Friends at the gym

[biman75]

So I had to mention this.

I guess I consider myself bi. I like women but I like men aswell. Anyway, I have a very attractive best friend with a great body. I have invited him to my gym several times and have seen peeks of his package on occasions. In the gym of course when we shower, the showers are individual so I can't see him. When we go to the lockers to dress, I usually get to see bits. He has a great penis and huge balls. There for a while when we were going often he wasn't embarassed at all and he would turn towards me while he changed! But as we stopped going it seems he's more embarassed and turns around. One time I was getting dress when he comes around to change and as he removed his towl wrapped around he had a boner. He didn't even try to hide it. It got me really excited. Got a boner myself right away. I dind't say anything of course so I don't embarass him.

Well about a month ago we went to a local bathhouse. First time there. This place leaves nothing to the unknown...if you know what I mean. Guys are in the hot pools and showering completly open. The showers here are wide open with a small wall between showers that really doesn't cover anything. Well I went in first to shower and as he came in I thought he would go to another further stall but instead comes and parks right next to me. I had the chance to really take a good look at him as he showered. It was really hot. I had to get out of the shower and go to the lockers because I was getting a bit excited already and I didn't have anything with me to "disguiess" my excitment!

Anyway, that is sure our new "get away" place now! I can't wait until we go again. If he would ever ask me to give him a bj I would totally do it but unfort. he is big time straight. Although, he's mentioned a couple of things to me that make me think he's somewhat curious but I don't dare to make any moves. As far as I have gone is just giving him a kiss on the cheek when we are drunk. I get quite friendly when I'm drunk with everyone.

Anyway, just thought I would share my story. Any how can you stop from getting a boner in the showers??? I wanted to stay a longer time but just couldn't!

 

[AlmondMilk]

Good for you. You both seem to have a great friendship.

My boner killer:

naked, wrinkly grandmas

There are more, but this is what usually works.

 

[lonnie1]

Was the local bathhouse--gay?

 

[biman75]

Was the local bathhouse--gay?

No, this was completely straight bathhouse.

Like I say I consider myself bi but I have never been with a guy. No one even knows I am bi. I just admire the physical body of a man as much as I do on a women but I have only had girlfriends.

 

[biman75]

That's a hot story keep us updated with you and your friend.

Im curious about the bathhouse as well. Was it a gay bathhouse ? If so your straight friend must be very secure and curious with himself to want to venture into one of those. The only bathhouse I have ever been to is a Onsen I visited in Japan a year ago, *much like the one you described, except these are non sexual in nature and are very traditional. You go into similar stalls, with a small wall within each shower stall to divide you from the other person, you shower up, and then head into a huge heated pool with other naked men.*
The onsens in Japan are divided between men, women, and there are even unisex ones I've been to where both men and women get into naked together but the majority of the ladies and gents cover themselves with small, "Privacy" towels.*

Yes, this is one of those traditional bathhouses. No one knows I am bi. They just think I am straight since I have a girlfriend. I never show my other side either. I cannot imagine messing around with him because like I said he is straight, married and always talking about women. But like I said he's mentioned a couple of things that makes me think he might be curious.

Another story...I was once over his house and he always wears boxers at home with nothing under especially during summer and when I go he doesn't bother to put anything else on. One day I was over and he raise one of his foot onto the couch and one of his balls popped out. I was going to say something funny but didn't and just stared at it. He didn't even notice it. As soon as he lowered his leg, ball went back in his boxers!

 

[seven2go]

He may, or may not, be working up to something.........have fun in meantime.......

 

[BiMike]

He sounds very str8 to me especially going to a str8 bath house. I would be with you getting a boner in the showers Getting a hard when undressing and not worried about it in your presence rather confirms his str8ness! However best of luck but do not hold out too many hopes

 

[JNewYork]

Yeah, I never heard of a straight bathhouse either.

And I never heard of two straight male friends decide to go to a bathhouse together. How does that even happen? In what straight universe???

Do you guys not have showers in your respective homes? Does one dude say to the other, Hey, I'm feeling smelly. I'd like to go take a shower in a public place because my home shower just doesn't do it. Would you like to join me?

I just don't understand it. And you think the dude is completely straight???

Rethink.

 

[biman75]

Yeah, I never heard of a straight bathhouse either.

And I never heard of two straight male friends decide to go to a bathhouse together. How does that even happen? In what straight universe???

Do you guys not have showers in your respective homes? Does one dude say to the other, Hey, I'm feeling smelly. I'd like to go take a shower in a public place because my home shower just doesn't do it. Would you like to join me?

I just don't understand it. And you think the dude is completely straight???

Rethink.

Chill JNewYork.

I guess I am referring to it wrong. It must not be a "bathhouse" then. Its a very traditional asian place. One area you have a shower/pools/spas etc where all men are naked and the common areas are where men and women are and just relax in saunas etc. The common areas are fully clothed. It is a completely non-sexual place.

