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I'm coming to rant to you guys because I have nobody else to talk to.

I'm a semi-out guy, though hardly ever suspected of being gay. Today at work, we hired a new guy. I thought he was attractive upon first seeing him, and after training him a bit, I was crushing on him hard. My coworker mentioned he was gay, and I was seriously considering asking him to hang out after work. By the way, I never meet guys I'm interested in.

Turns out he has a boyfriend. :(

oh well
 
I'm sorry to hear that, Chobbs. It's been a while since I've seen you around here, and I think the last time was when you were starting to really accept you might be gay and were taking steps to come out. It's nice to see you back. While this one might not be an option for you, just hang in there. :kiss:
 
Well, get ready for the gratuitous deluge of "don't shit where you eat" posts.

This one may be taken but he may also have a friend or two who isn't so let him know you're single and available.

Good luck.
 
i understand you were crushing on him but whats to say you cant be friends, and like nsguy2 said you will be able to meet other people thru him and fimnd someone for you

good luck hugs and kisses for you
 
good advice guys, yeah i was thinking about that.

this is just weird for me. most of the guys that i would crush on are straight and that makes it easy for me to get over them, knowing that i don't have a chance in hell.

its very rare that a guy who catches my eye is openly into guys, and although he has a boyfriend, its really hard for me to get over. the fact that there is a guy i am interested in not just out there but that i know personally kills me.

i guess this is weird because i haven't really crushed on girls like this (or guys - because i haven't really met many that are gay and i like) and so the whole crushing on someone thing is new to me. this is also making me think that i am totally gay, since i haven't really dealt with this with girls.

i guess this is what most people go through in middle school.
 
so the whole crushing on someone thing is new to me. this is also making me think that i am totally gay, since i haven't really dealt with this with girls.

No, it just means that you have a crush on a guy. Even straight guys get man-crushes.
 
Well, get ready for the gratuitous deluge of "don't shit where you eat" posts.
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Oh please. But, don't shit where you eat.

Co-workers fucking is about the most annoying thing in any business.

I would note that this doesn't stop you from trying to befriend your new coworker and his bf.

Who knows, maybe they have a cute friend for you to meet?
 
fair enough kara.

yeah rareboy, i would love to make friends with them as that could be the case.
 
maybe you could keep lines of communication open with him so that if gis relationship doesn't work out, you are ready to make a move.
 
breathe deep! try not to make too many sudden moves. take care of yourself.
 
okay, so i talked to him, and he was really cool. invited me to hang out with him to meet some of his friends, which was really nice.

thanks folks
 
chobbs said:
I'm coming to rant to you guys because I have nobody else to talk to.

I'm a semi-out guy, though hardly ever suspected of being gay. Today at work, we hired a new guy. I thought he was attractive upon first seeing him, and after training him a bit, I was crushing on him hard. My coworker mentioned he was gay, and I was seriously considering asking him to hang out after work. By the way, I never meet guys I'm interested in.

Turns out he has a boyfriend. :(

oh well
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and the end of the world point is what, exactly?

ask him to hang after work and become his friend, so he can introduce you to his friends and his boyfriend's friends and you will have a whole lot more possibilites

getting devastated just because a new guy has a boyfriend is going to make for a very tough life

you have a new gay friend there waiting for you
 
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