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Gay experienced in military

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I've been pursuing enlistment in the Air Force for quite some time now and it's getting closer and closer for me to leave for training.

I've read a lot of people's posts saying they had gay experiences in the military, and for some their first experience. I'm curious to know what that was like and how it happened. I'm very cautious about doing anything with another guy while I'm in because I want to take it completely serious but the whole idea of it sounds really hot at the same time.

I'm just curious to know how it comes about. I always thought the military was a very homophobic environment for the most part. Anyone have any stories to share?
 
My boyfriend was army for 12 years. The guys always made derogatory remarks and talked about if they caught any guy looking at their ass they would kill them and make it look like an accident.
While, yes, you may find some action while in service, please remember, you get caught, you could get a dishonorable discharge and that will be on your record when you apply for jobs, etc.
 
You would think the situation would be a lot better than 40 years ago when I went in. Even then we knew some guys were gay. They didn't flaunt it but they didn't hide it. It was a live-and-let-live situation. You just didn't openly stare at a guy's ass or cock and you certainly didn't flirt. Over time, you learned who was gay or curious and then you found time and places to indulge yourself. Back then the junior NCOs slept in a cadre room with locks on the door. Sometimes it was a single room and other times it was a shared room. Once you were promoted and got a room, you could entertain if your roommate was gone for the weekend and often you could swap roommates so you wound up with your "friend" as a roommate. Just be sure you don't try anything during your early training. There is little privacy. Get a feel for the situation before doing anything .
 
samhill4u2c said:
I am still in and just like everyone has said...be cautious. You will find people who want to have fun and you just have to find places to have fun...hotel room, ect... It is great and there are quite a bit of guys who like to play.
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What branch are you in and how is the privacy? I've heard that in the Airforce and other branches you can get a room with internet and whatnot but how do you know how safe your internet access is? Is it private or can they monitor what you go on?
 
Don't surf gay porn on government equipment - always safeguard your own personally electronic equipment.
 
im currently in the military right now 5 yrs in april. and as of late ive noticed its more along the lines of people dont care as long as you do your job and get the job done. I just actually came out to a few of the guys i work with and they were cool as a fan really, just be careful and remember to respect everyone else boundaries, cause you never know. it only takes one person to get offended. have your fun i know i do lol

any other questions feel free to pm me
 
I hooked up with a guy in the Air Force several years ago right on the airbase in his dorm. It was obvious that everyone knew he was gay (the called him cockbreath, etc.) but noone seemed to care.
 
i know a lot of Marines and a lot of navy guys that are gay but not open about it. and a few guys in the army that have had expierences, but never in the air force. cause aren't they right along with the seaman out on carriers for months on end.. the first guy i fell in love with and i still pine over to this day is actually in the military, he's a lifer.. if i could find one guy to settle with It'd be a nice military guy. i think its cause i'm an army brat and i've grown up in and out of army bases and military school. There is just something about a hot guy fighting for my future, to make sure that i still am able to have all the rights that us as americans deserve...
 
oh sorry i've also hooked up with a few military guys, but it was VERY secretive, i didn't want to get them in trouble and we had to sneak around. hotels and such... even 3 rough nights on base where i wasn't even suppose to be... thankfully he turned out to be an ass and i didn't get caught.
 
Sultan said:
I've been pursuing enlistment in the Air Force for quite some time now and it's getting closer and closer for me to leave for training.

I've read a lot of people's posts saying they had gay experiences in the military, and for some their first experience. I'm curious to know what that was like and how it happened. I'm very cautious about doing anything with another guy while I'm in because I want to take it completely serious but the whole idea of it sounds really hot at the same time.

I'm just curious to know how it comes about. I always thought the military was a very homophobic environment for the most part. Anyone have any stories to share?
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I see that you've gotten many response to your thread but I didnt' read them all.

I've talked to many jubbers that are in the military... the Air Force and the Navy... not the Marines nor the Army.

These guys are gay. But they are not in relationships with others in the military.
They have a private life with their partner living as a civilian.

Not sure from your thread if you are looking to hookup with another Active Duty serviceman. I'd say that is not a smart thing to do.

Hell why go through basic training, get deployed and lose your ranking due to you not being able to keep your dick to yourself?
If you are serious about serving the USA in the armed forces man, then I salute you... I mean that sincerely. That is a damned noble thing to do.

I take my hat off to guys that do that.

