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Friendships with Straight guys?

i was offered and am thinking of moving in with 2 straight buddys in a 3 br house they are already sharing next month. the thing is that they either dont know i like dudes or just dont bring it up because i've never come out to them and always have had a cover story..

i just got out of a long relationship and am looking for a big life change. i'm thinking moving in with them would be good for me and a healthy change. i almost feel as if I dont want to be gay for quite a while and just focus on myself. i know you will all think that sounds ridiculous but I really am tired of dating boys i cant deal with that drama. i just wanna be a bro.
 
It sounds like bullshit mostly. Being gay is not a job that you can do part time, it's who you are. Constantly. All day, every day. Be as bro, chill, masc, dl, nsa, vgl, etc as you want, you'll still be a homo.

Nobody is forcing you to date anyone though.

As for moving in with your friends, tell them up front that you're gay. They'll either find out while you live together, or you will get mad from constantly having to cover stuff up in the place where you live. Avoid the drama, and find out if it'll work BEFORE you actually end up in a situation that you might be stuck with for a while.
 
If you cant ride rein on your feelings for this guy, you need to step back until you can control your own damn self.

It's as simple as that.
 
Maestoso said:
I always respect my straight friends' sexual orientation, I think you should too.

It's undeniable that we are attracted to straight guys, but I would rather be in a relationship with someone who wants me for who I am.

Everything you think about him, see it in this situation.

You have a close girl friend who knows you're gay but suddenly mentioned she has fallen in love with you. What would your reaction be?
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That's a very mature and honest answer. I totally agree with you. (*8*)
 
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