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Getting drinks at bars/clubs.
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Lukeee
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How about this:
Them: Can I get you a drink?
You: Only if you're paying! / No thanks. / Yes, I think I will have a _______.
Them: Were you getting anything to drink?
You: When?
If somebody asks to get you a drink they are probably paying. If you don't want to be asked just buy a cheap drink and keep it with you at all times.
Them: Can I get you a drink?
You: Only if you're paying! / No thanks. / Yes, I think I will have a _______.
Them: Were you getting anything to drink?
You: When?
If somebody asks to get you a drink they are probably paying. If you don't want to be asked just buy a cheap drink and keep it with you at all times.
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Honesty is the best policy so if you cant afford to buy them a drink in return let them know. Dont be greedy if you accept a drink choose what you could afford unless they offer further. Otherwise just say thanks but I'm fine at the moment.
inlovewithblair
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The answer to the first question:
"Yes".
"Yes".
gdude30
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If someone offers you a drink or asks if you were going to get a drink and buys one for you for each scenario.
You don't owe them anything. Even if they say, "Well I bought you that drink now you owe me sex"
I don't care if that's somewhat bar protocols if someone offers you something and they don't say, "Can I buy you a drink oh but by the way if you accept my offer the drink represents you signature for some unofficial contract where we get to have sex afterwards"
But I donno. I've never really been inside a bar.
You don't owe them anything. Even if they say, "Well I bought you that drink now you owe me sex"
I don't care if that's somewhat bar protocols if someone offers you something and they don't say, "Can I buy you a drink oh but by the way if you accept my offer the drink represents you signature for some unofficial contract where we get to have sex afterwards"
But I donno. I've never really been inside a bar.
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In the first instance, you can assume they are picking up the tab. In the second instance, something more needs to be said. I would say, coyly: "Are you offering me a drink?" That should clarify things.
I sometimes send exotic cocktails over to cute guys to encourage them to be adventurous and try something other than beer. I don't expect anything in return except poilteness.
You're right to be curious about what gestures mean today. We used to have a civilized culture once. Manners, politeness, and playing by the rules. Where did it all go?
I sometimes send exotic cocktails over to cute guys to encourage them to be adventurous and try something other than beer. I don't expect anything in return except poilteness.
You're right to be curious about what gestures mean today. We used to have a civilized culture once. Manners, politeness, and playing by the rules. Where did it all go?
kevbo
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I've never had it happen.
BUT
My favorite thing is when a friend is standing at the bar waiting to order a drink, and then I tell them to order me my drink, and then after it's all been paid for, I try to give them money, but they say, "Don't worry about it!"
BUT
My favorite thing is when a friend is standing at the bar waiting to order a drink, and then I tell them to order me my drink, and then after it's all been paid for, I try to give them money, but they say, "Don't worry about it!"