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What is it like? What are your favourite things to do w/ your man?

Like cuddling in bed, watching movies, talking during dinner etc...

Give me an idea, cuz I've never been in a relationship. I wanna know how it feels!
 
I love laughing with him.

What we do in the bedroom is between us two.

Lex
 
It's nothing glamorous - definitely nothing they would make a TV show about.
We work. We eat. We vacation together. We care for our dogs. We make sure the mortgage is paid. But yeah, the bedroom stuff is ours.
 
What's it's like? When I get in my car to leave work at the end of the day, my heart feels drawn to home, to him.

I love how warm and strong his hand feels when he takes mine in his. I love being able to show affection to him in public, without shame or fear. It feels great to go to our favorite coffee shop or cafe and be recognized and respected as a couple and this is something I will never take for granted. I love knowing that we belong to each other exclusively. I love how he kisses me on the shoulder when we first wake up in the morning.

I love our nightly swims before bed.

I love him with all my heart!
 
there is not enough room here to post what we like to do together.

after 24 yrs together now going on 25,(*8*)

we enjoy everything we do together. we are joined at the hip, soul mates, totally devoted to each other. there nothing I can compare it to or discribe, it is the most awsome feeling to have.

I wish every one could enjoy something like we have.

but if I had to name 1 thing, besides everything else, I love the way my honey fucks me and makes me cum w/o touching my cock:sex:. we have sex aleast 2xs aday and sometimes on the weekend 3-5xs aday.:gogirl:
 
I love my partner of 11 years like I never thought I was capable of loving anyone. We have had some wonderful times, like all the ones described above. But I assure you, without a shadow of a doubt, it will also be one of the hardest things you ever do in life. Sticking with someone when they totally piss you off and the "thing" you loved about them becomes the "thing" you hate at that very moment.

The first 7 years of our relationship was awesome. We had our tough times and our insecurities almost did us in (I didn't think anyone really loved me, I just thought they loved the things I did for them, he was always waiting for me to abandon him). We had really tough 2-3 years after the first 7, but with counseling, sticking it out, sleeping in other rooms, and believe it or not our families actually held us together. Because I came out to my parents with him and he was a part of my life with them, I did not want to tell them I failed with my relationship with him. Similarly, I integrated with his family and he didn't want to tell his parents that he failed in his relationship. Further we had a house together, we owned cars, investments and ultimately we own our own business together - all these things bind you together and have been the glue during the tough times.

I don't want to rain on your parade here, but people think relationships are how you feel, but most normal people go through a time when they don't like person they once loved and had the most amazing sex, cuddling and other romantic times with.

Sticking it out has been rewarding and over the past year or two, we have blossomed again but we still have our moments - we just now live in the confidence that we are together forever.

Use these times when you have sex several times a day, the cuddling and the romance to get you through the tough times - but stick with it if it's healthy for both partners.

Also I believe the keys to a successful relationship are tying yourselves together legally (big supporter of gay marriage - think how much consideration you will give to leaving your partner if you have to court), get property together, involve your family in your life, co-mingle things so much that when the bindings get strained, unraveling these things will give you time to cool off and work through some of the tough times.

Getting off soap box!
 
Hello! I am glad you asked this question, I am in the longest relationship I have had (I am 23 now, been with my boy for a year and 2 months) and, in my opinion, the last relationship that I will ever have.
I am so in love with him and it is amazing when your relationship blossoms from just 'boyfriends' - a term that many gays throw around loosely - to "BEST FRIENDS' as well.
I can't imagine what I would do without him, he is away right now for today and I miss him so terribly.

Nautiboyjeff is absolutely correct, this does not come without the hard times! All relationships have hard times, but they are true tests of your devotion to each other. Couples that are not meant to last will call it quits after a spat over absolutely nothing.
Couples that have a future are the ones that will fight, be very very angry with each other, and then continue to love each other anyway.
Of course, you shouldn't be fightng ALL the time but arguments are NORMAL.

The things that I love are when we wake up in the morning and he rolls over and kisses my shoulder and snuggles up with me. I love laying there with him forever under the covers and clutching each other.
I love watching movies with him and sitting around and doing nothing together, just knowing that we are together.
I love when we don't talk and just watch TV, but there is no conversation needed because there is love in the air that we can both feel.

I love when we go out together and dance like two boys who have just met and dance like we won't see each other again.
I love knowing that somebody loves me unconditionally and it is also the person that knows me most intimately and personally.

Anyhow, relationships aren't for everyone, but that is what mine is like!
 
danniflava said:
What is it like? What are your favourite things to do w/ your man?

Like cuddling in bed, watching movies, talking during dinner etc...

Give me an idea, cuz I've never been in a relationship. I wanna know how it feels!
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All the above and the sex is AMAZING! (!) (!) (!)
 
My favorite things are the things we can depend on -- each other without hesitation. I love leaning into him after we've had sex, and dinner, and watching a movie. Just very ordinary, but it doesn't happen with a single other soul on earth for me -- that makes it very special.
 
besides the obvious ones that most people have mentioned here (i.e. cuddling / sex type stuff)..

i love cooking together with my bf. the thought of putting a bit of work from both of us into a meal is so satisfying.
 
It's all been pretty much said

Knowing I have someone to come home to

He takes me as I am - warts and all. And vice versa

Planning for the future and having a good time along the way
 
the things I like the most are lying in bed together or waking up in the morning with him there.

My relationship is also pretty new and there are upsides and downsides to being in a relationship and discovering things about your boyfriend/partner.
 
I've been with my other half for 10 years, almost. I just enjoy the smallest things, like his smile. Or when he looks at me wistfully. I like having supper with him and talking about our respective day. I like going to the dog park with him and the "kids."

The favorite part of my day, is laying in bed and holding him close. The feel of the warmth of his body next to me makes life all worth while.
 
Naughtiboyjeff said it really well.

I'm just starting a relationship now, but I've been in a few other longer term relationships. It's not all good times. But there have to be good times, otherwise it's not worth having.

I'm a very, very tactile person. I love touching and massaging and kissing--I could do this for hours, and sometimes do.

The beginning of the relationship is when you have sex at night and then again first thing in the morning. Enjoy that while you can!

Cuddling, groping, touching, feeling, licking--it's all good. To me, the best boyfriends are those who are most versatile, in every sense of the word. Sometimes I like to spoon him, but sometimes I like to put my head on his strong chest. Depends on my mood.

Explore as much as you can. Don't be afraid to call the shots once in a while, and don't be afraid to let him do it, either. Try new things all the time. They won't always be a success, but you learn more and grow closer as you discover more about each other--even as you change over the course of your life.

A relationship is a living thing. You're always learning stuff about him, and about yourself. Don't ever let it grow static. And don't let what others do force you into things you don't enjoy or are not comfortable with.

Enjoy!
 
Food, sex and movies. That's how we summarize it. My bf is right here, cuddling me from behind, so you can put cuddling on the list too :P
 
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