Gay men - do you think that this weird?

[SilverWolf]

My question is why do gay guys like other guys who act like women?whats the point of being gay?

I've always thought being gay just meant not being attracted to the female body. Men in come in different varieties. Some masculine, some feminine. Some of us are just able to appreciate the wide range of varieties more than others.

 

[Carmelbubble]

I've always thought being gay just meant not being attracted to the female body. Men in come in different varieties. Some masculine, some feminine. Some of us are just able to appreciate the wide range of varieties more than others.

What about if they have the persinality of women

 

[SilverWolf]

What about if they have the persinality of women

That's fine. Kinda hot. Like I said I can appreciate and be aroused by feminine men both in body and personality.

 

[tonyboy]

I am gay and masculine. I am really, really attracted to really feminine men though. Are there any other gay men like me? Also, do any femmes like butches like me?

Holy cow man.. hell, it's not weird at all.. All guys are different in what they like or dislike.
Hell, A fem guy may be a bit girlish, but that could be part of the charm.
Dude, it's all just about what you and the other guy like..
I used to not be attracted to the exteremely fem guys when I was first meeting gay folk... but learned to look at it differently.
If the guy you are with is a good person, sexy, and someone you are attracted to, someon that you make fine love with, well then go for it..
I'd say that many if not all fem guys very much do like to be with a strong masculine sort of guy.
Not sure if you are in to topping, but I'd guess that most fem guys do want to be topped by a strong masculine sort.. seems you'd fit the bill matty.
Sex is fun... you just chose those that you like and forget what anyone says.
Man, I'd bet that you will find guys that would loved to be fucked by a butch guy like you. Just my guess.

 

[danielbabia]

Im 20 a feminine gay asian. People mistake me for a girl even though I don't CD. It feels kind of wierd though hehe

 

[Carmelbubble]

That's fine. Kinda hot. Like I said I can appreciate and be aroused by feminine men both in body and personality.

Im sorry if i may sound ignorant but ive put alot of thought into it and it still doesnt make sense to me. If ur attracted by the peresonality of a female and its not about being attracted to the body, then wouldnt u gp for a female?

 

[SilverWolf]

Im sorry if i may sound ignorant but ive put alot of thought into it and it still doesnt make sense to me. If ur attracted by the peresonality of a female and its not about being attracted to the body, then wouldnt u gp for a female?

I just don't find masculinity by itself attractive. I'm physically and emotionally attracted to guys who look and are feminine. A mixture of masculinity and femininity would be great as well. A hot masculine or somewhat muscular stud (think Kris Evans or Dolph Lambert from Bel Ami) would be great for a quick fuck (or repeated fucks) but that's it. I can not see myself in a relationship with a stereotypically traditionally masculine man. There is just no interest there for me.

As for why I wouldn't go for a female, females don't have nice dicks to play with. Women are beautiful sexy people in my eyes and I sure wouldn't mind having sex with them, but they could never take the place of a feminine man in my eyes.

 

[matty20]

Holy cow man.. hell, it's not weird at all.. All guys are different in what they like or dislike.
Hell, A fem guy may be a bit girlish, but that could be part of the charm.
Dude, it's all just about what you and the other guy like..
I used to not be attracted to the exteremely fem guys when I was first meeting gay folk... but learned to look at it differently.
If the guy you are with is a good person, sexy, and someone you are attracted to, someon that you make fine love with, well then go for it..
I'd say that many if not all fem guys very much do like to be with a strong masculine sort of guy.
Not sure if you are in to topping, but I'd guess that most fem guys do want to be topped by a strong masculine sort.. seems you'd fit the bill matty.
Sex is fun... you just chose those that you like and forget what anyone says.
Man, I'd bet that you will find guys that would loved to be fucked by a butch guy like you. Just my guess.

Thanks Tony, I sure hope so. Nothing turns me on more fucking a femme guy hard up the arse, just really laying into him. Btw, is that you in the pic?

 

[matty20]

I just don't find masculinity by itself attractive. I'm physically and emotionally attracted to guys who look and are feminine. A mixture of masculinity and femininity would be great as well. A hot masculine or somewhat muscular stud (think Kris Evans or Dolph Lambert from bel ami) would be great for a quick fuck (or repeated fucks) but that's it. I can not see myself in a relationship with a stereotypically traditionally masculine man. There is just no interest there for me.

As for why I wouldn't go for a female, females don't have nice dicks to play with. Women are beautiful sexy people in my eyes and I sure wouldn't mind having sex with them, but they could never take the place of a feminine man in my eyes.

Wow, where are the pics of Chris? That sounds so hot, seeing him nude. Funnily, however, I am not at all into CD, it's a real turn off for me. I like femme men, but they have to wear male clothes (or gender neutral) and especially male underwear.

As for not just dating a woman - there is a massive difference, in my opinion, although I do understand the point behind people who ask that. No matter how feminine a man is, there is still someting intangibly male about him, unlike in a woman. Also, I hate boobs and vagina makes me physically sick, and I love dick and balls.

 

[matty20]

I just don't find masculinity by itself attractive. I'm physically and emotionally attracted to guys who look and are feminine. A mixture of masculinity and femininity would be great as well. A hot masculine or somewhat muscular stud (think Kris Evans or Dolph Lambert from bel ami) would be great for a quick fuck (or repeated fucks) but that's it. I can not see myself in a relationship with a stereotypically traditionally masculine man. There is just no interest there for me.

As for why I wouldn't go for a female, females don't have nice dicks to play with. Women are beautiful sexy people in my eyes and I sure wouldn't mind having sex with them, but they could never take the place of a feminine man in my eyes.

I do find all types of men attractive, but lke you, see myself in a long-term relationship with a femme.

