Friend wants piece of me?

[evilmonkey]

Hey guys.

Yep, he slept at my place again wednessday and last night!!!
Wednessday night he didnt really do that much, we watched the scary movie, and at about 1am we went to sleep. he again laid quite close to me with his back. Then I laid so that i was right behind him, almost a spoon position, I took my knee and gently pressed it against his ass! and made very subtle movements. I then made asif I was knoding off with my head very slowly coming close to his back of his shoulder! first my nose them my lips touched his shoulder, so I had my lips on his shoulder the whole time, and I just know he was awake. we were lying like this for about 10min then he moved around.

Last night, He was lying facing me, watching me in the almost completely dark room, while i was lying on my stomach. He kept on making these faint sex noises, but he always does this when I move.

Oh, and I made him feel my abdominal muscles, thru my shirt. I know he liked that.

I really think I should take this thing slowly and see what happens. but i think the hand on the cock "accidentally" . could work for this situation.

what do you guys think?

Start by renting a straight porn (since he is at least attracted to women since he dates them but is probably bi) and leave it out so he sees it. If he doesnt suggest putting it on, you can suggest it when your ready to put on a movie. Get into bed and wear loose fitting boxers and make sure your hardon gets "accidentally" noticed. If he doesnt get offended make it obvious. He may follow your lead and do the same. You may even sneak in a stroke on yourself here and there and make sure he catches you. If he does get offended your can blame the hetero porn for the arousal and no damage done to the friendship. Good luck man.

 

[nightmarez]

hey blewboi,

listen to my words, didnt you tell us that he has a masculine body? If so then when u'r lying in your bed after a movie, just start bed-chatting about something both of you have in common. Then say between words 'by te way, how come you've those abs? Do you go to the fitness or is it self trainig." then allow hime to spread the word. Then watch the right time to touch his chest by your hand so fast and say "gosh, look that u'r well fit, damn really i need to do some exercise by now for my favour" Sure he'll enjoy this touch. But have this convo after putting the heat on so he is shirtless again.

Trust me. It's really good technique. And dont doubt about wheter it is ok or not. Really almost all of st8 guyz like to be bragged, and it is not the strange way to touch his abs while in such a convo as long as u give out the message that u'r just checking them.

 

[phoenix72]

i would ask and see if he's interested in you...if he's not at least you'll know straight up without any question.

 

[synch]

Oh, and I made him feel my abdominal muscles, thru my shirt. I know he liked that.

Oh, how did this happen. Details. Honestly, I think he is interested. Just take things slow. You may freak him out by moving too fast if he isn't ready.

 

[Singularity]

This thread is SOOOO fucking hot..................
It's better than the best mystery except the commercials are too long!
LOL

Yeah, screw Nancy Drew and show me the honey!

 

[Spiff]

I'm starting to have doubts about the potential here. Two grown men (I assume) always sleeping together in the same bed. If nothing hasn't happened yet, then I'm starting to think at least one of you simply isn't interested sexually. It's almost kind of creepy now, in a Michael Jackson kind of way. You are always having these sleepovers with ulterior motives, but the "boy" is just off-limits (or just dumb as a bag of hammers). It's time you prove me wrong.

 

[hermanding]

after your second message on spending the night, he wants something from you. by all means, another movie - maybe a couple of beers - and back to bed - and this time - face TOWARD the fucker
ding

 

[nufanm]

update please!!!

 

[Blewboi101]

update please!!!

UPDATE so far...

Well, he slept here again last night. and I have managed to lie very close to him with my arm against his elbow, i very gently started to move my fingers towards his crotch area (he was lying on his stomach), trying to very slightly get my fingers to where his cock was under him, obviously I did this very slowly. But one thing i know for certain is he was awake. I kept my hand close, but not touching it. and moved my fingers very slowly. He didnt budge. after about 8min he turned.

This morning, he told me that he can remember that he accidentally laid with his back against mine, so I replied that i couldnt remember, and i really couldnt.

I was sleeping in my sleeveless shirt, revealing my muscles, and he didnt wear any shirt.

 

[digitaldude5]

This is just aching to read and wanting that one success update every time...

He's single and he's sleeping in YOUR bed, and making assumptions that he'll be sleeping over pretty much whenever you get together (i infer this from what I gather). You... really need to just kiss him. Like someone said before, leave something on the other side of the bed, and go to reach for it over him, and just in one fluid motion, go for it, and just peck him on the way over. Either that or tell him how YOU feel about him... It really needs to be put out in the open some way or another.

 

[RRRalph]

I was sleeping in my sleeveless shirt, revealing my muscles, and he didnt wear any shirt.

From now on you sleep at least shirtless like he does, preferbly naked but i don't think you are up for that, cuz you seems to like things slowly.

I very gently started to move my fingers towards his crotch area trying to very slightly get my fingers to where his cock was under him.

You should take the next step my friend. That guy sleeps more in your bed than in his own! You pass the affectionate touch, time for sexual touching!! Coress his arm, back, ties, preferbly inner ties and ass.

 

[Singularity]

OK, this is driving me nuts, really. He's sleeps over several nights. He has started taking his shirt off. he won't budge for a while when you "accidentally" touch him.

DO something already! Hell, do anything possible to get really up-close to him and maybe even look into his eyes. Say something to him, give him a compliment, offer him a massage. I don't care what, but DO something already!

If it were me, I'd have him already, and I'm very shy in general.

 

[RRRalph]

OK, this is driving me nuts, really. He's sleeps over several nights. He has started taking his shirt off. he won't budge for a while when you "accidentally" touch him.

