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Friends That Are Hotter Than You
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Does anybody ever find it difficult being around hot guys... being polite, cordial, whatever... whether you feel attracted, jealous, or just plain awkward around them?

I know people aren't supposed to feel this way about genuine friends, but I got my point across.

What can be done about this?
 
It is horrible to deal with self esteem. I do have some friends that are soooo good looking and "perfect" (successful and all) and fully heterosexual that they are to die for. Yet, it is my duty to rise above, recognize the limits of the relationship and either accept and take it like a man or walk away. It takes courage and strength and a lot of it. Friendship is not all about the looks but what you put into it comes from yourself. If you do not feel good about yourself, it is a way for you to start working on that.
 
My best friend is sooooo hot, both guys and gals, cling on to him....every where we go.... and purely for his looks and body, and then a great personality...

We both swing both ways..... but sometimes..... I get so pissed.... because he is perfect..... and though I am pretty good to look at.... he is better.... and I just get pissed..... and frustrated..... How can you be mad at someone for being perfect and hot....?
 
You forget a big thing; beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What might generally be considered the hottest guy is not what appeals to all onlookers. People are too unique to be quantified in absolute terms.
 
no. im the hottest of all my friends =] but there are some that come close.
 
It's only natural for some people to feel like that, your human afterall. But just remember everyones different, I'm sure some people will notice you have something that he might not have. And it all comes down to what people prefer lol.
 
I don't really have any super hot friends.... My friens were all in the nerd crowd back in high school, and after losing 40 pounds and cutting my hair, my friends all think I'll be the one to lose my virginity first (lol I kinda hope so).

But whenever I see hot guys, I tend to admire them from afar. Peope like that always intimidate me (I guess depressed people all have self image issues what can I say?), so I usully shy away from them-- I find the whole blushing and nervousness thing to be embarrassing. But I'm making an effort to come out of my proverbial turtle shell.
 
my friend, is fucking beautiful..
he swings both ways, as do I...
we've got a bit of a casual thing going on so Im not complaining.. he sure can give head..
 
I used to have a friend that was really hot. He had the whole tall, dark, and handsome thing going on and on top of that, he could talk his way into anyone's pants if he wanted to. He was really smooth. But the way he looked, I swear every time we walked into some place people would stare at him and all the girls and gays I knew all were crazy about him.

I never really had a problem with it, though, because we were just friends. He totally was oblivious to his looks and charm and just acted like a cool dude.
 
I get rather impolite with my gorgeous friends, but then again I barely have any of those.

I guess I'm just the standard jealous bastard. =|
 
i don't find it difficult at all being around hot guys. i find it very stimulating.
 
i had a friend thru most of elementary school and we werent really close. then we came out to each other like a year and a half ago and ive been smitten by him ever since. He's bi, but very very shy and its hard to get him to talk in person. he never talks about anything meaningful, but he's like SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL to me and i really liked him. i asked him out and he gave me a wishy washy "im in a relationship" and never talks about this phony relationship........i still kinda like him but i do get annoyed at him for being INSANELY beautiful while i feel like a fat ugly duckling....sigh
 
Superhot people don't intimidate me at all. As my friends, regardless of looks I wouldn't indulge either their egos, their cowardice, or looks-based self pity as the case may be. However I am slow to warm to people. If a person mistook that for being stand-off-ish then we might not connect as friends. I'm comfortable taking things slowly as I prefer a few solid friendships to multiple connections that are mostly trivial.
 
yippyuk said:
This is a good thread and thought about this before.
Im usually the hotter one...but I once was best friends with "the hottest guy" in my high school. And at first I kina didn't like him, not cuz he was hot but because everyone went all gaga over him and I really didn't think he was as hot as people made him out to be. But after we became friends I got to know him and realized he didn't feel as hot as he was and was full of so many insecurities and what not. Eventually I ended up falling for him, for his personality of course. Too bad he was straight. Haha.
But on another note, I do find myself a bit flustered, nervous, and maybe intimidated when im around really attractive people. The best thing to remember is that they're people too.
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Yeah, but he definitely knew it. He liked to walk around the apartment naked too. I still think he's bi, but who knows. He's married now.
 
I tend to ignore them. For some reason they think everyone is suppose to eating out of their hands and I don't really care for those types of people.
 
FoxForce said:
I tend to ignore them. For some reason they think everyone is suppose to eating out of their hands and I don't really care for those types of people.
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1) What are "Those Types of People"? Attractiveness is subjective, so what defines the people to whom you are referring?

2) Do you prejudged a group of people whom you do not know personally based on preconceived notions and stereotypes of how they will act?

3) If this has been your experience with those aforementioned people, I feel sad. There are plenty of wonderful, "hot" people whom I have met.
 
Pokaman said:
1) What are "Those Types of People"? Attractiveness is subjective, so what defines the people to whom you are referring?

2) Do you prejudged a group of people whom you do not know personally based on preconceived notions and stereotypes of how they will act?

3) If this has been your experience with those aforementioned people, I feel sad. There are plenty of wonderful, "hot" people whom I have met.
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1) Yes 2) Yes and 3) Yes.

And I'm proud of you. Would you like a humanitarian award?
 
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