Friend wants piece of me?

[Blewboi101]

Any other thoughts on this?

 

[RRRalph]

Any other thoughts on this?

Wait! Plan your next move after his reaction when you tell him you are gay (or bisexual - dunno what you are).

 

[joejoesmoe]

Well, he likes movies, right? Why don't you put on a porno one time. See what happens. Go to the shop, get a mini collection, ya know lesbo stuff and straight stuff. See what he prefers. If he picks the straight stuff, you know at least he doesn't mind cock. Go for it man. Dude, for a guy to want to lay on your bed night after night and watch movies with you must mean something. When do you see 2 straight guys just laying in bed together, especially since you've known him for only a month. Go with the porn, tell us what happens.

 

[Singularity]

OK, let's do a recap:

- he likes to hang around on your bed
- he likes to reveal some skin in your presence
- he told you he'd be all over you if you had boobs
- he likes to wrestle

To me that sound like he's giving you the green light but isn't quite how he should act on it. Some of the advice here sound just right. I say you should initiate a harmless pillow fight and hope it'll lead to wrestling. You never know where it might lead. If not today then tomorrow.

Boy, what I would do to be in your position.

 

[Caution]

while you are on your bed, show some crack or drop something and bend down to get it whle you are on the bed.

 

[Blewboi101]

Hey guys. Thanks for the replies!

I have a good update for now. Last night we went to watch a movie right, he then wanted to go back to my place. as always we watched some tv. and yes I did run some porn past him (some soft core crap) and he didnt seem to mind really.

It became really late like 12:20 and its in the week so I offered to take him home or if he doesnt mind he can sleep over and ill take him back early. He agreed and we went to sleep on my bed. After about half an hour I Noticed he sorta moved closer to me, I was on the far side of the bed so it seemed odd because he had allot of space (its queen size bed). then i turned around and faced the other way, I then after about 5 min felt his chest tightly pressed against my back he then after 6sec turned around and lied with his back very very close to me. THEN! after 40 min he turned around on his back so that part of my arm was behind his shoulder and my knee behind his upper leg, we laid like that for like an hour or so. VERY HOT! this ordeal went on for hours, at about 4:30am I jus went to sleep.

I could sense that he was quite awake when he moved about, because he had shallow breaths. I probably had like a hundred hardons!!

Please tell me what you guys think! what should I do? do you think his too scared to make the first move?

Thanks for the help.

 

[RRRalph]

I have a good update for now... we went to sleep on my bed.

1. After about half an hour he moved closer to me.
2. After about 5 min felt his chest tightly pressed against my back.
3. After 6sec turned around and lied with his back very very close to me.
4. After 40 min he turned around on his back so that part of my arm was behind his shoulder and my knee behind his upper leg.
5. I could sense that he was quite awake when he moved about, because he had shallow breaths.

What should I do? Do you think his too scared to make the first move?

Hey Blewboi,

The answer to your thread question is cristal clear. Yes, your friend definatley wants a piece of you! The update really proves that way. I think it's you that is scared to make the next move! He already made the first move by giving you hunderds signals to stay over in your bed and sleeping that close to you knowing that he's awake. You should make the next move. Plan another movie night and i know he'll be glad to sleep over. When you're under the sheets touch his chest and make compliments on how it feels and i assure you that it'll be a long and hot night. Good Luck!

Ralph

 

[Blewboi101]

Hey Blewboi,

The answer to your thread question is cristal clear. Yes, your friend definatley wants a piece of you! The update really proves that way. I think it's you that is scared to make the next move! He already made the first move by giving you hunderds signals to stay over in your bed and sleeping that close to you knowing that he's awake. You should make the next move. Plan another movie night and i know he'll be glad to sleep over. When you're under the sheets touch his chest and make compliments on how it feels and i assure you that it'll be a long and hot night. Good Luck!

Ralph

Thanks for your reply. It is a great idea. HOWEVER, he has spoken abouth gay guys before, and told me: this one time a guy tried to touch him and he acted negatively. But I think he's just putting up a front. Also he doesnt drink often.

But if he does it again (sleep in my bed), ill try and ly so that my arm lays on his chest.

I laid with my hand slightly touching his ass, and he laid like that for about 10 mins he then turned over slightly- rolled back and gently compressed my hand with his hard ass twice! What dis he mean with that?

