Gay-friendly places in the world? ~ Moral conflict.

[Seasoned]

As I mentioned in another thread I think your first task is to connect with other Hungarian gays in order to get a "home" perspective of support. Next you need to be realistic about where you could live outside of your own country. While you might be able to study in the US, for example, immigration is not easy. Your next task is to research immigration laws.

You really ought to work at learning how other gay people cope in your country. You, obviously, aren't alone. Even if you some day have a skill which would be in demand you ought not to put your life on hold waiting for that to happen.

 

[Rolyo85]

I am not sure what your point was, Seasoned, but if it is that he should stay where he is and learn how to deal with it in his own country, I should point out that some countries in that part of Europe just aren't good enough for gay people yet.

 

[Seasoned]

I am not sure what your point was, Seasoned, but if it is that he should stay where he is and learn how to deal with it in his own country, I should point out that some countries in that part of Europe just aren't good enough for gay people yet.

You know this is not the forum for sidebar conversations. If Coward92 has a question regarding my meaning he is certainly intelligent enough to ask me a question. No one ought to put their life on hold for 5 years. I repeat to Coward92 to find, even if its just online for now, other gay Hungarians for in-country support immediately. Anything can happen in 5 years.

 

[Laufey]

I have hear Norway is good ,,,do we have any jubbers there who can confirm this?

All of the Nordic countries are a pretty safe choice I think.

 

[Seasoned]

I'm happy to hear you'll work on both -- having a plan to move and attempting to make your current situation more palatable. That's the point I was attempting to make. Best wishes to you. I'm glad you've found JUB.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Hey Coward92,

Your most viable choice is to move to one of the capitals of the western countries of the EU.

Amsterdam, London and Berlin all have a sizable gay community and an economy that at least might offer you some opportunity to pay your own way. If you settled there, you could always plan to travel to Canada or the US later.

 

[jshshs]

Hi Coward92

Im a secretly gay christian guy in Sweden, who lives in the hoods of Stockholm. I could tell you that Sweden is really passive about homosexuals and its really common in Sweden so you know, however in the gettos its not that common. But if you live in the Capital and studying at the Stockholms university or so on believe me people will open their arms for you.

 

[MindBlast]

Basically any major city here (in Canada) is good. Yes, even Edmonton and Calgary (in Alberta). I live in Edmonton and the attitude is fine here.

Vancouver might be out for you because housing is $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ there. Same deal with Toronto although not as bad. I'd honestly go for Vancouver or Toronto if you can afford it, but if not, any other major city besides Winnipeg is good. It's not that it's anti-gay there, it's that Manitoba sucks in general (shittier weather than the prairies, worse bugs, less sun, ghetto areas).

 

[jshshs]

Thank you very much!
I hope you are allright. Keeping it a secret must be hard on you

Believe me it really is, really hard to express feelings and being with straight guys who hate gay people... At a club, school and so on. Not easy at all, but you have to stay strong and push it forward Pm me if u need to talk