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Found someone special

So you decided not to go abroad because you reconsidered your motives? How long would you be going abroad for?

How come you don't know if you are in a relationship or not?
 
Well, i was thinking of going as soon as next year. I just finished college you see, and when i was in college, i felt like i really wanted to fucking get out of this place asap. I felt like i didn't get to live because i was so deep in the closet. So I was looking for a 2nd chance.

If it's gonna happen, its going to be for a year or two. grad school. its not me reconsidering my motives, it's me accepting that my motives before were all crooked.

Actually, I'm confused. I think im acting the way im acting now is because I really feel like this dude is special. And I see myself sticking with him longterm. And i just dont want to send signals that i might not be worth 'investing' in now because of my youth and how these plans from before might play out.

well, we've been seeing each other for 2 months. no talk yet etc etc. i think it's too soon anyway. I enjoy what we have now, so i think that'll come later or better if it just happens naturally
 
I can totally understand how you feel Lucas07. I hope you can figure things out!
 
Okay.

So i forgot to give him something important yesterday. I helped his friend out with some stuff. so he rang me earlier, talked a bit then asked if he could get it from me today.

So i said, sure, maybe we can grab a quick bite which he agreed to. said he'll call me again later.

So he called, then told me that since he has this sched maybe he could just go here at my house and have coffee or something. Told him sure, he could meet my family. Kept asking me if i was sure if its okay. I took the plunge. of course it is.

If you guys have read before, he has been hinting at meeting my parents for a while now. I am not out to my parents. So this is so out of the blue for me to do.

I took a chance and said sure, come over, you can meet my family. So i did introduce him to my mom dad and bro. Fuck, i was all over the place. It's like i didn't know how to act or do. nervous wreck. Anyway, that was a huge step for me!

So we had some coffeee, did a bit of talking, but then he had to go back to work. Showed him my other phone which i got on the same network as him (which he has been bugging my about) and told him 'oh hey look its my dedicated line' which made him smile. So yeah, it's been good. He leaves tomorrow so i feel like all this is good timing. :)

He gets to think and whatever, but now he knows im serious about this whole thing. So serious i even introduced him to my parents ( i have already been getting questions about who he is )

So let's see how it goes :)
 
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