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Friends With Benefits

lazydude92

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So me and this guy tried dating each other but it didnt really work out right now, due to long distance. So we decided that we wanted to spend the rest of the summer to get to know each other better and then in the fall we were going to try the whole dating thing again when we will both be living in the same city. Well the thing is we dont want to give up the sex... So I guess you could say that we are going to be friends with benefits for the rest of the summer. So i was wondering if that is the right thing to do, like do you think it will just over complicate things? I would like to think that it really wouldnt because it is only a short period of time that it would be like this. But i dont want that to make things worse too.
 
FWB but not dating because of the long distance between you? I'm confused... Do you mean phone sex with each other? Or having sex with other people until you are back together in the city?
 
paatreides said:
FWB but not dating because of the long distance between you? I'm confused... Do you mean phone sex with each other? Or having sex with other people until you are back together in the city?
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Well like there is a 2 and half hour drive between us so we can see each other its just a bit of a hassle, so when we do hang we will do normal stuff and then just end the evening with a bit of sex. And yes we do phone sex and cybersex all the time too. So I was wondering if anyone thinks that this could cause some problems for us this summer before we actually get a chance to try dating again...
 
fwb, dating, "getting to know each other", whatever... i dont see how it matters what label you stick on your thing. you wanna spend time together? spend time together. just make sure you answer some fundamental questions. (are you exclusive? do you see a potential future?)
 
How does dating actually differ from what you're doing now?

I'm confused too.
 
rareboy said:
How does dating actually differ from what you're doing now?

I'm confused too.
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Welcome to the club... we had this "rough spot" for like a week and when it was over he told me that he wanted to be just friends until the fall, and that he still wanted to talk to me and see me and that he didnt want the sex to stop... and i was like sure sounds good to me. But now idk im looking back and im just incrediibly confused and dont know exactly where that puts us...
 
You need to have a talk with him and ask him some of the questions x-cess wrote in his post about exclusivity and the seriousness of the relationship. Otherwise you could be operating under two different assumptions.

Good luck!
 
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