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...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of him

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So I'm seeing this boy...sorta. I really like him, he's sweet, smart, really cute, and tons of fun.

I know he's big on posting vids and pics all over the place, has a REALLY full facebook, youtube vids...and i was scoping this porn blog i frequent, and noticed this guy who had his room painted the same color as his...and a somewhat similar body, but i didn't think it was him...i checked it out...turns out it was.

He has 3 vids of him jerking and fingering himself on x-tube...he posted it like 2 days ago...and I"m not sure how i feel yet.

on the one hand...a little shocked...think its a little awkward...think its a little hot...a little jealous? i don't know.

i talked to my ex who is one of my best friends, and he said "who cares?" and reminded me that we both have done random slutty things like that too, VHS porn baby! lol, but mine were just shits and giggles, and the odd cam sessions with other boys..not WIDESPREAD xtube jerkoff porn.

what do you all think?

i also haven't seen/spoken to him in the past day or 2...no reason really, just haven't been online/around at the same times...and i'm not sure if i should bring it up or not?
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

I would bring it up and talk and find out what's what. Also, continue trying to figure out how you feel about it.
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

He's an exhibitionist. BFD.
He posted videos of himself on the internet. BFD.

Here's the problem:

...he posted it like 2 days ago...

...So I'm seeing this boy...sorta...


If you don't know what you have going with this guy, it's a problem. Either you're seeing him or you're not. There's no "sorta" seeing someone.

If the videos were posted 2 years ago, 2 months ago, 2 weeks ago... well, that might be different. But he's supposed to be dating you, so why would he post a video of himself 2 days ago if he has a boyfriend?

Well, that's the other problem- it sounds like he doesn't know he's "sorta" seeing you, either.

It sounds like the two of you need to decide exactly what kind of relationship you have.
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

hmmm, true.
i do need to have a talk with him in terms of if there is anything between us like that.

i am however not his boyfriend. we've only gone out together a few times.
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

iamthesean said:
hmmm, true.
i do need to have a talk with him in terms of if there is anything between us like that.

i am however not his boyfriend. we've only gone out together a few times.
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Well, this does clarify things a bit. If you've gone out with him a few times but you're not exclusive and the two of you have not made any sort of commitment- well, then there's much that you can say about his choices.

You're at a decision point- if you're wanting something more serious, then you're going to have to decide how comfortable you are with the issue of his naked self being viewed by other people on XTube. And that probably needs to be part of that talk that the two of you need to have.
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

I don't see the issue myself. I mean you obviously WATCHED that video among others. Isn't that a bit hypocritical? Is watching porn and jacking off better than taking a video of yourself jacking off? Shouldn't you be happy he wasn't takin it up the pooper by some other guy and posting it? He's only jerking off instead.
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

I agree - what's there to ponder? Nowadays, it's just as common as surfing the web, watching porn on the web, hookups on the web, etc.
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

would u mind post a link to xtube?
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

So it is okay to do some random slutty things on vid but not xtube jerkoff porn?

Get over yourself.

He's only done what you were too afraid to do from the sounds of it.

You have no right to be jealous or anything else.

If it someohow offends your sense of morality, then say nothing and move on. It doesn't seem, as Kara pointed out, that you are too invested in him anyway.
 
Re: ...Found the guy i'm seeing's X-tube porn...of

Yep. If you're only "seeing" him and he's no boyfriend, then it's none of your business to be upset about it. It's a hobby that boosts his ego. He enjoys getting comments from perverted men who get off on his vids.

Here's an idea. Enjoy his videos yourself? :lol:
 
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