this is how i feel too. none the less, i did let a girl suck my dick. i can say that i needed to picture some hot guy doing it. and also, there was no way i was gonna cum either. it happened to be my first blowjob....ever, and i was sorely dissappointed. i was thinking "thats it? this is what all the hype is about" i was also thinking "shit...i can get myself off better with my left hand (im right handed). and then trying to jack it off to cum and get it over with was also time consuming. she has been with numerous guys, and you would think there would be some experience. but she knew nothing about the pleasure areas of the penis, and how to squeeze in those tender spots. nothing...not a damn thing i tell you. all she knew was just a bunch of wrong ideas and methods.....i think it is easier for guys to figure out how to do it because they would know what would feel good.
hey this makes sense. guys know how to use their equipment best because they've had years of experience with it. a girl could take a class on the penis and male erogenous zones, but that knowledge would never compare to real-life, hands-on experience... and daily access to the equipment. which only guys have.
that said, i think - as candyapple mentioned - that doesn't preclude women from giving good head. some probably give amazing head, but no one knows the penis better than a person who has one.
trish - it sounds like you've fantasized about "converting" a gay guy, or at least sucking one off - true?
one of my good friends once told me she had a huge crush on me when she met me - but she also said that she was even more attracted to me when she found out i was gay. interesting how that works. i think it all chalks up to 'wanting what we can't have.'
no blowjobs between us, but we've made out before and i wasn't turned on at all. so, honestly, i'd be surprised if a gay guy was even able to get hard enough for a girl to suck him off.
i think if you did find a guy who was comfortable enough with a chick to get sucked off by her, he'd actually consider himself "bisexual" or straight.
just as a straight guy, who considers himself straight, would never let a gay guy touch his dick, so too would a gay guy, who actually considers himself gay, never let a chick suck his...
but i won't ruin the fantasy. i'm sure there are gay guys out there who must have inadvertently or drunkenly allowed someone with a pussy to touch their lips to his manhood.