we got together, I guess he never thought it was important and I didnt think to ask.

until the day I walked in on him watching gay porn....poor baby was so shell shocked! like a little naked bambi hehehe

he got upset and thought he was in trouble (bless) so we talked and everything was fine, I think its upto the individual to decide if they should be open about it up front, personally I think it saves a lot of panic/upset/hurt feelings/anger blah blah and everything else than can go along with that sort of revelation.

at least then you know how much of an issue, if any, it will be in the future.

and yes, honesty is the best policy, be up front and explain, if she cant deal....then its her problem and not yours, find someone open and mature enough to accept you for who you are
 
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Re: A Question for Females about Bisexual Men

OK, folks, chill. Everyone. Thank you.

I want to remind you that this is a NO FLAME ZONE. This is an interesting thread, and there have been interesting viewpoints expressed. But, don't make this personal. It's fine to disagree, but do so respectfully.

I've deleted 9 posts and edited out flames/attacks in several others. We're keeping an eye on this thread and if it trainwrecks again, we'll have to close it.

offtopic:
 
BeardedWoof said:
Like I wrote before, if you're dating a woman (or anyone really) and they don't accept you for who you are, they're not the right person for you to get into a relationship with.
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I agree. I've never had any trouble finding girls who are willing to date a bi guy.
 
Re: A Question for Females about Bisexual Men

lugus15 said:
^ Yeah, but that´s you, and you are 1 of, what??? roughly 3 billion females :roll:
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Yeah, thanks, I'm perfectly well aware I'm only one woman! :rolleyes: I made it perfectly clear that I'm speaking from my OWN perspective, not from the perspective of 3 billion women. But Romantico asked if any of the women who post here would be willing to date a bi guy, and I said yes. Romantico didn't ask 'would all 3 billion women in the world be willing to date a bi guy?'
 
Isn't this pretty well the same thread as another current one?! ;) (*8*)

And my answer's the same: yes, I would, and I'd want him to be totally honest and upfront about it.
 
Okay, I cleaned up the flames and off topic posts. Try to keep this on topic. I'm also going to merge it with one that is quite similar.

Please remember the no flame rules and just be adult in your response. Thanks.
 
I am glad the new thread romantico started to ask this question has been merged with the original one.

it is just a shame so much of the good advice was lost from the original thread :(

I hope this one stays civil, its a perfectly reasonable question, I see no reason for people to be aggressive toward each other
 
Tis the last post that I make in here (for now :lol:), and its directed to the OP.

I think its highly commendable that you want to be upfront about your bisexuality with the girl you are going to be dating. But I do think, at least it comes of that way, that you are highly insecure about being upfront and its consequences. The only way to know it, its trying it (and the truth is most girls are not that open minded)... If the girl doesn´t want to be with you then its her loss, not yours, and move on.

Btw, this thread got derailed when you posted that you could care less about gay men, and maybe you didn´t meant any harm by it, but that its highly offensive (specially considering that this is a GAY FORUM). But lets bygones be bygones.

That´s all :wave:
 
I'm not insevure at all. I am bisexual. Period. Its who I am. I don' want a girl who isn't open minded to accept me for who I am. If she won't accept me as a bisexual then she is not the one for me.Its that simple. I know someone who wants to be gay just to annoy his parents. I could never do that. I think there are alot of people who claim to be bi for all the wrong reasons.They are afraid. They want attention. They are not ready to come out of the closet.Or, like the person I know he was afraid if he were to tell his family he was gay they would cut him off financially,so he claims to be bi.

The post did not get derailed when I said I could care less about gay men. I said as far as arelationship goes I could care less about gay men because I want to be with a women. Don't misquote me.THATS why it got derailed.You say it was offensive. To Whom? You are a bisexual. Not one person took it that way. NO ONE. Where are all the gay JUB's with their pitchforks? You've been banned 3 times for offensive remarks so for you to come in here, misquote me and play the Gay advocate is the pot calling the kettle black my friend. I took your insults VERY personal and let you know it.Go look at all my other posts on other topics. I am more at home with gays and the gay community then I am with the hetero and take insult to your claims I am antigay.This topic is heading in a very bad direction again.

SInce I have asked for women to chime in and you have NOTHING to offer, with all due respect I can not see why you continue to "STIR THE POT". No reason to "soil" this topic just for attention. :badgrin:
 
aawwwwww, thats possibly the sweetest thing I have heard in months:D (which is kinda sad for me when you think about it hehehe)

your lucky to have an accepting wife, especially from your generation....no offence hehe just saying

(oh and its easy to be a shameless flirt on the internet, I do it all the time hehe)
 
ooooooooooooo mixed group hugs :D hehe kidding


(*8*):kiss:to you too and(*8*)for the very cool accepting wife

(oh and if I can have contact details for the guy you work with.....hehehe:badgrin:)
 
^^^^^^ Your wife knows you jerk off to men, right??? Cuz if she doesn´t, then my friend, you are not being 100% honest. :rolleyes:
 
whether she knows everything about what he does when he is not with her is besides the point, he was honest about his past, his experiences and his impulses when they met and later married, it has worked for them for.....how long Gets? 20 years or so?

couples dont need to know absolutely everything, he was honest up front before they got together, thats what is being discussed here......do you fess up before you get together, later down the line or keep it secret.

back to main topic now?

where are the rest of you females! I know your out there :D
 
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