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Yes, we tried anal so many times but were inexperienced. He keeps hinting at me to buy lube but dosen't come out and say it. Though there was this cute thing he did after we jacked off. I finished before him(He usually finishes first and goes in my mouth only because I CANNOT bring myself to do it when im in my "akward" stage") and he takes my hand and licks the cum off.

I'd like to start spending more time with them but they both moved away(One went away to college and is recently in town for the holiday break. and the other just moved.) Luckily, they both happen to live in the same city and that said city is only an hour away(well the way I drive it is). UNFORTUNALLY, the one girl(who just moved) is his best friend and she can be considered my best friend also(I took her to homecomming, we have fun, shes hilarouis) so he wants to come lol. I should make him pay for gas or sit in the back(I have a habit of driving crazy so it will make him car sick).
 
Ok, I think the bigger reason is not about him, but me. I guess I suffer from seaosnal depression and I have been kinda taking it out on him. Were only like this during the cold months but during Summer and Spring and Fall, were back into our old selves. I just need to get the right medication and hopefully I can stop this.

I'm SO surprised that I actually told people so I guess being depressed kinda helped me out with this one.
 
son1fan said:
Ok, I think the bigger reason is not about him, but me. I guess I suffer from seaosnal depression and I have been kinda taking it out on him. Were only like this during the cold months but during Summer and Spring and Fall, were back into our old selves. I just need to get the right medication and hopefully I can stop this.

I'm SO surprised that I actually told people so I guess being depressed kinda helped me out with this one.
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You may not even need medication.

A question: at this time of year, do bright lights make you feel more alert?
 
I guess they would. It's hard not to feel depressed here in northern Ohio. It's in the single digits with wind chills in the -30's. Our $10,000 fence was completely obliterated(SP?) and im wondering if I should go back to school next semester or just wait ang go back in the fall.
 
Okay, if bright lights make you feel alert, try this:

get an extra lamp or two for your bedside. Hook them together on a power strip with an electronic timer. Set the timer to turn the lights on ten minutes before your alarm goes off, and leave them on however long it takes you to get out of bed and dressed and all.
 
Well he did it. I'm sorry for wasting everyones time. I really am. Im just going into a circle. Im never going to change. I wish I was as strong as you guys.
 
I left his house this afternoon on good terms. I call him and ask how is night went. he yells. puts me in the dumps. I WANT to take everyones advice so badly. Im a weak person.
 
Dude, don't call him.
Don't go see him.

This is like if you had a case of poison oak, and you said you hated it, but you keep on going back to the same set of woods and shoving yourself through the same poison oak-infested brush.
 
Based upon what you said, I would say it's a good time to get an evaluation from a professional. If it's seasonal depression, there are a variety of treatments available. My understanding is that light treatment works well for a lot of people. You should also talk about your feeling of being in a circle and not being strong enough to break out of the cycle. I recommend that you make an appointment ASAP and get on the road to feeling better.

Also, you should definitely go back to school next semester. If you don't keep busy with school, your depression and problems are probably going to be worse. School is a good way to socialize and build your self esteem.
 
I know i called a help hotline and they didnt help. I wa nt to talk to a professional soon. Like really soon. IM going to do something stupid and I dont want to hurt the people that really love me.
 
Yeah, help hotlines can be annoying as heck. Mostly they're manned by people with more heart than brains, working off an hour of "training".

Go find that clinic -- heck, you ought to be able to find it by looking on-line. Then be there in the morning, when the doors open.
 
Kulindahr said:
Yeah, help hotlines can be annoying as heck. Mostly they're manned by people with more heart than brains, working off an hour of "training".

Go find that clinic -- heck, you ought to be able to find it by looking on-line. Then be there in the morning, when the doors open.
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Great advice!

Please know that as bad as things may seem now, things will get better. The sooner you get some professional help, the faster things will start getting better.

By the way, if you have suicidal thoughts before you can see a professional, try the help line again. The last person may have not been able to help, but the next person may help. Sometimes you click with the person and sometimes you don't.
 
Call again if you need to. They are there to help. Keep in mind that the help lines are designed for crisis situations. It's not a long term solution. Make it a priority to find professional help first thing in the morning.
 
Well, I was feeling UBER shitty when I woke up. I mean I felt like I didn't want to do anything so I called and updated the person on the hotline and talked to them for a while. I decided that I didn't want to stay home so me and some friends(one happened to be him) went to the mall. I had a really good time there though I was feeling pretty weak(I haven't had an appitite in the past 3 or 4 days.) Tonight, we are hopefully going to a movie. I hated dropping him off because everything went so normal today and he was acting like he used to. I didnt want it to end lol. I'll keep you updated. Im also feeling a bit more comfortable with my sexuality.
 
Go to Burger King, get a Whopper, ask for extra lettuce and tomatoes. It isn't the best in the world for nutrition, but it gives you grains, veggies, and meat, and it's quick.

I lived off those for a while in college when I was seriously depressed. Fortunately, the tickets to the home basketball games all had "buy one get one free" Burger King coupons on the back, and there were hundreds to pick up after games.
 
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