Friends with benefits?

[mnpervert]

I have had a few FWB's in my life male and female. My female best friend I still talk to on a regular basis 30 years later and has become a great lifelong friend. For men I have had a few here and there over the past 40 years that I have been sexually active. I have a current bud and I hope it works out. He is married and Bi like myself and nearby.

 

[jjonn3]

When i lost my virginity to my high school buddy, we would fuck like multiple times a week after school at his house. Once we graduated and would come home for the holidays from college, we would meet up a couple of times to fuck. Unfortunately, he ended up getting a gf and had no interest in fucking guys. He found it gross while i on the other hand only wanted to fuck guys. Haven't had a friend with benefits since.

That was the problem back then - a lot of guys wanted sex but were not really into the fact it was gay sex. They needed the release but once they got girls who would put out no longer wanted sex with guys. I got girls - but still wanted guys.

I still miss the "friends with benefits" days - just a buddy - no worry about dating or romance - you were friends and had a great time just hanging out - but if you were horny you took care of that need for each other as well. The best of both worlds.

 

[snakeeater1]

I had a friend who was married back when I first came out. He was about my age, mid 20s. I was single and had only ever suck one cock, but I liked getting fucked in the ass!

He used to complain to me that his wife wouldn’t suck his cock and that he loved a blow job. (hint hint). Well one day he finally came right out and asked me if I would suck his cock. He must have seen the bulge in my pants when he kept talking about sex!

At first I kind of shook my head and said no, but he kept at it. Then one day he got me a bit tipsy and pulled out his hard cock and says “come on, put it in your mouth, you’ll love it!” So, I went down on him slowly at first, then he grabs my head and starts to face fuck my mouth! After about 10 minutes he starts to moan and said “don’t stop, I’m going to cum” and holds my head on his cock and makes me swallow.

He never offered to reciprocate, But after that day it became a regular thing with us. I suck, he cums, and I jerk off! We used to meet and repeat this quite often over the next few years….

 

[snakeeater1]

I had a friend with benefits that I meet when we were back in our early 20s. He had a house on a beautiful lake with a great beach. I lived about 50 miles from him and over a period of 30 years, I would periodically visit him and enjoy a few day’s relaxing. I met him in a gay bar and i ended up going home with him. After a couple more drinks he told me that he wanted to fuck me in the ass!

I says OK, how do you want to do it? He said take your pants off and bend over the edge of the bed, I want to fuck you standing up. And that way you can jerk off as I screw you! We did that and we both cum about the same time.

Over the new few years we repeated this scenario many many times! Always the same way. I was visiting him later one time when we were in our late 40s. We were having a few drinks and going over old times, when he said “i know you like to suck cock, how come you never gave me a blow job? Well I said “you never asked me!” He started to laugh and said “well I’m asking you now!”

I asked him how he wanted to do it and he told me to take off my pants and get down on my knees. I laughed and said “you always did like to cum standing up!” By the time we got our pants off we both had a big hard on. After I got down on my knees he walks over and says “open your mouth old friend and get ready for a big load of cum! I haven’t had sex for a week!”

As promised he gave me a good load after about 10 minutes of sucking, and I jerked off while doing him. I stayed for a couple more of days swimming and drinking and having fun. Just before I got ready to leave he says “lets go in the bedroom and you bend over, I want to give your ass the usuall good fucking!” “and by the way you are a great cock sucker!”….

 

[hotguy88]

My buddy lives 5 minutes away and I screamed and shot down his throat a few minutes ago. Holy shit!

Had an insane threesome with him and his GF last weekend. Probably the most powerful orgasms I've ever had

 

[bencock]

I would love to be in a friends with benefits hit me up if your interested

 

[CochondeMontreal]

I wish! I see these guys on cam, making porn and collabs with their friends. Where does one find friends like these?

 

[wolfypdx]

I think I may be in the midst of forming 2 FWB relationships; one with a straight guy I've been friends with for a few years, and one with another straight guy that I hit it off with last night.

 

[BisexThomas]

I wish! I see these guys on cam, making porn and collabs with their friends. Where does one find friends like these?

Go outside.
Make friends, get chatting. Disclose your sexuality and then, when you're are comfortable, your likes and dislikes... You might find you have a thing or two in common with lots of people.

Why ain't you FWB with that guy you have a crush on?

Information is the difference, its what holds us back.

If we keep ourselves to ourselves and our sexuality secret, we'll be wanking to Joey Mills into our 60's and no one wants that.

Go outside, have fun.

 

[CochondeMontreal]

Go outside.
Make friends, get chatting. Disclose your sexuality and then, when you're are comfortable, your likes and dislikes... You might find you have a thing or two in common with lots of people.

Why ain't you FWB with that guy you have a crush on?

Information is the difference, its what holds us back.

If we keep ourselves to ourselves and our sexuality secret, we'll be wanking to Joey Mills into our 60's and no one wants that.

Go outside, have fun.

What? This is really presumptuous of you to assume, I don't 'go outside' or have kept my sexuality hidden.

 

[tjacks]

I think I may be in the midst of forming 2 FWB relationships; one with a straight guy I've been friends with for a few years, and one with another straight guy that I hit it off with last night.
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[BisexThomas]

What? This is really presumptuous of you to assume, I don't 'go outside' or have kept my sexuality hidden.

Maybe.
But an accurate assumption 99.8% of the time.

Straight, bi or curious guys asking this forum how to meet guys expecting men to come to them.

Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Make some changes, create your own opportunities.