Gave a massage to friend last night

[XemAdam]

First off, I consider myself to be bi. I like to be with girls more than dudes, but something about my best friend drives me crazy. My friend considers himself str8, but he's told be he hooked up with a guy before just to experiment. Me and my friend really have gotten close over the past year. We hang out all the time. We're always there to help each other out. Our friends even say that he's lucky to have a good friend like me. Sometimes it seem as as if we're dating, but we never confirmed it... even though we know we both love each other alot.

Last night we were smoking and got really high. All weekend he was trying to find a chic to give him as massage. After we finished smoking he asked me to give the him the massage because he really needed one,...soI agreed to. He took off only his shirt and I started. After an hour into it, he noticed that I was getting hard. He asked me if I was hard, and I told him "no", because I didn't want him to think I was getting turned on by rubbing his body. So, while he was lying on his stomach, I started to slowly dry hump his ass as if we were having anal sex, while I was still massaging his shoulders. I'm sure he knew what I was doing, but still didn't ask me "what the fck are you doing" or make me stop doing it.

After about 30 minutes, I went from slowly dry humping as if we were making love, to dry humping him hard and rough as if we were actually fcking. He even started to pump his ass into me. I know he was enjoying the whole thing because I even heard him quietly moaning. I really wanted to pull down his pants, but I didn't.

After about a 2 hour session, we stopped and I left his place. I'm hoping that I didn't mess up our friendship, I guess I'll find out if he doesn't call me today. I'm kinda scared to ask him if we could do it again, but next time to actually fck instead of dry hump.

 

[BiMike]

Read this Thread.
Be careful before you cross the sex line with a str8 best friend! You cannot put the genie back in the bottle!

 

[Wolfyyy]

Tell us if he calls!

 

[XemAdam]

Even though we really didn't have actual sex, I'm hoping that I didn't cross that sex line because I would hate to loose a really good friendship. But yeah, I know he had to have enjoyed it or else he wouldn't have let it go on for over 2 hours.

 

[Wolfyyy]

Sounds hot you guys sound like you really like each other, i think your both scared to admit your liking for guys. yum yum hope you get yourself some ass action boyyy. im sure everything will be OK unless he is so wrapped up in his secret he'll turn around and deny everything....which is sad:/

 

[pizz1121]

Yeah. I wouldn't bring it up wait until he says something to you, if he does at all.

I had a similar experience with my best friend. we both got really drunk at his house and I ended up sucking him off, happened a few times after - only ever when we were drinking though.

I don't say anything about it, and neither does he, its as if it never happened and nothing has changed between us were still best friends.

But it is a very dangerous this to mess with

let us know how everything goes!!

 

[XemAdam]

I appreciate the comments guys.

Ok...so here's the update. I guess everything is still cool between us. He called me to see if I wanted to grab some dinner with him. We talked about alot of things tonite but never once did he mention what happened. We left on a good note when I dropped him back off at his place.

I'm so glad I still have my best friend. Maybe the opportunity to do it again might happen. If so, I might try taking it a little farther next time. Any suggestions?

 

[Wolfyyy]

I appreciate the comments guys.

Ok...so here's the update. I guess everything is still cool between us. He called me to see if I wanted to grab some dinner with him. We talked about alot of things tonite but never once did he mention what happened. We left on a good note when I dropped him back off at his place.

I'm so glad I still have my best friend. Maybe the opportunity to do it again might happen. If so, I might try taking it a little farther next time. Any suggestions?

Just keep dropping hints here and there, be sure his for it.

Then when you know be blunt and tell him you want his ass.

 

[Buckley]

XemAdad, glad things are still cool with you and your bud. Suggestion for taking it a little farther next time: if you're both sitting around buzzed, why not say, "Damn, dude, I'm sore as hell. Any chance you want to return the favor on that massage I gave you the other day?"

 

[mike_n_herrin]

some times straight guys just fuck around with each other. it's usually all cool unless you start to "talk" about it. if he really is mostly straight, i'd enjoy it for what it is and never talk about it.

 

[XemAdam]

some times straight guys just fuck around with each other. it's usually all cool unless you start to "talk" about it. if he really is mostly straight, i'd enjoy it for what it is and never talk about it.

I thinks thats's the best thing for me to do. Thanks.

 

[IAMJayman01]

First off, I consider myself to be bi. I like to be with girls more than dudes, but something about my best friend drives me crazy. My friend considers himself str8, but he's told be he hooked up with a guy before just to experiment. Me and my friend really have gotten close over the past year. We hang out all the time. We're always there to help each other out. Our friends even say that he's lucky to have a good friend like me. Sometimes it seem as as if we're dating, but we never confirmed it... even though we know we both love each other alot.