 

[JNewYork]

But what is the draw to go if it's not sexual? Is there a bar in the common area where people are clothed? That would make sense then to ask a straight friend to go drinking there. But a straight dude saying yes to another dude's suggestion to hang out at a sauna? Just doesn't sound straight to me.

 

[biman75]

But what is the draw to go if it's not sexual? Is there a bar in the common area where people are clothed? That would make sense then to ask a straight friend to go drinking there. But a straight dude saying yes to another dude's suggestion to hang out at a sauna? Just doesn't sound straight to me.

There is a restaurant in the common area but the reason to go to this place is for their saunas. I guess if you don't custom saunas you don't see the purpose of them. But like I said this place is full of people and families that go there to enjoy the saunas. On top of that they have these pools that I tell you about. But the showers are also in the same area against the wall with nothing seperating the showers.

Saunas are usually enjoyed by many and have nothing to do with peoples sexualality.

 

[bw92116]

Next time he pops a boner in front of you, show him your boner. And just smile, and groove on the homoerotic vibe, and that's all. Little by little I think it will develop into more. Keep us updated on every little incident, this is going to be a hot story.

 

[biman75]

Next time he pops a boner in front of you, show him your boner. And just smile, and groove on the homoerotic vibe, and that's all. Little by little I think it will develop into more. Keep us updated on every little incident, this is going to be a hot story.

So we went to my gym! I invited my frend to go excercise for a while then we would go into the saunas for a bit that my gym has.

What happened today..nothing much but again as I tell you sometimes he makes comments that make me think twice... After we changed to go run for a bit he went to he restroom. I had to go as well but I walk in and there he was at a stall. There were 3 stalls and the middle one was empty. So as any guy, I went into one with a toilet instead of going to that middle one. After that he was joking with me telling me that I now "sit" to pee....I said no why? He said why didnt you use the stal that was available. I said the area was busy. He said there was one available stall....I didn't know waht else to say. We just blew it off. But afterwards I did think I should have just parked next to him.

Well, we finish the workout so it was time to change into our swimsuits. He is there right in from of me and just strips. Of course he plays with his dick a couple of time as he sits there and gets his trunks on. Anyway, since he was open being naked in front of me, I just dropped my shorts as well in front of him. And we just changed. After having a good time at the saunas we returned and hit the showers. After that, once again in front of each other, I noticed he waited until I dropped my towel to put my clothes on and he did the same. He has a great dick and balls. I couldn't help but just stare at it. I fell like just grabbing them! He was so close to me. Anyway, it seems that after going to the saunas where you are required to stip down he is not really embarassed stripping down in front of me and bares all in front of me.

Well thats whats new. Nothing much. Like I said I cannot make any type of move even though I want to make a move but I cannot risk our friendship if he takes it the wrong way.

 

[BiMike]

Still think he is a fully Str8 guy just interested in seeing your package

 

[codeerror]

Still think he is a fully Str8 guy just interested in seeing your package

I agree. All guys look at eachother in the showers.

 

[hairybum]

Loved the locker room with my straight buddy...nice chunky ass and sometimes bendin over i got a look at his dirty shitter...WOW!

 

[bw92116]

Thank you for the update and I'm glad things are going well between you and him. It seems like if it's going to amount to anything, it's going to progress very slowly, both of you being very cautious, so just try to enjoy each stage for what it is as it happens. Right now it's just nudity together, but that's a good start! Maybe someday it will progress to having boners together, comparing cocks, maybe a little sexy talk, even possibly someday jacking off together, then maybe masturbating each other, and so on. Who knows how far it could progress. I don't know what you should do except just enjoy it at the moment and let it progress naturally. If you happen to have a boner when changing, by all means let him see it. Don't act ashamed of it, just smile and say nothing. Let him feast his eyes on it. I'd even bet money that he gets one too at that moment.

 

[pushupsonmymouth]

*BUMP* Had to bump this one back to the top! Just found this thread and I am dying to know if there are any new developments! What's up, biman?

 

[biman75]

We just have been to the gym/sauna a couple of times again and each time we undress in front of each other and of course I have to stare at his package.

The other day we went and after we showered I was drying my trunks after I showered. Of couse I had a towel around me but as I was standing there he came around to dry his swim trunks but I noticed him look down at my buldge you can see through my towel. I have noticed him looking before. Not the first time.

Well we went to dress up and as he dropped his towel I couldn't help to stare at his package. His dick was soft and his balls were sagging big time. He has big balls and they just were there hanging low. It was quite hot I got almost an instant boner. I quickly put my shorts on.

Anyway, I think we are going to the sauna this weekend. Cant wait!! I do worry about getting a boner though while we are naked.

*BUMP* Had to bump this one back to the top! Just found this thread and I am dying to know if there are any new developments! What's up, biman?

 

[ZmercTheDuke]

Bath houses still exist, where do you live?