Friend wants piece of me?

[Singularity]

im almost positive that he knows about it but he doesnt give any comment, do you think he'll be willing for me to go much further or maybe he's also afraid of rejecting me lest our friendship be destroyed?

Tylerhart, your friend most definitely wants you to go a bit further. Even though he thinks he's straight, he definitely is curious and comfortable enough to explore his gay side with you.

I say go for it.

 

[Blewboi101]

Update Blewboi?

Yep! he slept over again last night. We were extremely tired and hot, so there wasnt really any mood for anything, although i have noticed this morning that he would ly and just watch me while I "sleep" and i would do the same.

I would lie still on my back, last night and look really hot for him, all open and waiting but he wouldnt make a move, maybe his waiting for the right moment?

maybe i should just cover my balls in chocolate! and see what happens.

Oh, and he didnt wear a shirt all night.

 

[Singularity]

Damn, opportunity was knocking and none of you opened the door.

OK, next time offer him a massage, or when he sleeps over again cuddle up "by accident".

Damn, dude, do something! He sure wants to.

 

[skaterboi]

Not sure what you guys are on, you know just get some porno out slap it on and see how it goes... you're having a fucking laugh right?

Mate it sounds like you're both afraid to make the first real sexual move, don't blame you at all if I was in bed with a really hot guy who I liked I would be afraid to incase I was reading the signals wrong. It really does sound like hes into you and wants to fool about.
Next time you have him over put the heating on so that you know hes going to take his shirt off and so you have an excuse to take yours off. Start watching a film and rest your head on his chest see how he reacts, if he doesnt push you away or move away from you then I would dare to say your in their.
Look up into his eyes and make eye contact for a few seconds, if he recipricates and stares back at you move slowly forward towards his face (but not overly obviously), if he doesnt go to give you a kiss stretch as if your neck was hurting, change the position you're lying in and cut your losses.
Hes either just playing with you, or not really interested.
Alternativly, next time you're both lay their put your hand on the inside of his leg and look at him and give the cheeseyest wink you can if that its an invitation for a bit of fun then hes proably as straight as can be.

 

[Spiff]

Yep! he slept over again last night. We were extremely tired and hot, so there wasnt really any mood for anything, although i have noticed this morning that he would ly and just watch me while I "sleep" and i would do the same.

I would lie still on my back, last night and look really hot for him, all open and waiting but he wouldnt make a move, maybe his waiting for the right moment?

maybe i should just cover my balls in chocolate! and see what happens.

Oh, and he didnt wear a shirt all night.

Now this is just getting ridiculous. What next? You both lie on your bed totally naked without either one making a move? Seriously, it's time to shit or get off the pot, else soon you will have nothing left except a sore ass, figuratively speaking.

 

[Just1Cool]

I would lie still on my back, last night and look really hot for him, all open and waiting but he wouldnt make a move, maybe his waiting for the right moment?

maybe i should just cover my balls in chocolate! and see what happens.

Oh, and he didnt wear a shirt all night.

Maybe you should jump on top of him and start licking his nipples and see what happens.

 

[Blewboi101]

very strangely, He has metioned that when he slept on a bed with his roomate he didnt mind when his roomate moved about and sometimes ly with his arm over him.

another maybe quite important signal, is that when his next to me, he sometimes holds his hand in the air almost asif his ready to touch my leg, but it could just be a habit?

I think next time were in bed, im definately going to "while sleeping" ly very close to him and try to cuddle, the worse thing he could do is just move away.

But you guys understand that its quite difficult, I dont want to make him mad or lose him as a friend. But I SOOO badly want this manly scented lumberjack to play with.

 

[nufanm]

i agree! it's pretty exciting to read. it's like my new favorite tv show or something and i'm just waiting for something to happen!

make a move or forget it. a part of me is begining to think that maybe u're just joking and laughing your ass off at all of us who are bitting out nails wanting to know what's going on.

i understand it's hard and scary but dude! c'mon! if you don't get on it maybe he'll drift away. i guess i'm just too upfront about things. i would've done something by now.

 

[KennyD]

Yep; I've seen Soap Operas that were duller than this ... I await the next installment to see how they are progressing ... BUT; do it in a subtle manner ....
How about you pretend that your lower back is bother you and ask him to "Massage" your back ... Then; take off your pants and let him do your neck, sholders, back, and hips ... .... then see where that leads ...

 

[RRRalph]

The answer to your thread question is cristal clear. Yes, your friend definatley wants a piece of you! The update really proves that way. I think it's you that is scared to make the next move! He already made the first move by giving you hunderds signals to stay over in your bed and sleeping that close to you knowing that he's awake. You should make the next move. Plan another movie night and i know he'll be glad to sleep over. When you're under the sheets touch his chest and make compliments on how it feels and i assure you that it'll be a long and hot night.

Hey Blewboi!

I'm still convinced that he's into you, actually we all know. What i know about you is that you have trouble to make your move. Maybe you should start at the very beginning, the affectionate touch. Try to cuddle like you said before, lay your hands over his body, lay your legg over his leggs or lay as two spoons close to each other by sleeping against his body, your (naked) back against his (naked chest) and if you dare your ass against his cock. You can do it. Keep us posted!

