Gay relationship but craving pussy

[HorniLad89]

HorniLad,
I feel the same way as you do. I miss the place myself; despite some of the ugly.
Rest assured, I've created a board a few years back, which archived many of the eroticas that was found on that board. I never finished it and simply put it to rest, but I still have it. It was created by a free invisionfree account. (I really don't get what the necessary difference between a free board and a host board is). If outstraight doesn't come back up, NewStraight Assylum will take over.

I agree about the ugly side of it. That part I tended to avoid. It was just hot and fun and exciting to know there were other gay guys with this little bit of latent heterosexuality in them and who wanted to express that part of themselves. There was nowhere else (except maybe JUB) where you could find other guys like that. It would be awesome if you do make a replacement site and I'd definitely join up

 

[GayHard4Pussy]

All I ever saw on OutStraight were guys like Miguel & Mathieu who were proclaiming that "the worst blow job from a woman is better than the best blow job from a man" and other such declarations of their new HETEROSEXUALITY, with a tiny, mild attraction left to a few men.

It was VERY agenda-driven to "COME OUT AS STRAIGHT!", NOT bisexual. Gay was clearly inferior to heterosexuality at OutStraight.

 

[WifeofaBihusband]

You're still forgetting that our sexuality is dependant on the sex of the person we're attracted to not who we fuck, people sleep with other people they are not attracted to all the time.

Then how is that on sooooo many posts on here they say that if a straight man wants to suck a hard dick they must be gay.... but yet a gay guy can want pussy but they can still be gay???

 

[Level27]

All I ever saw on OutStraight were guys like Miguel & Mathieu who were proclaiming that "the worst blow job from a woman is better than the best blow job from a man" and other such declarations of their new HETEROSEXUALITY, with a tiny, mild attraction left to a few men.

It was VERY agenda-driven to "COME OUT AS STRAIGHT!", NOT bisexual. Gay was clearly inferior to heterosexuality at OutStraight.

I think they were just horny.

But, so far, we seem to agree that many of the more prominent members there have crossed a line where they ought to not.

 

[mikey3000]

All I ever saw on OutStraight were guys like Miguel & Mathieu who were proclaiming that "the worst blow job from a woman is better than the best blow job from a man" and other such declarations of their new HETEROSEXUALITY, with a tiny, mild attraction left to a few men.

It was VERY agenda-driven to "COME OUT AS STRAIGHT!", NOT bisexual. Gay was clearly inferior to heterosexuality at OutStraight.

These two guys you mention, were they some how "healed"? Did they go through some religious reparative therapy?

 

[Level27]

Then how is that on sooooo many posts on here they say that if a straight man wants to suck a hard dick they must be gay.... but yet a gay guy can want pussy but they can still be gay???

It comes time to finally to reply to this. Mikey3000 was also doing the same thing.

Honestly, WifeofBiHusband, I think you're trying to promulgate a double standard where one meekly exists or simply doesn't at all, and you're attempting this poorly by putting together two opinion that don't even agree. I don't think any substantial number of us here in this thread actually believes in the notion that a straight guy who has gay sex is "really actually somehow gay"; at most, some of us gay guys may be merely excited by those straight guys who have tried dick. Having said that, if you paid attention to this thread, most of us are favoring the real presence of bisexuality.

The question I personally think is more relevant is why people like you and Mikey3000 (and some of the more prominent posters on outstraight.net) get defensive in this exact way when there's any reference to gay guys rejecting the notion that it's possible to realistically go straight.

I agree about the ugly side of it. That part I tended to avoid. It was just hot and fun and exciting to know there were other gay guys with this little bit of latent heterosexuality in them and who wanted to express that part of themselves. There was nowhere else (except maybe JUB) where you could find other guys like that. It would be awesome if you do make a replacement site and I'd definitely join up

I should hope you guys get to see it sometime in the future.

 

[leoan109]

The double standard arguments that inevitably come up (usually from pc gays) is due to the flaw of ignoring the bigger picture, which is that homosexuality is not treated the same way by society, therefore there is no logic in saying that a gay identified person and a straight identified one have equal motivation in accepting or rejecting their sexuality. There IS an agenda in the straight community to suppress homosexuality (especially male) There isn't a parallel agenda in the gay community to suppress heterosexuality. At best the agenda is to suppress those ideas and opinions that blatantly or through insinuation, convey superiority of the quality of heterosexual relationships. The very title of this threat spells that out perfectly. Now if he is bisexual, his desires are understandable, not to condone cheating. However, it's a bigger issue here if the Op is simply a gay guy dealing with the consequences that many gay people go through, from being indoctrinated in a heteronormative culture

 

[ruivinho]

Boyass as opposed to Girlass?

 

[ruivinho]

I always love it when my fellow gay-bisexuals who discover their latent minor heterosexuality say that they're "slowly converting" to the pussy. On the other hand, you guys, it seems that, despite [strike]our[/strike] some of your guy's growing fantasies of gays fucking pussy, it still remains that much of the focus of the fantasy is still on the guy.

We're really not "going straight" now, are we?

Here's what's happening. It's really quite simple. Our human sexual brain craves novelty. For those of us who have a minor sexual attraction to the opposite sex at all, at some time in our life, we would eventually want to act on these new, frightening but exciting fantasies: because our brains had never had it before, the desire for it is excruciating; even unbearable. (Remembered my first time! ) May even cause you to think that you're growing out of your homosexuality. And then, once the hetero fantasies are no longer fresh, guess what's always been there? Your predominant homosexual fantasies! They've never left you. Merely kept itself dormant as you explore this new but temporary fantasy that took over for some time.

