Getting Gay with High Friends?

[Curiosity69]

Hello.

In a few weeks I'm going up to stay at college with a friend, and another friend is coming along with me. The friend at college says he wants us to smoke weed with him and just chill out. I'm not sure I'll actually smoke but I'll still go up.

In anyones experience, is it easier to get "straight" guys to experiment when high? No the guy at college, he's never done anything gay, although he's always seemed kind of curious to everyone lol, but he's never done a thing, and he fucks chicks regularly. The other guy once kissed a male bartender to get a free drink for our friend on his birthday, and he got with a chick for doing it lol.

So I was thinking maybe when we're all high, or those two and I'm not, I could subtlely ask them if they wanted to experiment in any way, does anyone have any tips?

 

[willsboy84]

Hello.

In a few weeks I'm going up to stay at college with a friend, and another friend is coming along with me. The friend at college says he wants us to smoke weed with him and just chill out. I'm not sure I'll actually smoke but I'll still go up.

In anyones experience, is it easier to get "straight" guys to experiment when high? No the guy at college, he's never done anything gay, although he's always seemed kind of curious to everyone lol, but he's never done a thing, and he fucks chicks regularly. The other guy once kissed a male bartender to get a free drink for our friend on his birthday, and he got with a chick for doing it lol.

So I was thinking maybe when we're all high, or those two and I'm not, I could subtlely ask them if they wanted to experiment in any way, does anyone have any tips?

Only tip I got is to tread carefully dude. Even if something were to happen, it rarely works out, and is usually more trouble than it's worth. My very first actual experience with another guy, was in a similar situation and to say it turned out very badly would be an understatement.

Of course, not everyone's going to have the same experiences, so maybe it'll work out for you. Just make sure you know exactly what you're getting into and are prepared to deal with the potential fallout when he's got a "clear head" and not so open-minded...

 

[Anders123]

I'd say 'Getting High with Gay Friends' would be a better option

In all seriousness; typically marijuana isn't a drug that 'lowers one's inhibitions', meaning they wont be any less 'aware' of what they're doing, unless they get so high they're unable to move, in which case you would probably be raping them............

If I were in your position, I wouldn't try anything. Pursuing a straight guy will more often than not lead to a dead end, and possibly the loss of a friendship, so if you do decide to try something, please tread carefully.

 

[AlmondMilk]

If anything, when my friends got high, all they'd talk about are the chicks they fucked I guess the fact that we were all, to a degree, fine about talking about sex was amplified when they got high? haha. Also, I didn't want to get into any of their pants. None of us ever got really horny around each other... But I do recall one time after a night of drinking when I was sleeping over my friend's house. There were like 5 of us in the pull out bed. I ended up spooning one of my friends in my sleep. He woke up and freaked out. Jokes flew by the next few days, but it wasn't anything bad.

But with the getting high part, I agree to tread carefully. If you do decide on doing it, you don't know how the other guys are going to respond unless you're comfortable with each other and constantly have sex talk.

 

[bankside]

Sure. Get them together and play a slightly different version of Charades. See how many different meanings they can find to act out for "Smoking a fattie"

http://www.bbqjunkie.com/bbq-recipe/smoking-a-fatty/

LOL

 

[jawattz]

Being high doesn't change your sexual appetite. At least in my own experience it doesn't - I don't think this will work. Best of luck to you.

 

[gr82talk2]

My 2cents are to make sure youvr got a ride back Home! If it doesn't work out the ride or there lack of will be very weird.

 

[Nomenclature]

Question: If some female friends were smoking pot with you one night, and one of them suggested that you have sex with her, how do you think you'd feel?

Awkward? Betrayed? Violated? Probably.

 

[Curiosity69]

Question: If some female friends were smoking pot with you one night, and one of them suggested that you have sex with her, how do you think you'd feel?

Awkward? Betrayed? Violated? Probably.

I'd have sex with her, I'm a curious guy lol, not gay, I'd love if a girl did that.

And just to say, I probably won't do it anyway, I was wondering if anyone had had experience with it. I'd 99% not go through with anything I think of anyway, at least not with people I know well.

 

[Woodie69]

Back in my early 20's a group of 4 friends and I ended up together at someone's apartment drinking and smoking a couple of joints. High and buzzed we put a porno on. After some very vocal comments about the movie we ended up adjusting some obvious boners in our pants. This one friend, who never had a sense of modesty, complained of getting "blue balls" and as he apologized he unzipped his pants and started to rub one out. soon, one by one, we all ended up naked jacking. At first just ourselves, then each other. Myself and two other friends had jacked each other before but not together. If it hadn't been for the weed I don't think we would have gone nearly as far. Fun times. As someone already said, weed doesn't change your sexual appetite but it may lower your inhibitions to where they may be more apt to act on them. If nothing happens then at least you shared a joint with some friends, still fun times.

 

[jizzinmypants]

I regularly smoke with friends and I think you are asking for trouble. Like previously said, in my experience weed doesn't really lower your inhibitions.

Now if you drink and smoke, then thats a different story.