I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I'm not sure where else it would go, and need to talk through something and get some advice. Sorry for the long read.
Going back a few months ago. I was browsing Craigslist for platonic friends, and answered a post from a straight guy saying he was looking for someone to go to a local gay bar. He goes because women are often more approachable there. I hadn't been before to one, so I took this as an opportunity to get me to a gay bar. I met the guy for coffee first and he seemed cool, so we went together.
I learned through hearsay, and later he admitted that he hooked someone up with cocaine there. I'm not sure if he sold it, or if he only introduced A to B. While I'm indifferent about others using (I don't but I don't judge either), I'm not sure I want to be around someone so close to distributing. It did make me easy, and still does a bit. He hasn't been back in my house since, but I still meet up with him at the bar and have a drink.
Fast-forward to this past weekend. We enter into the bar and he sees someone (a woman) who he talks to often. He buys himself, her and me a drink at the bar, then says he has to go to the washroom - valid since it is now cold outside and we just got there. Hands me his and my drinks and takes hers into the washroom with him. I didn't really give it much thought until I was waiting for him, that he took HER drink with him and I start getting a bit worried but I didn't want to make a scene.
He gives it to her who accepts it. I keep a close eye on her (I unsuccessfully tried to think of a scheme to get her drink), and notice she seems a bit less 'into it' - her dancing seemed to get sloppy/out of rhythm with the music. I loose sight of her for a bit, then about 30 minutes later buddy comes to me and tells me she went home with her friend as she wasn't feeling well. At least buddy was at the bar, and she wasn't.
He's been nice enough to introduce me to the gay bar scene, and I'm not out to most friends. Those I am out to have said they'd take me to a gay bar, but years have gone by since I told my best friend.
I don't know if I'm over reacting, should I ask him? Should I let it be and see what happens next? I don't want to be associated with his alleged antics, but at the same time don't want to accuse him of wrong doing.
Going back a few months ago. I was browsing Craigslist for platonic friends, and answered a post from a straight guy saying he was looking for someone to go to a local gay bar. He goes because women are often more approachable there. I hadn't been before to one, so I took this as an opportunity to get me to a gay bar. I met the guy for coffee first and he seemed cool, so we went together.
I learned through hearsay, and later he admitted that he hooked someone up with cocaine there. I'm not sure if he sold it, or if he only introduced A to B. While I'm indifferent about others using (I don't but I don't judge either), I'm not sure I want to be around someone so close to distributing. It did make me easy, and still does a bit. He hasn't been back in my house since, but I still meet up with him at the bar and have a drink.
Fast-forward to this past weekend. We enter into the bar and he sees someone (a woman) who he talks to often. He buys himself, her and me a drink at the bar, then says he has to go to the washroom - valid since it is now cold outside and we just got there. Hands me his and my drinks and takes hers into the washroom with him. I didn't really give it much thought until I was waiting for him, that he took HER drink with him and I start getting a bit worried but I didn't want to make a scene.
He gives it to her who accepts it. I keep a close eye on her (I unsuccessfully tried to think of a scheme to get her drink), and notice she seems a bit less 'into it' - her dancing seemed to get sloppy/out of rhythm with the music. I loose sight of her for a bit, then about 30 minutes later buddy comes to me and tells me she went home with her friend as she wasn't feeling well. At least buddy was at the bar, and she wasn't.
He's been nice enough to introduce me to the gay bar scene, and I'm not out to most friends. Those I am out to have said they'd take me to a gay bar, but years have gone by since I told my best friend.
I don't know if I'm over reacting, should I ask him? Should I let it be and see what happens next? I don't want to be associated with his alleged antics, but at the same time don't want to accuse him of wrong doing.
