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First thread! Hello Everybody!
So, I do not know when I started to have feelings for guys. All I know is that there was once a time in my life (first 14 years) when I was, without a single doubt,
100% straight. I would not say that I am gay now, but I'm not straight either.

I have had girlfriends in the past and sex was regular with all of them. When it comes to guys, I've made out with three and got a blowjob from one. I felt bad when I had to explain to him that he would not get nothing back but he understood and today he continues to be one of my best friends.
I know many might find this odd but I don't like dick. I did feel a guy up once but had no desire to remove his pants. Yet, I do have feelings for guys.

Does anyone out there feel this way?
 
It's not so much which sex you have feelings for; more important is who you are sexually attracted to.

When you fantasize, is it predominantly about doing it with guys or girls?
 
I can kind of relate it wasn't until I was 19 that I first started to have some feelings towards guys and not until 21 until I acknowledged it. I think you will figure it out because, it isn't complicated you will find out that some people or sexual acts turn you on more then others and that is just the way it is.
 
perhaps you lack an emotional connection with men and are confusing it with sex. granted it's a long shot, but if you don't like dick (get aroused by men, etc) then just stick to girls and have fulfilling friendships with men.
 
If the thought/ sight of an attractive men lights up your disco stick then you're gay...or bi. If youre turned on by the guy between your legs then you're gay...or bi. Just ask yourself if guys do it for you. If males get you sexually aroused then you might be bi (Assuming girls turn you on as well). Who do you seek sexual relief from?
 
Many feel the way you do. There are guys who only date women but do things with guys for fun, or only date guys and do things with women, and some who fool around with one sex more than the other. I know many men that live this way. And many men tend to supress certain feelings for a sex because we're told it means something big if we let ourselves.
Don't try to think about what category you fall in now. You're having fun, we're all sexual beings, let's not make it slap labels on feels. There's so many of us out there who have feelings for things they cannot figure out why, we're human. Its natural. Enjoy! and btw,that was HOT. question. What about characteristics about guys makes you attracted? or was it the individual person that you were attracted to?
 
3nipples said:
When you fantasize, is it predominantly about doing it with guys or girls?
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I fantasize about both guys and girls but just in different ways.
I don't fantasize about having sex with guys, but I do fantasize about making out with guys. Basically, I fantasize about the first few minutes of a gay porno, before they actually have sex.
And then when it comes to my fantasies with girls, there are no limits.
 
i wouldn't stress about it. i feel the exact same way about females. i don't feel the need to label myself cause i know as time goes by and as i meet different people my attractions will change. so far i haven't met any women that have made me wanna bend them over and fuck them sideways but i'm not ruling it out.

as i've gotten older i've become open to different things and different types of people, a lot of which/whom were really unexpected. whatever happens happens. i'm not gonna limit my experiences in life by identifying as one sexuality or another. sexuality isn't that simple
 
I'm going to suggest that this is something to pursue with a therapist. There is something that you need to work through while you're still young. The desire for intimacy with another male, but not sex is somewhat unusual.

You don't want to go another ten or twenty years trying to figure this out, because I suspect that you may end up doing great emotional damage to others and yourself along the way.
 
i can kinda relate, but in the opposite way... guys and thought of sex with them and everything is very hot and sexually fulfilling... but i somehow still seem to like affection from girls, and making out with them... but no further.
 
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