Ralph

 

[Blueboy369]

Blewboi,
I know how you can break the ice. Place something next to his side of the bed on the nightstand or on the floor. When you guys are laying in bed, reach over him to get it. Your body will be on top of his while you reach for it. When you're done say "That felt nice, you mind ? If he says "not at all" cuddle up next to his chest. Good luck. Also, I think he gave you an open invitation when he said his roomate would put his arm around him......Make your move.

Blueboy369.

 

[TierraSimms]

It's kind of obvious that he's sexually curious. The description of his body language over the past few weeks hints to the likelihood of him wanting to experiment with you.

 

[kniteowl]

Damn bro you sure are letting it all pass by!!! He does have something towards you, next time he spends the night at your bed get closer to him, accidentally put your arm against his chest or touch his body he might then make the move.

 

[Blewboi101]

Hey Guys, Ive set up a date for tomorrow night for us to watch a scary movie together, I totaly think he has ideas of sleeping over, why would he want to come to my place from 6pm? Hold thumbs for me!

Anouther thing. Why does he hold his hand up in the air (from the elbow up "like an L", when he lies nex to me sometimes, it feels almost asif he wants to put his hand on my leg. WHAT SHOULD I DO???????? Help!!

 

[iamthesean]

just grab his hand, and hold it...if he reacts in any kind of way, just play it off like you are wondering why he does it and ask him "why do you always do that?" otherwise, enjoy holding his hand

i'm not the best for advice on this kinda thing...my very straight, very bestest friend is SOOOO affectionate, and always wants to cuddle, and sleep together (we used to camp/go to conferences etc a lot, where he coulda slept anywhere/in sleeping bags) and we'd put them together.

but yeah, don't be afraid to test the waters, and be friendly about it, at the very least, you'll keep your friendship, and maybe even get a fun/intimate sexless friendship with lots of love

good luck!

 

[RRRalph]

Why does he hold his hand up in the air (from the elbow up "like an L") when he lies nex to me sometimes, it feels almost as if he wants to put his hand on my leg.

The hand in the air is nothing special i think. From time to time i do the same for no reason, i don't even know it's in that position.

Ive set up a date for tomorrow night for us to watch a scary movie together. Hold thumbs for me!

Good luck with another movie night and remember the affectionate touch:

Try to cuddle or lay your hands over his body or lay your legg over his leggs or lay as two spoons close to each other by sleeping against his body, your (naked) back against his (naked) chest and if you dare your ass against his cock. You can do it.

 

[ekahfed]

i'd go for it.

 

[Spiff]

It would be funny if he uses the internet as much as you, and he is also a JUB member, and, he even has replied to this thread, encouraging you to make the move on him without giving up his identity. Not so farfetched as it sounds.

 

[Blewboi101]

Hey guys.

Yep, he slept at my place again wednessday and last night!!!
Wednessday night he didnt really do that much, we watched the scary movie, and at about 1am we went to sleep. he again laid quite close to me with his back. Then I laid so that i was right behind him, almost a spoon position, I took my knee and gently pressed it against his ass! and made very subtle movements. I then made asif I was knoding off with my head very slowly coming close to his back of his shoulder! first my nose them my lips touched his shoulder, so I had my lips on his shoulder the whole time, and I just know he was awake. we were lying like this for about 10min then he moved around.

Last night, He was lying facing me, watching me in the almost completely dark room, while i was lying on my stomach. He kept on making these faint sex noises, but he always does this when I move.

Oh, and I made him feel my abdominal muscles, thru my shirt. I know he liked that.

I really think I should take this thing slowly and see what happens. but i think the hand on the cock "accidentally" . could work for this situation.

what do you guys think?

 

[innocentbychoice]

Hey guys.

Yep, he slept at my place again wednessday and last night!!!
Wednessday night he didnt really do that much, we watched the scary movie, and at about 1am we went to sleep. he again laid quite close to me with his back. Then I laid so that i was right behind him, almost a spoon position, I took my knee and gently pressed it against his ass! and made very subtle movements. I then made asif I was knoding off with my head very slowly coming close to his back of his shoulder! first my nose them my lips touched his shoulder, so I had my lips on his shoulder the whole time, and I just know he was awake. we were lying like this for about 10min then he moved around.

Last night, He was lying facing me, watching me in the almost completely dark room, while i was lying on my stomach. He kept on making these faint sex noises, but he always does this when I move.

Oh, and I made him feel my abdominal muscles, thru my shirt. I know he liked that.

I really think I should take this thing slowly and see what happens. but i think the hand on the cock "accidentally" . could work for this situation.

what do you guys think?

The only thing I'm thinking is I WANNA KNOW MORE!!! I hope things happen between both of you.

BTW, I think taking it slowly it's the right way to do it. And as everyone has said, wrestle him, make some more physical contact. You can even pinch his nipples or even grab his cock like it's a joke, str8 guys do it all the time.