O MANNN I wanna touch him!

 

[[Ocean]]

If you still have doubts, which I don't think you should...

Since watching movies seems to be your thing, maybe you should pop a really gay movie, like Brokeback. NOT porn And if he's getting all hot and bothered during the sex scene or all teary and sad at the end, well...

 

[RRRalph]

It is a great idea. HOWEVER, he has spoken abouth gay guys before, and told me: this one time a guy tried to touch him and he acted negatively. But I think he's just putting up a front. If he does it again (sleep in my bed), ill try and ly so that my arm lays on his chest.

I think the reason he acted negativly was that he didn't like THAT guy and not guys in general. I think he's up for some experinces and want you to be the one to do the job.

I laid with my hand slightly touching his ass, and he laid like that for about 10 mins he then turned over slightly- rolled back and gently compressed my hand with his hard ass twice! What dis he mean with that?

It's sooooo obvious, really it is. He wants you to touch him. Provide him that pleasure. You should touch him, his ass, his cock... make it hard. Maybe jerk him off, suck him off if he let's you. Maybe a fuck is too soon. But that would be a nice start.

 

[KennyD]

Well , very good experience going there ... I'd get a movie like Brokeback Mountain, and two Hardcore Porns ..one Gay and one str-8 .... Then tell him to pick from one of the three that you will have laid out ... Then take it from there ...
IF he stays the night and sleeps in your bed .. just cuddle up beside him with your arm around him for a few and see how he reacts .... Ya' might even let your hand come to rest just at his waitsline ...
By the way ..what were ya'll sleeping in ? Boxers or Briefs etc ?
Good Luck !!

 

[Blewboi101]

Well , very good experience going there ... I'd get a movie like Brokeback Mountain, and two Hardcore Porns ..one Gay and one str-8 .... Then tell him to pick from one of the three that you will have laid out ... Then take it from there ...
IF he stays the night and sleeps in your bed .. just cuddle up beside him with your arm around him for a few and see how he reacts .... Ya' might even let your hand come to rest just at his waitsline ...
By the way ..what were ya'll sleeping in ? Boxers or Briefs etc ?
Good Luck !!

I was sleeping in my boxers.

 

[BlueStreaker]

Yeah, just take your time, and don't do anything that would make him feel forced into doing something. You know you want to do it, but maybe he's not quite ready, so kinda nudge the situation that way and let him initiate whatever act will eventually happen. Touching is good - but just don't go too quickly, maybe run your hand through his hair if the opportunity arises, if you end up sleeping in the bed maybe put your arm (or both!) around him, see what he does. If he doesn't react negatively, maybe try pressing your crotch or ass against his body and see what he does.

It definitely sounds like you might be able to get it going, good luck!

 

[synch]

I wish some guy would stay over and sleep in my bed. I'd be over him like white on rice. The closest I would get is my buddy sitting next to me on my bed or him shaking his ass at me.

 

[marc1957]

If he drinks alcohol you guys can have some or he can and it will make him more relaxerd than he is and I think this will break the ice about what his intentions really are with you.

OR have a gay nude magazine laying around in the bathroom for example and see if he says anything..or rent a bi movie..with 2 guys making out and a girl..I bet you anythig he'll get hard and will want to jerk off with you.

 

[sexy_honey75]

pretend you're sleeping and see what he does. If he goes to touch you or something, wake up and go for it or call the police lol.

 

[john71]

or call the police lol.

 

[Just1Cool]

Update Blewboi?

 

[billybob109]

no 1. any guy who sleeps in a bed with a friend is gay!! i say wrestle with him and when you got a hard- on put his hand on your hard on and see where it goes form their

 

[tylerhart]

no 1. any guy who sleeps in a bed with a friend is gay!! i say wrestle with him and when you got a hard- on put his hand on your hard on and see where it goes form their

is this true? i have a hot straight friend who sleeps over on my house on my bed for so many times already. of course i have desires for him but i was afraid of doing anything to ruin our friendship. but lately i have been very adventurous and ive been touching his body/getting close to him at several opportunities and i even managed to stroke the outline of his cock while he was "sleeping" a couple of times. (i know its bad but i have been wanting him for years now)

im almost positive that he knows about it but he doesnt give any comment, do you think he'll be willing for me to go much further or maybe he's also afraid of rejecting me lest our friendship be destroyed?