Gay Man, Straight Girl

[Danugh]

I was waiting for an elevator today for 7 minutes roughly. A girl was there waiting with me. During this time she kept looking at me as if i was suposed to talk to her or something because she is a girl.

If i was straight and had a straight twin im sure my straight twin would try and talk to her but i am not into what she is selling in no way shape or form.

So because i wasnt talking to her , there was this uncomfortable silence, it was a bit wierd.

I like guys, guys are hot, i am not programmed to intereact on the level that she might have wanted me to.

Sometimes i can be rough for a gay man in a world of straight.

 

[HaraKiri]

Isn't that one of the big advantages of being gay:
Being able to talk to girls and women without any strings attached?

I always feel that this makes a conversation easygoing.

And by the way:
What makes you think she was straight? Perhaps she was a lesbian and facing just the same problem ;-)

 

[eric55]

I find chatting up straight girls ALLOT of fun. I usually get a vibe from them at first that they think I'm being a total asshole trying to pick them up by complimenting their shooes or perfume or whatever.... and THEN they clue in that I'm gay and it's just like this big realization come over them that the compliment was genuine because I'm not after getting into their pants... The best times I've had out dancing have been out with straight girls I've met who spend the whole evening feeling safe in my presence and knowing we can bump and grind all they want and there's no strings for either one of us....

Viva straight girls who like a well built gay guy, bring em on!

 

[dcmorgan]

Why does everything have to do with sex? I can talk to men without necessarily wanting to shag them. I talk to women without wanting to shag'em. I have friends I would never dream of going all the way with (ditto for them) and yet we managed to meet, talk and become pals. I don't think we're all necessarily walking around like ticking sex-bombs, on the look for a fuck. I'm sure this woman wasn't looking for a quickie in the elevator, maybe she just wanted a chat. Or maybe she found you attractive and wanted to see if you had a brain as well as looks.

 

[Danugh]

^Exactly, my dear Watson.

When did you buy the rights to use this ^ ?

 

[natedogg323]

I find it sooo easy to talk to girls because I'm gay. I can chat, flirt and over all have some fun with em'. I love it because all my straight friends are soo jealous and wish they could talk to them like I can.

 

[looseliam]

I find it sooo easy to talk to girls because I'm gay. I can chat, flirt and over all have some fun with em'. I love it because all my straight friends are soo jealous and wish they could talk to them like I can.

Precisely!

I was at a birthday party this weekend and I was sitting with these drop-dead gorgeous Polish women. My friends were pissed because I was hogging them.

I told them they should have jumped into the conversation; it's not like anything was going to happen.

 

[pmich25]

I find it sooo easy to talk to girls because I'm gay. I can chat, flirt and over all have some fun with em'. I love it because all my straight friends are soo jealous and wish they could talk to them like I can.

Hahaha I have the same thing happen to me all the time. I was going for lunch with some friends just this weekend and we'd just come from the mall. I had a bag from Guess in hand and the hostess was chatting me up about what i shopped for and my upcoming vacation.. Talked for a few minutes. Friends were pretty peeved LOL...

 

[justsimon]

I doubt that she was expecting you to flirt with her. It would be uncomfortable for anyone to stand waiting next to another person for several minutes with no words being exchanged. Maybe she was just trying to think of something to say.

 

[luminum]

My housemate and I regularly chat while she stradles me. It's a kick to do it in front of our other housemates. Good times. I think she's attracted to me, though, and if I were bi or curious, I think I would too but meh...

 

[thepro747]

I get SO many hugs and kisses from my girl friends at work. I kinda feel bad for the straight guys cos they watch and I can see they are all 'hmph, it's wasted on him!'

I find my relating to women has improved since I came out. When sex isn't in the equation people are so more open and honest. Plus the girls think I'm really sweet. If only I could get the same attention from some of the guys

 

[Swellegant]

Good manners dictate that an uncomfortable silence should be filled with pleasant small-talk. Here are a few examples:

"Good morning!"

"Wow, these elevators are slow."

"Nice day, isn't it? I hope this weather holds."

And so on and so forth. It doesn't matter that she's female. Girls are people, too, you know

 

[Danugh]

This girl tried to get in my pants today. I was disgusted. She was all flirty and so obvious i was like bitch get a clue. I like guys. Guys are hot, they get my rocks off ok.

 

[TonyComstock]

Some straight chicks are pretty hot.

 

[DarkNeko]

I love hanging out with girls-both straight and lesbian. They are so much fun to play with. I'm not attracted to the female body and they know that, so we feel comfortable just being ourselves and confiding in eachother.

 

[Danugh]

It happenned again today.

She was a nice girl, bubbly personality and so into me. If i had a straight mind i could have so had her in my bed (PUKE) but i just saw her as someone to talk. I am just not programmed towards the female sex so all her subtle efforts to hook up with me would not have been returned.

She was making herself so available without coming across as a slut (not that there is anything wrong with being a slut because i have said it time and time again if a was a girl i would be the worlds best slut. The slut to end all sluts. Infact id be a super slut, like how you have supermodel. Come to think of it they would have to come up with a new name for me because to call me a slut would be an understatement). But i didnt bite the bait.

Girls are cool to hang out with and chit chat but thats where it needs to end at least for me.

 

[GayBoi86]

At work, everyone knows I'm Gay and I talk to all the girls. I especially love it when the younger girls chat to me about their boyfriend or the guys they meet. I find it easier to talk to girls than what it is to talk to men. Not only because I'm gay, but I'm more easy going and outspoken with girls than what I am with men.

Newboy12, try going with a girl for 6 months that is straight and dosen't know that you're gay. That is very hard and all the scrifices that you have to do, just so she will not think that you don't like her, even though you really don't. When living with my parents I went with a girl from their church. That's hard when you have to pretend to be something that you're not. Because truthfully I didn't have my own vehicle or any way of transportation to leave the house if they did find out that I was gay. So when I got my own vehicle, I just broke it off with her and then became who I really was. My dad one day just came out and asked me, and I told him the truth and that morning I packed my clothes and left everything else at the house. I had to move in with my Grandpa, anyways enough of that story, you'll find the post @ http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=126502.

 

[elmatador_adrian]

I like many of the previous posters find it easier to talk to girls or female co-workers rather than guys I casually know or don't know that well. I'm just more comfortable and relaxed with women as most guys especially cute ones leave flustered or overthinking in my mind trying to make conversation.

 

[Danugh]

I especially love it when the younger girls chat to me about their boyfriend or the guys they meet.

I like that too so hot. Girls talk about penis size and stamina, and pubic hair and everything about their hot straight boyfriends.

One time a girl showed a picture of her straight boyfriends cock it was so hot.

 

[Danugh]

Duh but she wanted to ride me like there was no tomorrow. She is probably telling her friends that "newboy12 is gay because he was non responsive to my subtle advances."