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gay vs str8 relationships

Those role assignments are not something I buy into
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Oh I agree.... I'm just saying that sometimes it feels like we fall into one of those roles. I'm never a girl obviously. But in the one case, if it were a hetero relationship, that's the role I'd most mimic for some reason. I'm still me, but that's just where the chips fall.

It just felt like 2 guys living together.
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Well, Riverrick, maybe if I ever get to the stage of living with a bf, that might be the case. This is still VERY early on in the relationships obviously.
 
i don't equate cooking, cleaning, and shopping to mean 'girl' traits. i am told that the best cooks in the world are guys (although i don't know how to turn on the stove). and anybody living alone has to do those things themselves, unless they wanna shell out for a person to do it for them. i have always felt like myself - i have traits that are estereotyped as 'masculine' and traits looked on by some as 'feminine'. and i really think we all do.
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Yeah, I felt like that in my last relationship. It mainly revolved around buying things or treating one another or paying for dinner. It was stupid.

I think it was also based on who was the cuddler and who was the cuddle-e. So in that relationship, I felt like the 'girl'. But really, it's just about personality dominance, I guess.
 
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