Friend's Option At Love Is Quite Flirtatious

[topherlover555]

So i guess this is on a lighter note, but i was out with a few of my friends the other day, only one of whom knows i'm gay, and this guy that likes her, and she also likes back, was there. But instead of flirting with her all day long, he flirted with me. It was really weird. He asked me to go and get food with him and one of the fast food places. When we sat back down, i realized our comfort levels with each other magically blended, because i would laugh and lean on him and he wouldn't budge a bit. Later on, we were standing and he stood literally a milimeter away from my face and i had the BIGGEST urge to just kiss him dead on the lips. There were other numerous flirtation devices he threw at me like drinking my drink or putting his foot on me or smiling and laughing at each other. I just had no idea what was going on because he didn't make a move on my friend.
So my issue is that, i have never gotten this close to a guy in my life, but this hot guy comes along and flirts with me, but he's interested in my friend! What the hell is going on? Is he just using me to get to her? Somebody please feed some input. Thanks

 

[kcboi]

I have a friend at work who is the same way. He is married. He always jokes that he is only a six pack away from having sex with me... flirts like crazy. Legs rubbing each other, falling on each other laughing, arms around each other, looking eye to eye... and as much as I want him... its only flirting, his way of being intimate friends without the sex... maybe that is this guy too... that's all I can tell you. I'd say just go with it and enjoy the friendship until he makes the move... good luck. Keep us posted!!!

 

[Lube]

I'm sorry, but a straight guy simply has no interest in doing those things to either of you.

Would you do that to a woman, even if she were your best friend? (Other than in a very very lighthearted way.)

 

[G-Lexington]

How do you know he's interested in her and not you?

Lex

 

[LoveIsNow]

They do have this thing called bisexuality I've heard tell of.

 

[topherlover555]

How do you know he's interested in her and not you?

Lex

He offers to cook her breakfast, he asked her out before but she thinks he tries to move too fast. She doesn't just want to have sex, she wants a relationship. I can understand her claim there. He, i assume, only wants that.

But the bisexuality is also an option...i'm also leaning to the fact that this is becoming a Marcus & Charlie bromance thing, where this hot guy is flirting w a gay guy and all touchy but wont go farther than that. Its weird.

thanks for replying. i will keep updating the situation and anymore input is greatly appreciated

 

[slickery]

I have a couple straight guy friend like this, they even go to gay bars with me and have a great time. I've even called their bluffs before and pecked them. Nothing serious. It's fun flirting with girls, but innocent flirting with straight guys is just as fun I've found.

It doesn't mean they are gay or bi or whatever. I've asked them why they do it, and it's just the fact that they are truly comfotable with their sexuality. Something I regard very highly as not many people are that comfortable with their sexuality.

Just go with the flow. He probably just feels really comfortable around you, plus it looks good in front of your lady friend. Don't develop a crush, or say you have feelings for him, because I guarantee he will not reciprocate them, and it would make things a little weird.