Fucked Him "Too Deep" wtf?!

[Gin&Tonic]

Hey guys,

Friday night was the first time by boyfriend and I fucked... We were totally horned-up, and he wanted my cock inside him baaad.
I rimmed him, got his hole nice and lose... and used lots of lube... It started off fine... however a couple minutes into fucking him, he told me he needed a 'break' and then told me that I was going too deep!

Now... I only have a 6 inch cock... nothing huge... just a normal cock.


My questions is: How deep should I actually fuck? Should my cock only go in a little ways?

Your help is very much needed and appreciated.

 

[racer2438]

If he is new to anal, then he just did not relax enough, Next time done longer foreplay on his ass.

but dude 6" is more than fine and should not have hurt, unless he was not relaxed.

So go slower for him and tell him not to be such a wuss.

 

[KaraBulut]

It sounds like- in the heat of the moment- things moved a little faster that he and his mangina were ready for.

Next time, let him sit on it so that he has a little more control over the speed and the depth.

 

[hotatlboi]

he is probably just new to anal.

But yeah 6 inches should not hurt. I've had some guys way bigger (all the way too) and it should not hurt if you are relaxed.

 

[slickery]

Depends what position you were in as well, as some are more conducive and comfortable to getting it all the way in.

 

[landers]

Getting fucked can take some getting used to whether you are relaxed or not. Next time you fuck go in until he tells you to stop and then hold it there for a while, a couple minutes if you can, then go a little further, hold it and repeat until you're bottomed out. Getting fucked can be a really intense experience and if you to fast to quickly your boyfriend probably won't be able to last long before he needs a break. As horned up as you may be try and take your time not only with the foreplay but with the fucking too.

If you want you can also try using a Dildo on him that is bigger than your cock so when you fuck him it won't seem so big.

 

[briefboy86]

i know the first time i bottomed i had to tell my BF to stop abut 10 mins in.. it just really hurt b/c i was new to it.. but if you go slow and open him up a bit he should be better.. i know i bought some toys for us to use to make fourplay more fun and to get eachother ready for it. but just take it slow and he should be ok.

 

[RSilva]

I have a n00b question/ want advicement.

I'm a bicurious/bissexual (I don't know) (although virgin both ways lol) and I am trying to "learn" how to have pleasure from anal sex. First I tried with small "things" and I think I learned where the prostate is, etc. Although I feel is it nice, until now I've never felt the "oh my god this is so good" thing I heard about, and I want to feel that so I bought a Dildo (a realistic one, I like it).

I have no problem with the penetration of it. I just feel it slide in and that's it, I can get it all. But when I try to do a "in-out" movement I feel the "out" is unconfortable as I feel it similar to have to shit and it seems to make me shit a little. So I tried to let it be penetrated and quiet for a while, while my ass was doing some movement. I jerked but when I took it off I felt again the "shit" feel but much more strongly and it was very unconfortable. I felt I was shitting for like half a minute. My questions are:

-Will this "shit" feel be there forever or with experience/more relaxation I will ignore it and react as I am penetrated (i.e. not unconfortable)?
-The in-out movement is better or the quiet penetration feels better?
-What can help me feel the "oh my good this is so good" thing?
-Is there any way to "completely" clean my ass? After the "preparation" of the penetration I though it was clean, but after the "long penetration" I shitted even more.

Dear bottoms/ex-bottoms please give me your advice. I really want to learn how to like it