Gay men being called out on their SLUTTY behavior...

[SilverWolf]

The most important point in your post.

I would argue the gene variant to explain mens promiscuous behavior was the most important point.

My opinion on how to solve that(that being solving why men chase after a relationship they are genetically not made for) was just me musing.

And for the record, I am not advocating abolishing monogamy. This is for anyone who thinks that.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

OOOOHHH.. this is a "he done me wrong" post.

Got it.


So when you said "some" what you meant was "one in particular."

Got it.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Because as we all know.. it's only GAY men who don't like to get called on their "slutty" behaviour. Bi men and all women.. well, they just LOVE it.

go call a woman a slut.

Come back and tell us what she says.

 

[Seasoned]

How about live and let live? Why judge? Aren't consenting adults free to do what they want as long as no one is getting hurt?

 

[Bidude117]

Because as we all know.. it's only GAY men who don't like to get called on their "slutty" behaviour. Bi men and all women.. well, they just LOVE it.

go call a woman a slut.

Come back and tell us what she says.

Jasun... calm the F down with this shit. It's so annoying how you have to attack all the Bi guys out there for no fucking reason. The "Bi" in my screen name is just what it is... it's a fucking screen name. I've been here for 5 years now and I've kept the name because people know me by that name. But you have to make everything personal with me because of it. I get sick of you constantly bringing up the bi crap when I'm not even talking about that issue.

 

[Bidude117]

How about live and let live? Why judge? Aren't consenting adults free to do what they want as long as no one is getting hurt?

Again people, no one is judging. This issue is about people not acknowledging their own behavior when being called out or denying it to pretend to be something they're not!

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

I get sick of you constantly bringing up the bi crap when I'm not even talking about that issue.

Really?

So how come the title wasn't "men" or "people?"

If you weren't looking for a fight... why go there at all?

 

[bbjohn]

Illgetbi, there ain't no love from me to you until I get some major celeb DIRT!


Plus I'm not that kind of girl.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

*whispers*

I think he was being sarcastic, Bidude.

Only half so. To be honest... I get so tired of people starting threads about how "gay men are...." and then launch into a personality flaw that isn't unique to gay men.

It's like saying "why are gay men so narcissistic, self-centered assholes?" when by gay men they mean "Jasun."

 

[Bidude117]

Really?

So how come the title wasn't "men" or "people?"

If you weren't looking for a fight... why go there at all?

Maybe because I don't give a fuck about straight men and what they do? Plus, I didn't create this thread to judge ALL gay men. In fact, this thread wasn't even meant to judge, it was a question about why some guys need to pretend to be something they're not.

 

[fetaby]

Again people, no one is judging. This issue is about people not acknowledging their own behavior when being called out or denying it to pretend to be something they're not!

That makes them liars. Do you really expect anything more from a liar? And yeah, it is about judging. Since when was being promiscuous a bad thing? If it wasn't for sluts most of these fuckers round here would still be virgins.

 

[hotb0d]

Again people, no one is judging. This issue is about people not acknowledging their own behavior when being called out or denying it to pretend to be something they're not!

I don't see why this is an issue. It's an obvious observation in how (not just gay men) people function. Who's in their right mind would show the world their true face? Everything is an act. It's like when you play poker and someone call you on your bluff, of course you will try to reinstate your game by getting offended or build an ever bigger rap to cover your game. duh.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Ok, well.... to answer the question...

I think a lot of people want to be something they're not.

Lots of guys love the idea of being a "relationship" kind of guy and try to shoe-horn themselves into that role. They want to settle down, have "the one."

It's a nice ideal but it's not for everyone. Some people try to BE that guy.. and they're not.

Doesn't make them "bad" guys, just means that like everyone in the world, they want to be something they're not.

Like I try to be nice. Just not in my nature.

 

[freefall]

Hmmm...





But anyway, the mods should make a rule about generalisations. It's driving people nuts.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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[Lord Booticus]

Honestly, I should've seen this coming... I'm the like the 5th guy he has done this to and I'm pretty sure it's gonna continue. I feel stupid for thinking I was different. Blah

No offense, but; Basic pattern recognition fail. I suppose our penis's and/or hearts do make us do silly things in the name of sex and/or love. The main thing is that you take this experience and grow from it.

Also take the experience of making a thread this loaded and learn to maybe think your opening statement with the head rather than making it out of emotion and/or hurt.

Because as we all know.. it's only GAY men who don't like to get called on their "slutty" behaviour. Bi men and all women.. well, they just LOVE it.

go call a woman a slut.

Come back and tell us what she says.

Does not go well. I jokingly, implied a female friend was a whore while drunk once. She called me a stupid faggot, stormed off and then my friend got hit in the face by a chav. Dislocated his jaw.

But to answer the question: Because 'slut' and 'whore' are used as insults and people don't like to be insulted. So you accuse your ex of being a slutty whore he's immediatly going to go on the defensive, its natural to defend ones self when being attacked.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

(I think it's pretty clear from the OP's reaction to my snide comment that people don't like to be called out on their bullshit. I think we're done here.)