Gaydar and eye contact, fine tuning your Gaydar

[mbamike]

^Well, now that you mentioned it . . .

I did have a feminine guy, not going to infer he is gay or anything, go out of his way to help me at LOWES. I was just standing there trying to figure out which gizmo to purchase. There were other customers a little closer to him than I. He walked past all of them, came up to me and asked if he could help me. I said yes of course.

He was very slender, well groomed and well dressed. He did not have on one of those red vests that LOWES' employees wear. I thought he was some type of manager. He provided me with the help I needed, I thanked him and left.

I always thought myself to be a masculine, average-guy-next-door type. Well, then again, maybe not.

 

[JNewYork]

After a while you get a feel for somebody's interest.

Here are some tip offs, even if straight dudes will sometimes do these, when taken with other things they do, it's a sign they're interested...

1. longer than usual eye contact. (already mentioned from original poster

2. you catch him looking at your shoes or legs or cock.

3. he comments about your appearance ("somebody got a haircut" can be a way he's telling you he's watching you.) "nice shoes" means I want to suck your cock, LOL Any comments about your pants will mean he wants to get in them.

4. he'll ask what type of music you listen to

5. he finds a reason to touch you

6. you just feel he likes you a lot

Nothing is definite, but there are always clues. Pay attention.