Just like women and black people, you gotta put in work on the chitlin circuit before you get gay people on both sides of the camera. women spent years as sexy voiceless pin-ups and black people were goofy incompetent lazy grifters and sidekicks for a long time before either were the lead or the smartest character in the story. i didn't watch Moonlight, it looked like ones of those artsy fartsy snoozefests i'd have to be high(er than usual) to enjoy, but i still haven't figured out if the oscar win was a win for the culture.
our generation won't see LGBT media that isn't driven by straight people til probably the tail-end of our lifetime. but look at the bright side. somewhere in Americana the next big gay writer is getting his buns clapped as we speak, getting pumped full of the inspiration and fuel he'll need to break the glass ceiling.
i'm curious if you see shows like Modern Family as a step forward since at least we're not being treated as invisible, on a scale of 1-5 with 5 being total campfest, if Will and Grace was a 5 Mitchell and Cameron were no more than a 3.5. For better or worse there's definitely a lot more inclusion than even 20 years ago. Then again I've argued in the opposite direction when black people tell me "At least tyler perry is giving black actors work." Yeah, in his minstrel act.
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So I get how more visibility doesn't necessarily indicate progress.