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Hey. I have a question for those of you who use Grindr or similar apps. When you see a friend, or someone you know, do you block them? Say "Hi, it's me"? Just ignore them?

I have recently found some people I know and don't know if it's awkward or not...

Let me know your thoughts.
 
It's only awkward if you let it be. If you're both out to one another then what's the big deal? If you're not out, maybe it gives you an opening to say hey I'm gay or whatever, and if they are not out let them know it's cool with you.
 
Grindr is as shameful as you want it to be. I feel ZERO shame for being on Grindr, and while I don't seek out people I know on there (unless I have some interest in them), I would never block them, and frankly, if I caught one of them blocking ME, I'd be pretty pissed. So what, I'm good enough to say hi to in the hallway, but not to interact with on a gay app?
 
I ignore messages from friends who don't realize that shirtless picture is of me. Slightly awkward.
 
(back in my actual hookup app days...) I'd just scroll on past.

not going to waste time saying hi to a friend on an app if it's someone I'd normally just be talking/texting with, but I don't see a reason to block them either.
 
Thank you all for your replies. I've seen people on Grindr that I not "out" to (I mean I haven't specifically said I like dudes to, but they might know). I don't know if I'd say "hi". Probably not.
I chatted with a guy I used to work with and after a while told him who I was (I don't have a face pic), and he said he had a crush on me since way back then. I was not interested so switched the conversation to work stuff and people we know in common an that was that.
 
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