DO something already! Hell, do anything possible to get really up-close to him and maybe even look into his eyes. Say something to him, give him a compliment, offer him a massage. I don't care what, but DO something already!

If it were me, I'd have him already, and I'm very shy in general.

Hahhaha, i know what you mean. Everytime i read the update i exhale long a couple of times. Personally i would done something loooooooong time ago. I try to think along with blewboi in his sloooow approach, which isn't easy. But not all people are the same. He's not like us and we should respect that.

 

[PeterPeterPeter]

I had a similar experience...actually a couple of times & I let it go (I was very young)...but this is what I'd do.

Tell him that for some reason you find you are starting to be attracted to him & it's making you feel uncomfortable, but you want to be open about it & if he feels uncomfortable maybe you shouldn't see each other so much for a while.

He'll either back off or move towards you.

If he backs off it's not such a bad thing (a good thing really as it's driving you nuts) and you can then move on & find someone who does want to be with you.

 

[nightmarez]

umm dunno but this thread started to be more story-ish coming out of reality, just alike a fantasy. am i wrong? Someone, been suspected that he is keen on you, did not respond you when you touched his cock?! Dunno but there sould be a prob in your side or his, isnt it interesting to say your friend after a nite's sleep that you laid with ure back against him? If no problem exists then I would save that fact to me...

 

[radical matt]

Hm...maybe it's just cause I'm not gay, but I would not kiss him, suck him, or rub your dick on him like people are telling you.

You really like the guy, if nothing else, you like him as a firiend. So you should keep in mind that you do want him as a friend if nothing else. WITH that in mind, doing things slow like you are is cool. If he takes off his shirt when he's there, wait a few minutes, then take yours off (that way it won't look like you're "overeager" to do it and were just waiting for him to do it so you could rip yours off.) If you're both sitting on your bed watching a movie, if it's boring or if you start getting tired, just lean up against him (not his chest, not his back, just your shoulder against his shoulder). If you're in a playful mood, just lean over and sorta slam into him (not body slam, just playful slam) to do it, whatever. Same thing if you're laying down; just some way you can be leaning where your touching him and he's at least party supporting your weight. If he says something about it you can say you were messing around or just got tired and then lean back the other way or something. (By the way, that would also work if you're both (or one of you) wearing a shirt.)

The sleeping thing works REALLY well since you can roll over to him or he can lean against you or whatever. You might try sometime having your back to him and being far enough away that you can roll all the way over where your chest is against him and just kinda fling your arm over like it was because of you rolling, and just lay it there limp over him as if you were actually sleeping.

The wrestling is also a good idea, and you might make comments about how muscular he is. Get him to flex his arms and you can feel of the muscle on his bicepts, and you might be able to get him to do the same with his chest and abs, and then you can do the same and get him to feel of it, and if he's more muscular than you, you can ask him for tips or stuff. Most straight guys (or guys in general) like being complimented on their musculature and the admiration of their muscles being tested (touched) while flexing, and most of them don't mind doing it back as long as they think it's just friendly flexing and touching...and the asking for tips on working out/eating is good cause most guys, even very homophobic ones, like to help another guy out with tips like that (besides it makes them feel very smart and accomplished.)


If nothing else, you have a friend that likes you as a friend, and doesn't mind light physical contact, leaning against each other, even skin against skin, while you're sleeping, and maybe even hugging or other physical contact that's friendly and touching, but not inherently sexual. Love versus lust. Consider yourself lucky, few people have a friend like that.

I'll say that I don't know about this stuff, but all the stuff I've said is "non-threatening" to all but the most homophobic guys. If you try kissing or touching his leg or nipples or dick, those are all much more sensitive things and can be mistaken for "gay" much easier than simply leaning on another person or showing off your muscles to each other. Just keep that in mind. Although if you, or both of you, wanna do more...well, that I can't help you with (I haven't gotten there yet myself either. ^_^)

 

[andyspete]

I agree with Radical Matt's take on this. The only thing I would add is to at least take some action. It's obvious your friend is not going to make any more moves. The next move is yours. How about just walking up to him and giving him a hug and thanking him for being your friend? And hug him close and lovingly and while doing so, maybe nuzzle his neck a bit or rub your cheek against his. Trust me. The more physical you become with him (non-sexually) will tell you all you need to know about moving forward. You'll get the green, yellow or red light very quickly. And if you get anything less than green, back off. It's not worth losing a friend.

 

[joejoesmoe]

Dude, in the beginning, I actually believed you, but these latest updates have clearly shown just how made up all of this is. No straight guy sleeps over another guys house night after night, in the same bed, shirtless, and not minding the fact that his best friend is spooning him. Come on dude, move this thread to the stories section. Stop it with the lies already. I mean, it's some great fiction, but it's getting ridiculous now. I can't believe so many people still find this true. Let me know when you write your first erotic novel.

 

[radical matt]

Uhm...I wouldn't say it's as farfetched as you think... ^_^

 

[nufanm]

Dude, in the beginning, I actually believed you, but these latest updates have clearly shown just how made up all of this is. No straight guy sleeps over another guys house night after night, in the same bed, shirtless, and not minding the fact that his best friend is spooning him. Come on dude, move this thread to the stories section. Stop it with the lies already. I mean, it's some great fiction, but it's getting ridiculous now. I can't believe so many people still find this true. Let me know when you write your first erotic novel.

that's what i said!!! seriously... i mean it could be real but i'm pretty sure he's just making it up and got carried away with the fact that everyone's so interested.

keep it coming tho, if it's true then cool, if it's not then u're still keeping me tunning for updates.