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Gay Bars Suck

KURT10677 said:
I live in the Los Angeles area, and I went to a gay bar called the Abbey just to check it out . I went by myself cause no one knows I'm bi.The gay guys( FEM) in there are such bithes they act worse than women needles to say that was my first and last time going. I was just so clickie it remined of high school.:grrr:
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Ok im from the LA area and i for damn sure know that the abbey is a lezz bar. The Rage AND the Arena are right next door to that spot, maybe you should have checked those out first. Eh who am i kidding, the rage is just a snitch queer off than the abbey, but the guys have better body's there. However, the Arena is way more Bi based, it has almost everything in there, and it has diversity in races. Unlike the Rage and everything else around it.
 
Orrr you can go down on Pico, which for some reason is called the red light district, and find way more easier guys to get it on with. Loser, but chances are you will either get mugged, or get pick pocketed. Either way, your bound to get some.
 
I dont think its all that serious getting mugged and what not

Thanks for the suggestions

Peace Out
 
I think having a good time at a gay bar is all about managing your own attitude. I have the best time when I don't have any mission other than to drink and watch people. When I'm relaxed and happy, then magically I find myself talking to strangers and having them talk to me. (And sometimes more than talk!) On the other hand, as soon as I start thinking "No one's talking to me" or "Why won't that cute guy look at me" or "I really don't want to leave here alone", then I'm moving the focus to myself and guess what? I have a bad time.
 
I also hate gay bars. The people are really rude and catty---not so much to me, but any friends that I bring with me. My thing is I want a guy to get along with my friends or I can't be with him.

And...Despite what people say about gay bars not being all about sex, like they show in movies...I have lived in Akron and Cleveland, Ohio, as well as Pennsylvania and have been to gay bars in Philly and Pittsburgh. The gay bars are all about sex! People say the grossest things to me at times and I can't believe what they think they will get away with. You can compliment me, buy me a drink, whatever, but you won't get anything out of it. I have actually had to tell people I am a virgin a few times just to get them away from me (and it's true-but I don't like the WTF shit people give me about it)

Along with that it's all the same people there all the time. Most of them sad and pathetic regulars who want to take advantage of someone that night. It's a terrible culture at the bars that I HAVE SEEN. I prefer straight bars or anything else fun...or any place where my friends can feel comfortable because I adjust after a few drinks :)

Don't feel ashamed for feeling that way...one of my gay best friends feels the same way as both of us...we've both been pretty disgusted and abused by some gross gay people.
 
so many queens in those bars thats why i dont do gay bars too many bitches.....bi guys are so much more manly :) yummm, i am gay i only date bi or str8 guys
 
I like your attitude. I think it would be easier, especially in the gay community since we do have baths if people were more real about their priorities. If your sole motivation is to get laid, go to a bathhouse or sex club. If you have no expectations and just want to hang out, maybe meet others you are actually interested in, go to bars.
 
I would feel very uncomfortable to go to a bar by myself. Maybe it's just not my thing either.
 
I haven't posted in ages....but, thought I would revive myself here first.

I've been anti-gay bar for a while myself....BUT....only because I live in a state that seems to accept repression as a way of life. I don't like the 'look at me' boys. The ones that kind of float thru the club in their latest and newest KMart fashions. Oh...I mean...their new designer clothes. And PLEASE....sunglasses at night are a fashion no no.

I have traveled a bit and have experienced all kinds of clubs, bars, and pubs. It's not exactly the same everywhere. But, there are still the cliques and stereotypes.

But, once in a while, you might luck up and find that awesome individual or two that stands out from the rest and make a long lasting friend. It's a numbers game. Just go with an open mind and expect nothing. Be surprised and happy with new experiences.

However, yes, I agree that any bar...not just a gay one is a much better experience when you go with a couple friends.

I do prefer the 'straight' bars. Quite frankly, I've had more luck picking up guys in a straight bar.

If I visit a bar or even a restaurant for the first time and it is not a good experience...sometimes, I will go back to give it another chance and attempt to change my mind.

I've also, developed this personal thing about never going out on a full moon weekend. People really are luna-tics during that time frame.
 
Gay bars you might like to try are Fiesta Cantina (weho), O Bar (weho), Akbar (Silverlake - more mixed at times).

Or skip the gay bar scene all together and try m4m section of Craigslist. It sounds like OP you want a sex date anyway.
 
I've been to many a gay bar. They all suck IMO. I've been to quite a few in los angeles, west hollywood, long beach etc. It always makes for a terrible time. Ironically the only gay bar I actually had a good time in was a Lesbian bar.
 
i agree somewhat...i use to go to this "sports gay bar" it had to many queens to be a "sports bar" eewwww......
 
My b/f and I went there in early october >> to the ABBey and then went to the Rage. 1st time we had gone to bars in a long long time. And we had a GREAT time at the ABBEY just excellent.

we cap the night off at the Rage and just enoyed ourselfs alot.

Mothers was dead and seemed to trashy for us.
 
As someone mentioned, you could try Roosterfish in Venice. It's a neighborhood bar, and as such is very different from what you'll find in WeHo, although on Friday and Saturday nights, the WeHo crowds like to go slumming in Venice and so it's not so nice then. But Sunday afternoons are great, and it has a smokin' patio, if you know what I mean. Happy hour during the week is nice also.

I would go to bars in Silver Lake, but that's a bit far for me. I never especially liked bars in WeHo. I used to like the Spike, however, because it played alternative music.

You could also join Guerrilla Bar, which threatens to take over straight bars, one night a month.
 
rc42085 said:
ya dude i am BI only like 2 of my friends know. so i went to this bar in south chicago suburbs and the dudes were bitchier than any bitchy girl i ever met. the reason i went there was to meet hot guys,and i got a bunch overly feminine guys yelling at each other. hey at least i got head haha
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why would you go to a gay bar in the suburbs...especially living in Chicago.
 
I've only been to one gay bar in Philly and the music was too loud (was always shouting to the guys) as well as too much smoking. The next couple of days I couldn't breath because of the cigarrette smoke!
 
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