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Fucking pissed...read this

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hey, i think it's already ended. i don't think you have to do anything else. just don't respond if he tries to get in touch--which he might not. not worth any further trouble.
 
um...you found him on "mhunt".....nuff said...shouldn't have expected more.
 
um...you found him on "mhunt".....nuff said...shouldn't have expected more.

He's completely right. It's what I always tell people about "hookup sites" such as manhunt, craigslist, gay.com, and all the others. On those sites, normality is the exception and not the rule.
 
The guy is a jerk, the best you can hope for is that he never calls again.
 
YOUR experience is one reason that I've counseled guys NOT to get involved in Internet Relationships .... for so many, it is all just a GAME .... and you played 'n lost.
 
Man, it does sound like it's ended whether you like it or not.
I don't think you said if you have his phone number though, if you do, and want to try one more time give him a call....
mhunt is not the best place to meet someone friend. Not anything particullary against that place, all net sites are pretty much the same. Best is always to get to know someone face to face first I think. On the other hand if they didn't work there probably wouldn't be so many guys hooking up to them.
Sounds like you gave this one a good shot. You didn't contact your buddy though up front.... as you wrote in your thread. Sounds like it could be a miscommunication i some ways.
You have to figure it out man....
I'll tell you though, those sorts of places might be great for hooking up for a few nights of fun... that could be what you're looking for, up to you. But if you want anything more than that I think you'll have to know meeting a guy and forming a relationship, over a period of time, is the time proven way to get a partner.
Now if you just want some sex that is a different story, nothing wrong with that either. Done it quite a bit myself.
Depends on what you were looking for with this guy man... a few nights of fun or getting to know him, date, etc.
 
By this time, I was really fuckin pissed and I said, "Fuck you man, don't ever call me again!". I hung up, composed myself, and called back and asked what his deal was.

Fast forward now, this guy is in Austin (near my school), on mhunt, has my # and my screenname, and has not made any effort to contact me!

This guy is 26, wtf is his problem? How should I go about ending this?
By the sounds of it you already ended it. If you said the same thing to me, no make that anyone said that to me, I would not make nay effort at all to contact you and I would block your number etc.
I think you got your wish.
Don
 
What lesson? There is nothing wrong with meeting guys online and then trying to meet them. The thing is, you have to understand the process...

Meeting you probably sounded like a great idea from a distance when he found out he was going to be up your way. So reality sets in. He is actually busy doing things because there was a reason for him to visit in the first place which primarily wasn't you... and suddenly taking time out (and possibly having to explain you away) in order to quickly meet you whom he doesn't really know doesn't seem as attractive as it once did.

Yes you did experience him acting the jerk, but that doesn't make him a jerk.

I end end up stepping on somebody's toes once in a while and while the victim probably thinks I'm the slime of the earth because of it, I like to think that I have redeeming values.

Of course this guy could be a stinky 100 year old liar yanking your chain and was afraid to meet you because he suspected you might notice his warts...
 
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