Last night we were smoking and got really high. All weekend he was trying to find a chic to give him as massage. After we finished smoking he asked me to give the him the massage because he really needed one,...soI agreed to. He took off only his shirt and I started. After an hour into it, he noticed that I was getting hard. He asked me if I was hard, and I told him "no", because I didn't want him to think I was getting turned on by rubbing his body. So, while he was lying on his stomach, I started to slowly dry hump his ass as if we were having anal sex, while I was still massaging his shoulders. I'm sure he knew what I was doing, but still didn't ask me "what the fck are you doing" or make me stop doing it.

After about 30 minutes, I went from slowly dry humping as if we were making love, to dry humping him hard and rough as if we were actually fcking. He even started to pump his ass into me. I know he was enjoying the whole thing because I even heard him quietly moaning. I really wanted to pull down his pants, but I didn't.

After about a 2 hour session, we stopped and I left his place. I'm hoping that I didn't mess up our friendship, I guess I'll find out if he doesn't call me today. I'm kinda scared to ask him if we could do it again, but next time to actually fck instead of dry hump.

Sometimes people do all of their communicating through their actions. He is probaly as horned up as you are. Being a massage therapist myself, I only caution that you be mindful of your ethics. He definitely sounds interested and he fucked back. Invite him to dinner or lunch and ask if he would like to come by on a more friendly basis than professional. I think you will know where he is at from there.

 

[JNewYork]

I got major hard reading this.

You don't have anything to worry about. You'll have another opportunity to massage him.

This time when you massage him start massaging his lower back where it meets the top of his ass. Then when you do his legs work your hands all the way up to his crotch while squeezing his legs. This keeps the focus on massaging his legs technically, but you'll be able to also work the part of his ass that meets the top of his legs.

Now you've worked his ass at the very top and the very bottom. He's warmed up. Next move is to take one hand and massage his upper back while using your elbow of the other hand to massage his ass cheeks.

Do that for a bit and then you'll be in a perfect position to just take both hands and squeeze his ass.

After that, tell him you need to "loosen his clothes" and get his pants off.

Continue the massage and the next move is to add some oil or cream. This is wet and gives the perfect excuse to say: "I don't want to get your underwear all wet." Then just pull off his underwear.

Fuck I'm hard just thinking about it!

 

[XemAdam]

Sometimes people do all of their communicating through their actions. He is probaly as horned up as you are. Being a massage therapist myself, I only caution that you be mindful of your ethics. He definitely sounds interested and he fucked back. Invite him to dinner or lunch and ask if he would like to come by on a more friendly basis than professional. I think you will know where he is at from there.

I think you got this confused. I'm not a massage therapist. This was not a business transaction. This is my best friend who I hang out with all the time.

 

[texan_slant]

This was really hot. Keep is posted!

All I can say is - try not to force it; set up another situation that might lead to something else, but also let things fall into place at the same time.

He sounds receptive, but on the other hand, you gotta tread lightly since he might be sorting out his feelings. and you wouldn't want it to backfire.

 

[dredre3k]

Dude, he totally wanted you to do more. He just wasn't sure how he should articulate it so he let you take the lead. Next time just pull his dick out and get to sucking... he'll let you do it!

 

[PunKedeMO]

Dude, he totally wanted you to do more. He just wasn't sure how he should articulate it so he let you take the lead. Next time just pull his dick out and get to sucking... he'll let you do it!

Bingo.

There's no way he would have let you continue (humping) if he was uninterested, and no way he would have asked if you were hard if he was uninterested. Next time (and it sounds highly likely there will be a next time) ask him if he wants you to take off his pants. It can lead to the next level, or could just mean you want to give him a better massage (if he backs off).

 

[XemAdam]

Bingo.

There's no way he would have let you continue (humping) if he was uninterested, and no way he would have asked if you were hard if he was uninterested. Next time (and it sounds highly likely there will be a next time) ask him if he wants you to take off his pants. It can lead to the next level, or could just mean you want to give him a better massage (if he backs off).

Thanks for the comments guys.

I know he really wanted to get fcked that night...but I was too scared to take it further. I remember once before he told me that he even thought about buying a dildo because he likes the feeling of being penetrated. But he still claims he's 100% str8.

As much as I'm attracted to him I don't wanna risk our friendship. If we did take it alot further I don't think it would change anything, but I just gotta make sure that I don't damage our relationship.

 

[Wolfyyy]

Bingo.

There's no way he would have let you continue (humping) if he was uninterested, and no way he would have asked if you were hard if he was uninterested. Next time (and it sounds highly likely there will be a next time) ask him if he wants you to take off his pants. It can lead to the next level, or could just mean you want to give him a better massage (if he backs off).

He was high....bear that in mind.

 

[wilecoyote]

I think it depends on how the friendship is. I know from experience it is possible to deepen the friendship relationship in a sexual yet non romantic way. But, for some, sex could also wreck it. I think you should talk first because sometimes we let our cocks do the thinking for a quick fuck and you or he might regret it after.