You try to get with a guy that is in your outfit and I figure you will be ostractized if not kicked out.
But if you go through your training and get some time in and serve honorably then I don't see why you couldn't have a partner on the outside... just not someone in your unit, or someone else in the service.

If you figure you cannot control yourself whilst being around all the hot guys in the Air Force man then you'd better not join. Yeah, it does sound hot.... usually guys in the service are hot and sexy and handsome, young and in great shape....

But you have more to keep in mind than showering with those guys man... you will be entering the service of our country.... and that is the primary goal of those in service. And God Bless those guys that do that. ..|..|

I respect you for figuring that you want to do that.... but man, dont' blow it by falling for some handsome guy. And don't blow it by trying to have sex with another guy in your unit. Holy cow dude, that would be a big mistake.

Over my time on jub I've become friends with a Commander in the Navy, a Captain in the Airforce, a Lt. Commander in the Navy... and all of them are gay.
But they keep that part of them outside their duty. And all of them have b/fs... but outside their service.

You do the same and you will be fine.
And thank you for serving our country. ..|
 
Go the professional route, keep your private life private. You are going in the Air Force to serve your country( I applaud you for your bravery) so just concentrate on that.
 
as someone who is officially going to probably be a "lifer" as they call it due to me re-inlisting, and being a young guy in the airforce.. i'ce been in for like 5 1/2 years (23 yrs old) i can say that yea it can be kinda stressful being gay in the military, i would say that for me its been kinda hard b/c of where i'm stationed, around eglin florida.. there doesn't seem to be a gay scene at all, i haven't been with a guy sexually with a guy since i joined the military when i was 18.. its not the militarys fault but i can say that i'm always deployed and i've been paranoid (for no reason) about someone maybe finding out.. honestly i don't think you would get kicked out for being gay unless your supervisor just doesn't like you and was looking for a reason to kick you out.. and just to clear the air NO there aren't that many hot gay guys in the military.. its def not what you think. i mean yes there are some cute guys but its not all hot steamy community showers with sexually frustrated guys just looking to get off. so to answer your question yes it is possible to be gay in the military and no it is not possible to be gay and OUT in the military..
 
and no they do not look for guys searching for gay porn in their dorms. i would have been kicked out my first year in, just don't get caught
 
I have gay friends that are in the Marines, Air Force, and Navy; it is my understanding that as long as you have your buddy's (and company's) back, it doesn't matter what your sexuality is. Sadly, I do not have firsthand experience, so I can't share specifics.

And Mr. Lilman, I have friends down in Pensacola, and when I was down there three years ago and went dancing at "Oz" that gay bar was replete with servicemen. So, as they say, "nothing ventured, nothing gained."

All-in-all, just be yourself, use proper discretion, and just be happy (lol ... isn't that what "gay" means?).
 
i was never in the military, but i worked on a navy base, and my co-worker, who was in the navy at the time, is gay. he made it seem like the majority of the people didn't care, and that there were a good number of gay and lesbian people in the military, especially in the health care areas. but at the same time, homosexuality wasn't something you could be casual about, and you still had to worry about who finds out. one time, a sailor asked me if he was gay and i lied to him saying that i didn't know, but a different co-worker of mine told the sailor that he was, like it was juicy gossip to give. the sailor acted so disgusted. it ranks high in the times that i was truly scared for a person, for his career and even more for his life..
 
During basic training in the British Army our training staff would say stuff like "I know it's a bit gay boys" (an example during a hygiene briefing) which would be quickly followed by a "not that it matters if you're gay!" to maintain political correctness. During your training and indeed before you settle properly into your unit I would, on the basis of experience, not openly announce you're gay / bisexual and then go from there. I met a gay guy during basic and he'd let it out and he ended up DAORing. It's a very masculine environment and you need to be tactful in how you behave and who you tell certain things :).
 
Aether said:
During basic training in the British Army our training staff would say stuff like "I know it's a bit gay boys" (an example during a hygiene briefing) which would be quickly followed by a "not that it matters if you're gay!" to maintain political correctness. During your training and indeed before you settle properly into your unit I would, on the basis of experience, not openly announce you're gay / bisexual and then go from there. I met a gay guy during basic and he'd let it out and he ended up DAORing. It's a very masculine environment and you need to be tactful in how you behave and who you tell certain things :).
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:confused:DOARing?
 
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