Gay relationship but craving pussy

[BottmBoy]

You're not gay then. You're confused. Always have.

 

[BottmBoy]

AND PLEASE stop labeling yourself as "gay". You're just confused as all these other bi guys are. So, label yourself as "bi". You're just a shame to the REAL gay community. You're not one of us and I hope your "partner" finds out about this eventually. KARMA.

 

[ruivinho]

I'd say that's quite normal. I imagine you are familiar with the Kinsey scale, so maybe you could be a 4 or a 5.

But in the end it does not really matter

If you were single, the best thing you could do was to try it out.
Since you're in a relationship things are not so simple and it really depends on our partner's personality, for which you are the best judge.
So if you think you could talk to your partner (frankly I personally think you should be able to, but I have no intent to judge) please do, and who knows, he might just be able to try it out as well, or to let you try it

And don't worry to much about it

This sort of thing is probably more normal than you believe, I myself have been in a somewhat similar position:
Since very little only felt attracted to guys (ok very very rarely to girls, but I definetely saw myself as gay)
and then I found myself sexually attracted to a particular girl, and later to some others.
My conclusion was that I am mostly gay, in the sense that I think that I can only sustain a long-term relationship with a guy
even though i casually feel attractd to women
Yours might be different

Does that make me bi or gay? I stopped caring since it was driving me crazy, and as you can see I have currently no label,
though I usually present myself as gay, since in the end I'd rather look for guys.

As you may have noticed i highlightes all "dont worry, dont care, doesnt matter" phrases, but it was just because i felt that I worried too much and that was quite unhealthy.
By saying this, let me add - but don't ignore it - talk to your bf, but not in a "i've been mind.cheating on you with straight porn" but rather that "i've been curious about sex with a woman"
You are in your full right to be curious, and it makes you in no way less devoted to your bf

Ps. and gay men are just as real men as straight men....

 

[ruivinho]

AND PLEASE stop labeling yourself as "gay". You're just confused as all these other bi guys are. So, label yourself as "bi". You're just a shame to the REAL gay community. You're not one of us and I hope your "partner" finds out about this eventually. KARMA.

If you are trolling please note that some users might take you very seriously, and, depending on how sensitive they are, might be emotionally very affect by your post.

 

[BottmBoy]

Not trolling. It's a fact. Don't label yourself as "gay" and then talk about how your interested in the opposite sex, there's a thing called BI, use it. He's obviously confused and us REAL gay boys do take that Seriously as well. We've fought hard for equal rights and to be seen as interested in the oppistie sex at the end of the day IS a shame, don't do that. Know who you REALLY are before you start labeling yourself. Which in this case, he doesn't. You're not representing us. You're confused just like all these other bi guys are.

 

[ruivinho]

Not trolling. It's a fact. Don't label yourself as "gay" and then talk about how your interested in the opposite sex, there's a thing called BI, use it. He's obviously confused and us REAL gay boys do take that Seriously as well. We've fought hard for equal rights and to be seen as interested in the oppistie sex at the end of the day IS a shame, don't do that. Know who you REALLY are before you start labeling yourself. Which in this case, he doesn't. You're not representing us. You're confused just like all these other bi guys are.

Not trolling. It's a fact. Don't label yourself as "gay" and then talk about how your interested in the opposite sex, there's a thing called BI, use it. He's obviously confused and us REAL gay boys do take that Seriously as well. We've fought hard for equal rights and to be seen as interested in the oppistie sex at the end of the day IS a shame, don't do that. Know who you REALLY are before you start labeling yourself. Which in this case, he doesn't. You're not representing us. You're confused just like all these other bi guys are.

Well, if you fought against bigotry and you don't realize that you're being bigoted yourself, than I'm sorry, but I would feel sad for you if you weren't so dangerous.

You should stop being so judgemental based on a guy's post. He said that insofar he had only been attracted to guys, so its perfectly normal that he would consider himself to be gay. The guy is here, confused about his feelings, asking for our opinion, and you reply to him with such aggressiveness as if he didn't have to right to be confused and still label himself as gay.
Stop being an egocentrical maniac and realized that he doesn't have to label himself for You, and your notion of gayness. The guy is not trying to redefine "gay", he is just asking a question for god's sake!

The fight that you claim you've fought for is not solely for the enlightened ones, is for everyone to which sexual orientation is not what is considered to be standard and is discriminated against for it. He is clearly a part of that. And you're coming off as vile by excluding him so fiercely.