 

[Peterdragin]

I consider myself bisexual, about 70% for guys and 30% for women. It all depends on how they look. But as for my preference in guys, I like a man like this to fuck me...

and a guy like this for me to fuck......

 

[Beanstalk]

The varieties of sexual attraction are about infinite. As for me, I just love "pretty boys" - I love them with long hair and very feminine, but I have no desire or interest in the ones who doll themselves up in high heels and make-up and silly costumes. I like a boy who just happens to be very pretty, but otherwise totally boy.

 

[SilverWolf]

Wow, where are the pics of Chris? That sounds so hot, seeing him nude. Funnily, however, I am not at all into CD, it's a real turn off for me. I like femme men, but they have to wear male clothes (or gender neutral) and especially male underwear.

As for not just dating a woman - there is a massive difference, in my opinion, although I do understand the point behind people who ask that. No matter how feminine a man is, there is still someting intangibly male about him, unlike in a woman. Also, I hate boobs and vagina makes me physically sick, and I love dick and balls.

Here are the pics of Chris Crocker. Since cross dressers are not your thing, be warned the thread has pics of Chris crossdressing. But I posted some pics of him when he looks like a regular male twink from that thread.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=324589&highlight=Chris+Crocker

Are you masculine too?

Missed this.

I don't consider myself masculine as in beer drinking, football loving, truck driving, man's man masculine. More like a nerd who likes tinkering with computers and reading fantasy novels like Forgotten Realms. Depends on what you consider masculine. Am I stereotypically gay as in talk with a lisp, limp wrist,? I do none of those things.

 

[asianstudlover]

My question is why do gay guys like other guys who act like women? whats the point of being gay?

This is a point. Just because we are attracted to men (as homos) doesnt mean we want to BE women.
Its gay politically correctnedd to say, its wrong to be straight acting, why do we worship have masculinity........
Some fems cant imagine acting, looking and feeling the way they do. For them its natural. Cool.
Some more manly guys cant imagine acting, looking or feeling the way they do. For them its natural. Also Cool.

Gay proile wise. Sometimes opposites attract Fem-likes Butch. Butch likes fem. Ive also seen butch looking for butch. But i never see "femm looking for femm".
just my experience.

 

[asianstudlover]

I just don't find masculinity by itself attractive. I'm physically and emotionally attracted to guys who look and are feminine. A mixture of masculinity and femininity would be great as well. A hot masculine or somewhat muscular stud (think Kris Evans or Dolph Lambert from bel ami) would be great for a quick fuck (or repeated fucks) but that's it. I can not see myself in a relationship with a stereotypically traditionally masculine man. There is just no interest there for me.

As for why I wouldn't go for a female, females don't have nice dicks to play with. Women are beautiful sexy people in my eyes and I sure wouldn't mind having sex with them, but they could never take the place of a feminine man in my eyes.

This is oddly complex topic, but cool I have Similar feelings except THE EXACT opposite and i was wondering to myself why!
I find some twink guys hot and would have hookups and fucks essions galore with them, but i could only be in a relationship with a masculine looking and acting man. why is that?
Sometimes I've felt bad about that, the guys I fuck (twinky types) and then have to tell them i have no interest in long term, but just with them.

For fucking who knows? I'd mostly likely have guys much more over girls, but if i had a choice to date a femanine woman or a femanine man, I know i'd woman 100% of the time.

 

[pablo6989]

Interesting topic.

I can consider myself bit feminine; I have slim beautiful - delicate twinky -androgynous appearance. Also as a person I am sensitive and not macho at all.

But I not pay so much attention to clothes I wear and find shopping extremely boring activity.
I have wide interest such asa art,literature and engineering and warfare and weapons! So its not stereotpyical.

I find attractive masculine men as well as feminine/andro men:










I consider myself as versatile so in bed I can take a bottom role and suck cock and spread legs to get fucked or be a top and fuck .

However I am vers for all that types of men, so I can be fucked by girl - looking boy or fuck hard muscled and hairy macho. So its not stereotypical again....

 

[Carmelbubble]

Wow, where are the pics of Chris? That sounds so hot, seeing him nude. Funnily, however, I am not at all into CD, it's a real turn off for me. I like femme men, but they have to wear male clothes (or gender neutral) and especially male underwear.

As for not just dating a woman - there is a massive difference, in my opinion, although I do understand the point behind people who ask that. No matter how feminine a man is, there is still someting intangibly male about him, unlike in a woman. Also, I hate boobs and vagina makes me physically sick, and I love dick and balls.

Hah ok i have to agree about the vigina and even some of my female friends agree with me when i say that viginas look like creatures

 

[Carmelbubble]

I just don't find masculinity by itself attractive. I'm physically and emotionally attracted to guys who look and are feminine. A mixture of masculinity and femininity would be great as well. A hot masculine or somewhat muscular stud (think Kris Evans or Dolph Lambert from bel ami) would be great for a quick fuck (or repeated fucks) but that's it. I can not see myself in a relationship with a stereotypically traditionally masculine man. There is just no interest there for me.

As for why I wouldn't go for a female, females don't have nice dicks to play with. Women are beautiful sexy people in my eyes and I sure wouldn't mind having sex with them, but they could never take the place of a feminine man in my eyes.

So you are attracted to a female(or femmine)personality but not body of one...right?

 

[SilverWolf]

So you are attracted to a female(or femmine)personality but not body of one...right?

I'm attracted to both, but I prefer the body of a male.

 

[pablo6989]

Hah ok i have to agree about the vigina and even some of my female friends agree with me when i say that viginas look like creatures

Heh I do not agree on this Juicy vagina is really sweet...! And boobs? Oh Lord I crave for big boobs ! Just love it!


Silverwolf: Are you feminine guy or rather masculine?