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For those single, available or simply with a clear mind

Do you believe you will ever find your soul mate?

  • Yes

    Votes: 20 64.5%

  • No

    Votes: 11 35.5%
  • Total voters
    31
I don't believe in "soul mates". To do so is to indicate that there is one - and precisely one - person out there for everybody, and all others aren't worth it. So when things aren't perfect in their relationship, people begin thinking this isn't the one, and get ready to dump him in favor of the next one, which hopefully will be THE one. The truth of the matter is that there are probably many people out there with which you could form a great, lifelong relationship with. I love my b/f, and I'd like to consider him my "life partner". Were we "soul mates"? Were we "meant to be"? Nah, I don't think so.

And yes, I know. It's much more romantic when two people are "destined" to be together, and the winds of fate blow them into each other's arms. Sorry. :P

Lex

* I'm not saying that people should stay in bad relationships. Just that people shouldn't expect relationships to be perfect.
 
G-Lexington said:
I don't believe in "soul mates". To do so is to indicate that there is one - and precisely one - person out there for everybody, and all others aren't worth it. So when things aren't perfect in their relationship, people begin thinking this isn't the one, and get ready to dump him in favor of the next one, which hopefully will be THE one. The truth of the matter is that there are probably many people out there with which you could form a great, lifelong relationship with. I love my b/f, and I'd like to consider him my "life partner". Were we "soul mates"? Were we "meant to be"? Nah, I don't think so.

And yes, I know. It's much more romantic when two people are "destined" to be together, and the winds of fate blow them into each other's arms. Sorry. :P

Lex

* I'm not saying that people should stay in bad relationships. Just that people shouldn't expect relationships to be perfect.
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What´s all that got to do with my question? A soul mate is not a travel to Disneyland... sheesh...
A relationship with a "soul mate" is one supposedly independent of nice moments, or bad moments, or not wanting to be alone, of those involved being nice, or not or whatever... all those elements are involved, but they are not recognizable as such in said relationship because it becomes something wholly different.
 
Well, it might be possible that there's a soul mate for me and I just havn't found him yet. But I keep looking everytime I go to gay places ;)
 
When I hear someone talk about their "soulmate", they almost never are referring to the person they're currently with...except in the earliest stages of the relationship, when they might hopefully state, "I think I mae have found my soul mate". I more often hear it from single people, in a wistful tone, saying they hope that, someday, they'll find their "soulmate"...that magical (and presumably nonexistent) solitary person who they are destined to be with.

I don't consider "soul mate" to be synonymous with "love of my life". I found one, and I don't believe in the other. :)

Lex
 
I did find a male soulmate, but he decided he wasn't Gay and married. Then I found a woman who was my soulmate, but it wasn't what I wanted #-o

I still think there's another one out there..|
 
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might you be willing to express the opinions of yourself especially since the "tell it all thread" the other day.

if one reads that thread and then looks at your question one is bound to inquire how your own question applies to yourself.

by the way, the thread the other day was probably one of the best things you have ever written - assuming its honesty was "honest" which it appeared to be.

you must admit their was a similarity to it to The Picture of Dorian Gray. unless i have miss-read both items. yours was just more vivid with out all the prose.

i often wonder when people pose questions of this nature in a thread what they expect to do with the information and or are they just engaging in general conversation. i think small.

small observations by the local village idiot which can be totally ignored.

eM.:(
 
Croynan said:
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might you be willing to express the opinions of yourself especially since the "tell it all thread" the other day.

if one reads that thread and then looks at your question one is bound to inquire how your own question applies to yourself.

by the way, the thread the other day was probably one of the best things you have ever written - assuming its honesty was "honest" which it appeared to be.

you must admit their was a similarity to it to The Picture of Dorian Gray. unless i have miss-read both items. yours was just more vivid with out all the prose.

i often wonder when people pose questions of this nature in a thread what they expect to do with the information and or are they just engaging in general conversation. i think small.

small observations by the local village idiot which can be totally ignored.

eM.:(
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Hey Croy, it´s half an hour since you posted that and you haven´t deleted it yet, are you all right?
BTW, you look cute in your new Supercroynan avatar :mrgreen:
 
I don't think I'll ever find a first love, let alone a love of my life.
 
Nope, not at my age, but on the other hand, I never rule anything out. I enjoy being single and at this point that suits me just fine.
 
belamy said:
Hey Croy, it´s half an hour since you posted that and you haven´t deleted it yet, are you all right?
BTW, you look cute in your new Supercroynan avatar :mrgreen:
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As you have already quoted me, i cannot have the posting in question removed. And besides i believe it says all i wanted to say and i notice that you have chosen to avoid the entire posting with the exception of the avatar. Tis new, on a trial run for the weekend and then we shall see - depends on various factors. Glad you approve - i really did not think people would notice, but i have been proven totally wrong. For now it shall be mulled over.:confused: :confused:

I am still debating, whether to post in your other thread. What do you think yes or just stay out of it.? I tried to save what i had written, but managed to lose it. It might at this point serve no practical purpose - a quandry.

eM.:(
 
Whenyou lose your soul-mate, then you understand what a soul-mate is. Until then, you know shit about what you believe!
 
I thought I did at one point. But he's gone. So I doubt it. Meaning, I've already had my soulmate. Beyond that, who knows.
 
saebuffyboy said:
I've got to believe he's out there somewhere. otherwise what's the point?
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The implication is that you need somebody to "complete" you, is that it?
Gay or straight I don't think so, but the so-called single life isn't for everybody either. I suppose it all comes down to what works for you.
 
1st love ron said:
The implication is that you need somebody to "complete" you, is that it?
Gay or straight I don't think so, but the so-called single life isn't for everybody either. I suppose it all comes down to what works for you.
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sorry if it came off that way. i just ment what's the point of dating etc. if not to find your soul mate.
 
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