Gay men - when are we no longer considered a virgin?

[Claudio63]

For me virginity deals with sexual intercourse more than physical purity or being untouched. So I think the moment you have sexual intercourse (penetration) - top or bottom - with someone else you are no longer virgin. I don't think penetration is only anal. Oral sex, for me, is sexual intercourse too (technically speaking, if the penis of one person has been introduced into the body of another - that's penetration). I would consider masturbation and even mutual masturbation as sexual initiation but I'd still think a guy who jerks off (or is jerked off by) another is a virgin.

And you can stick whatever object you want as far up your wazoo as you want. If it isn't a real dick, you're still virgin, you're just no longer innocent. Innocence is lost the moment you even fantasize of having sex, and shouldn't be confused with virginity, IMO.

I'd probably go as far as saying you have to have a satisfying sexual intercourse with someone to no longer be a virgin. But that would raise a lot of subjective questions about what sexual satisfaction is.

 

[WillMc88]

This is very simple....

If you put your cock in someone else, or have a cock put in you, youre not a virgin. (oral or anal)

Duh.

Somtimes the simple answer isn't the best one. Does this mean that straight lesbians remain pure and virginal their whole lives?

I personally would consider doing anything with genitals (front OR back) enough to be sexually stimulating and pleasing, to be a loss of virginity.

 

[trawler69]

Somtimes the simple answer isn't the best one. Does this mean that straight lesbians remain pure and virginal their whole lives?

 

[twardmo]

Um, you have to get 50 posts first, then you are "on the prowl"