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Friend keeps being sexual with me

tallguy23

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So I have a new friend of mine (known each other 3-4months) and we get along. Mainly go to bars together and hang out, drink, and check out guys.

However he keeps being sexual and flirty with me and I've told him numerous times that I just want to be his friend. He'll do things like touch my chest, ask to see nude photos of me, and he even invited me over one night because he wanted to cuddle and nap together (I didn't go of course).

He apologized and said he was just lonely and actually does just want to be friends. However, this behavior had continued.

I'm not sure exactly what to do. Any advice?
 
Jump his bones then dump him.

Though to be serious for a minute, sit him down and explain how you feel and ask him to respect your boundaries, if he continues, i refer you to the top of my post.
 
He has a crush on you and is being persistent in the hope you'll give in. If you make a threat to end the friendship you'll have to follow though or you'll be ending a mixed message.
 
My advice is to back off slowly.....

Find a different guy to hang out with....

You could always be direct and to the point with him but in my experience...it is not usually a good idea afterward unless you want to listen to manipulative excuses and denials.....
 
I've been dealing with a "straight" married friend who sends mixed signals and I eventually realized all of his weirdness was clouding our friendship. I can have plenty of friendships that aren't marred by something like that. I don't even know what I'd get out of a relationship where a friend kept being sexual with me other than maybe an ego boost. Yeah, if he can't respect your boundaries, it isn't a friendship. And is this an indictment of most men in general? That they think we should care so little about sex that all it takes is persistence?
 
Give him my phone number......:lol: Really, I would let him know your boundaries and if he still persists, well gradually stop hanging out with him.
 
He likes you and really wants to get in your pants....wants more than friendship, right now. I think he's just saying what you want to hear in hopes that he'll eventually catch you off guard or vulnerable, and get with you. Maybe if you are persistent he'll get past this, maybe not. Watch for signs. Does he stare at you? Cock block? Over-insinuate himself into your life...like calling at weird times or need to know what you're doing 24/7? etc.?

If you want to keep him as a friend, then do what you can to hook him up with other guys when you're out at bars....might help him get his mind on someone else, and out of your pants. ;)
 
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