I've heard so many gay-bisexuals say that they've met or spoke with some guys "who are going through the same thing" as them. It's quite prevalent indeed, but, it's really not as special as some would like to say it is. At this point in history, very little is publicly acknowledged about this phenomenon. Perhaps it's this mere limited availability of open network for it that makes it all the more special; even if it's really not. Just saying.

Thank you for this, I'm quoting to make sure more people read.
I've gone through this and took my "bisexuality" to the point of an LTR, it lasted almost 4 years, did not work, and caused pain for both sides.

Although I hate it, I'll take this moment to dicusss labels:
If most of the time I think of and want to fuck with guys, and if I believe that I can only sustain a LTR with a guy because that's where I lean towards too, I believe it's fair to label myself as gay. If someone in the same position would prefer the term bisexual that's up to him. Of course if things go somewhere with a guy beyond just a fuck, I am bound to mention my minor attraction to girls because it is part of my life, I don't see why that should be included in a label whose purpose is merely practical.

 

[Sudiig]

Pretty hot, I like watching str8 porn myself but I wish some of the guys in the str8 porn were gay, quite hard to find that kinda porn

 

[nut-bolt21]

im looking to chat or sky.pe about this asap! pm me

 

[Quercus]

I used to watch only gay porn before but now I like watching str8, bi and tranny porn. Not a lot of gay porn now, it's always the same thing. Sometimes I can watch lesbian porn and I love it.

 

[Shippou]

One suggestion: To all the guys who said in this topic that are "gay" and want to experience or have experienced cunts and liked, please post photos of their penises.

I want to see how is the penis of who thinks this way. Do you think the girls will like the size of your penis?

I have a big and thick cock, I am Brazilian and I live in Rio de Janeiro and one girl felt my penis by 2 times when I was 14 (my cock had not even fully developed yet) and have made certain no woman who the world will prove my dick again because my dick is exclusive to men (my boyfriend).

 

[ass eater]

I was in a relationship, but craving cheese cake! I'm starting to think alot of these posters are women posing as gay men.

 

[fagslovingpussy]

One suggestion: To all the guys who said in this topic that are "gay" and want to experience or have experienced cunts and liked, please post photos of their penises.

I want to see how is the penis of who thinks this way. Do you think the girls will like the size of your penis?

I have a big and thick cock, I am Brazilian and I live in Rio de Janeiro and one girl felt my penis by 2 times when I was 14 (my cock had not even fully developed yet) and have made certain no woman who the world will prove my dick again because my dick is exclusive to men (my boyfriend).

Angry because you secretly desire pussy and come here to prove your 'gayness' lol nice try. You've had sex with women before therefore you are a gay man who does have some attraction to women. You contradict yourself.

 

[Shippou]

I was in a relationship, but craving cheese cake! I'm starting to think alot of these posters are women posing as gay men.

hahahahaha

 

[Shippou]

Angry because you secretly desire pussy and come here to prove your 'gayness' lol nice try. You've had sex with women before therefore you are a gay man who does have some attraction to women. You contradict yourself.

I contradict myself?

So you think you're only gay if you've never fucked a girl? I think a lot of people would disagree.

I had sex with a girl and that's exactly why I'm sure I'm gay. Most gays that are sexually clarified, that I know, have proven pussy.

The proof that I am correct, is that gay men like you who never fucked pussy is feeling heterosexual desires and getting obsessed with the idea of ​​sex with a woman ... hahaha

Sorry, but I feel sorry for "gay" with sexuality unresolved like yours.

TCHAU

 

[fagslovingpussy]

I contradict myself?

So you think you're only gay if you've never fucked a girl? I think a lot of people would disagree.

I had sex with a girl and that's exactly why I'm sure I'm gay. Most gays that are sexually clarified, that I know, have proven pussy.

The proof that I am correct, is that gay men like you who never fucked pussy is feeling heterosexual desires and getting obsessed with the idea of ​​sex with a woman ... hahaha

Sorry, but I feel sorry for "gay" with sexuality unresolved like yours.

TCHAU

Ok dude, whatever makes you happy. Gotta wonder why you sought this topic out and got all prissy and whiny over it. You'd think a delicate little flower as sensitive as you would..oh I don't know...maybe avoid the 'Straight & Bisexual Guys' section if this kind of talk offends you. Personally I find the idea of scat play completely repulsive and S&M creeps me out but I don't go into the fetish section and attack the guys who are into those sorts of things.

You got a lot of growing up to do buddy.

 

[Level27]

Then again, fagslovingpussy, with due respect, you, after all, were the one who taunted him. If anything, the the burden of responsibility for his behaviour falls much on your own shoulders; so it appears to me.

He could be "secretly craving pussy". Or, he could be 100% gay and don't completely understand the gay phenemenon, simply having not known better. Is it really so shocking for you to realize that a lot of these gay guys would react in a negative manner as he did upon first exposure? I would think, then, that the "grown up" way to respond to this is a calm-faced explanation of what yestergays are.

On the other hand, dude, if this is really nothing more than a trite session of brattiness-crushing, I say, speak for yourself; not everyone thinks of him the same way you do.