When I was 21 I moved in with my first boyfriend, a 19 year old with a VERY big cock. In addition to some kinky stuff (mostly spanking, edging and cum control) we did a lot of fucking – him always on top and me always the bottom.
However whenever he wanted to fuck me (about five times a week) he ALWAYS jacked me off to an orgasm BEFORE fucking me. I would cum, we would clean me up with a tissue, perhaps go the bathroom, have a glass of water, etc. AND THEN once my cock was completely shriveled and limp he would be excited to fuck me. As I said, his dick was really big so it was really hard for me to take it. Getting fucked hurt like hell, especially the initial entry. It was basically an S&M type experience for me. He liked it that I was suffering while he was having a great time. Also I think he liked it that he didn’t need to worry about my dick while he fucked me – I had already had my orgasm and now it was his turn to have fun.
Also we always argued about lube – I always wanted to use lots and he always wanted to use as little as possible because he said fucking felt better without lube.
Basically I didn’t enjoy those post-orgasm fuckings but I figured that sometimes you need to do things to please your boyfriend, so I tolerated it.
I still it highly erotic if a guy will submit to a painful fucking when he is not aroused in order to please his partner. When I see pictures of a guy getting fucked and he has a limp dick and an expression of pain on his face it’s a big turn on to me. If someone was willing to bottom for me in this way I would definitely like it. Also, if I really liked a guy and he wanted me to cum before fucking me I would do it to please him even though it would be painful.
versatileplayer said:
The pussy is so tight that way too - after they cum their asses get so tight it's fucking great - the more it hurts him the better my dick feels - the more it hurts the more he tightens up lol
Versatileplayer is my kind of stud, a manly sex-hero who puts his own pleasure and enjoyment above how a piece of ass feels.
I also applaud otkboy for his enjoyment he gets by pleasing Tops and making them and their dicks feel good. He's my kind of bottom.
This also boosts the Top's ego and feeling of manhood, accomplishment&well-being. One bottom said it's also about the glow he gets by respecting us Tops and making us feel good about ourselves and our masculinity and giving us good orgasms in his ass and mouth.
Some will also literally kiss our asses as part of their service to us.
Thank you both for turning me on.
I'm not sure how it works for oral but I usually let my current lover of 3 decades get off first before I fucked his mouth.
I also know that versatiles have better sex fucking someone after they themselves got fucked(The man's dick stimulates the guy's prostate).
Sometimes my ex would cum after my first piece of his ass. I usually fucked and came in him, continued laying on his back with my dick still up his ass while I "reloaded" and fucked him again half an hour later, my dick staying semi-hard up his ass and hardening fully once I started fucking him again. He sometimes said he had cum from the first fuck but never whined about pain when I fucked him again and pumped my second load up him before yanking out.
I liked the tightness of an asshole after he came and yes I'm proud to admit that putting pain to an asshole while enjoying fucking him added to my pleasure and made my dick and my orgasms feel that much better. It's about us Tops being manly and using bottoms for our sexual enjoyment and the bottom doing his duty to please us Tops. Most bottoms I fucked told me they loved being used by us men for our pleasure while taking the pain we enjoyed putting to them with our love-muscles. Another bottom complained that some Tops ruined a session by being overly concerned how the bottoms feel when being used and fucked, they considered those Tops less manly than Tops who care only about their own sexual pleasure.
I think this is why so many bottoms have fantasies of getting used, degraded or even raped(some gang-raped) by masculine self-centered Tops, or at least any Tops who are non-fem for that matter.
