Gay Sex Clubs: Are They OK?

[anchihiro]

Hmm, never been to a sex club or was aware of any.

Although I personally wouldn't recommend losing your virginity in one of these clubs. I don't think meeting some drunken random is a good idea, chances are they're not going to be considerate of your virginity. But maybe i'm wrong.

 

[youngnihilist]

If you're experienced sexually and know what you want, and can stand up for yourself, and aren't under the influence of drugs or alcohol, then I think they can be ok.

lose your virginity in a sex club not a good idea. Guys who go there tend to have lot of disease. Also there are a lot of aggressive guys, and the population is heavily not good looking (though that's subjective).

 

[Seasoned]

The tone implied in your post suggests to me that you'd prefer something different. Are you referring to first time anal? A better suggestion might be asking you gay friend about a hot top who'd be willing to spend some time with you.

Even in a sex club there usually needs to be a spark of attraction unless you're in a black room environment. That doesn't sound safe enough for me to recommend that.

If it's just something you want to get over you can always find a good dildo. The first guy to get in me accused me of lying. Could I help it if he had a skinny dick and I had been buying rather large cucumbers?

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Maybe getting meeting someone at a bar would be a better option. (Maybe I should do that myself)

 

[mbamike]

Like you, I had plenty of experience playing with my own ass with dildoes and objects. I decided I wanted to experience a Real Cock and have gays sex for the first time.

I used Manhunt and Adam4Adam to look for a guy to pop my cherry. I was surprised by the number of times I was rejected when the other guy found out that I was a gay virgin.

Finally, I found a really great guy on Adam4Adam. We met in the motel as planned. We really hit it off very well. The one-time hook up turned into a whole weekend of fucking, sucking, rimming, kissing, etc. It was WONDERFUL!

If you are out to lose your gay virginity, maybe you should try something other than a sex club.

 

[youngnihilist]

Are there "good looking guys your age" at sex clubs? Yes. But they are the minority. You'll have to dodge many guys you're not into, and even if you meet your guy you'll have groping hands after you.

 

[NW007]

They can be lots of fun, but just remember to let yourself remain in control of what you do or don't do. I have had lots of good times at the one and onlyh one in my town:

www.steamportland.com

My blog on here talks about some of my experiences there

 

[AsianDream]

I find gay sex clubs and gay saunas (bath houses) a lot of fun.

Most of the ones in big cities (in Australia at least) are very clean and well run. They've got clear rules (like "no means no") and free condoms and lube.

Basically theyre all about cruising - like a bar - most people there you won't find attractive - but there's a lot of choice.

It's very easy to say no - and very easy to tell if someone isn't interested in you.

In the past I've met guys on line - very often an embarrasing disaster - sometimes there's just no chemistry - even though they sound nice and their pictures are fine - then you've got to spend hours with them - plus being almost obliged to have sex.

In sex clubs/saunas - especially at nude events - you can tell what you're getting - also - if you play with a guy for a few minuites and don't find it good - easy to move on.

I also know quite a lot of guys in relationships who first met at a club or sauna.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Sex clubs and sexy bars can be wonderful if you know what you want and how to get it.

It's probably better if you go alone (at least the first time).

Watch it with drinks, drugs and ALWAYS have safe sex.

There is one caveat: you might have to shop around a little because places are different. If you find the atmosphere tacky, don't get discouraged; try another place or try another time.

 

[texan_slant]

Also, make sure that you've really given this some serious thought;
Why is it so important to get your cherry popped by someone you don't know?

 

[NineOfClubs]

Highly recommend them.

Great way to gain experience, have fun, learn about men, all without being emotionally damaged.

 

[bike10]

The nice thing about he baths/saunas they are private clubs where one can go enjoy the pleaures of man to man action.

 

[AsianDream]

The nice thing about he baths/saunas they are private clubs where one can go enjoy the pleaures of man to man action.

I'd agree - baths/saunas are maybe better to start out with than a sex club.

I guess you can think of them like speed dating with benefits

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Sex clubs and sexy bars can be wonderful if you know what you want and how to get it.

It's probably better if you go alone (at least the first time).

Watch it with drinks, drugs and ALWAYS have safe sex.

There is one caveat: you might have to shop around a little because places are different. If you find the atmosphere tacky, don't get discouraged; try another place or try another time.

Best to have a clear mind at all times!!