He does not have an obligation to represent you, you should stop being so short-sighted as to only see your own interest. Ultimately, if we only fought for the ones that represent exactly who we are we'd be fighting alone, and it would be impossible to win.

Also, I can't understand why would you assume that all bi guys are confused. That logic is in all similar to the bigots who believe that gays are that way because of daddy issues. All your logic seems to be analogous to the people against you've said you fought.

He did nothing wrong to his partner, so again you're being mean by wishing him the worse.

Personally I believe (or hope) that most of the LGBT would hate be represented by guys like you, and the sad thing is, your discourse is so short-sighted that I doubt that you will be capable of understanding my arguments.

What you did there was a pure hate speech, and it saddens me deeply.

 

[HairyCub91]

I really don't know why gay guys come on these threads looking to argue with people. If it doesn't turn you on, don't come looking for it, simple. I don't want to hear from preachy gays trying to tell me what my sexuality is or isn't. I just want to hear from people interested in discussing the substance of the thread. I am gay, that's that.

 

[ass eater]

I learned long ago to only speak for myself. I'm gay but i don't identify with the gay community. In my teens and twenties, i thought the gay community was the clubs, and gay parades. I get critized for not knowing gay speak, or code language. I had pussy once but i never told any of my gay friends. And i'm not sexually attracted to women at all. So i guess you can crave pussy, and not crave the woman.

 

[luckynumbah7]

I believe it's just the pussy. Have no other interest in woman at all. No physical attraction to the female form at all. Thats how it sounds for many of you. I guess you could say the woman is a human fleshlight, like if you can fuck pussy without it being attached to her

Then find someone that isn't a woman with one? Regardless, anyone you go with isn't generally going to like hearing "There's no physical attraction between us, now could you please drop your pants?" Granted, some people honestly don't care - which is fine as well, you just have to be clear what all the partners are expecting.

 

[ass eater]

@luckynumbah7: i'm simply saying there are gay men who want to experiement or try pussy, but are not attracted to women. Don't take it personal. To some it matters, to others it don't. every one is not sexually fluid like the media and the movies would have you think.

 

[ArseYouLikeIt]

Up until the age of about 23, all of my sexual experiences had been with women (I was attracted to blokes but did nothing about it) and since seeing the light, I have never been with another woman. But if I`m honest, I do sometimes think about cunnilingus. It was one of the things I most enjoyed doing and in porn, the image of a good looking guy going down on the MacDuff, does actually look really horny Maybe you should experiment but don't get into a relationship with a woman just for that reason, most women are not fully satisfied by oral sex alone....believe me, I know

 

[luckynumbah7]

No, I understood what you were saying. It would be awfully hard to take it personal since that little bar to your left says I'm not a woman.

What I was saying is that if you want to try vagina and aren't attracted to women, it would be easier to have sex with someone with a cunt who doesn't have one. Well, unless you've got a fetish for having sex with people you're not attracted to, though I've no idea what that's called. Most people don't give two shits about experimentation - but if you're gonna describe your hoped for partner as not even being remotely physically attractive to you, they're not, generally, going to take that well.

Think of it as a helpful suggestion for, y'know, actually getting people laid.

 

[luckynumbah7]

*Isn't a woman, not "doesn't have one". Don't think I got enough sleep.

 

[ass eater]

I'm not speaking for myself because i've eaten pussy before. I'm speaking for a few gay guys i know who talks about trying it. They don't usually have sex with people they're not attracted to. They just want to experience it. It's not about the woman!

 

[ass eater]

I believe this thread is about experiencing, or craving pussy, but not wanting relationships with women. So yes i would say he is stil gay. You can fuck two hundred women and still bn gay.

 

[nut-bolt21]

Exactly what I'm experiencing. I wanna taste/feel pussy but am not attracted to women's bodies, only men.

 

[sultrysam]

I believe this thread is about experiencing, or craving pussy, but not wanting relationships with women. So yes i would say he is stil gay. You can fuck two hundred women and still bn gay.

The OP clearly said it's not just the pussy, he wants the whole experience of being with a woman, tits, hair, makeup and all. I think those who are just interested in the vagina might be the outliers of this group.

 

[HairyCub91]

shame this thread has sorta died. would love to hear more stories about gay men appreciating women or sharing erotic fiction about it. Anyone know of any?

 

[Quercus]

I wanna hear real stories. A lot of guys talk about it but very few seems to have tried.

 

[nut-bolt21]

I wanna hear real stories. A lot of guys talk about it but very few seems to have tried.

Exactly. That's why this thread is dying, hairycub, all talk and no walk is boring..