Getting it ON Survey - Just for Fun

[jc1983]

Sex Survey Time! Answers in BOLD

1. How old are you?

2. Please describe yourself as totally straight, mostly straight, it depends on the day and time, mostly gay, totally gay or ???

3. If you are currently in a relationship, how long have you been together?

4. If you are currently in a relationship, how would you rate the sex and how often do you usually have sex?

5. Approximately how many sexual partners have you had?

6. How many partners have you had casual sex with? (Casual sex = sex where you were just doing it to enjoy the sex without wanting a more involved relationship.)

7. Do you use social networking to hookup for sex? If so, is there a process or scenario that works best for you?

8. Have you had any funny or embarrassing experiences using condoms? If so, please explain. If not condoms, then what kind of contraception are you using? Any thoughts about it?

9. If you use condoms, are there any problems you sometimes have with them?

10. Please tell me a few things about yourself or your life.

11. What goes through your mind the first time you see a new partner’s vagina/vulva and/or penis/balls?

12. If you had to choose between receiving oral sex or having vaginal/anal intercourse—and your partner was good at both—which one would you choose and why?

13. What’s your record for the number of times you’ve masturbated in 24-hours? Was there a particular reason, or was it just one of those days?

14. How do you feel about a partner watching YOU masturbate? If a PARTNER masturbates in your presence, how do you feel about it?

15. Please describe one or two of your best sexual experiences.

16. What are your biggest turn-offs when having sex?

17. Do partners ever ask you to do things sexually that you don’t want to do? If so, please explain.

18. If you’ve had a one-night stand, what was the sex like and would you do it again?

19. If you’ve had sex when you were drunk or stoned, what was it like?

20. Are there types of non-vanilla sex that you enjoy? If so, what and how often?

21. How important to you is cuddling and having intimate conversations with a sexual partner?

22. If there is anything you could change about your PARTNER’s (or a recent partner’s) vagina/vulva or penis/balls/etc, what would it be?

23. If there is anything about YOUR penis or testicles you could change, what would it be?

Followup - is there anything about YOUR genitals a partner has ever mentioned they’d like to change?

24. Have you had anal sex? If so, can you describe how it feels vs. vaginal intercourse?

25. If you’ve had anal sex, do you think it’s because your partner really wanted to have it, or was s/he just doing it because s/he thought you wanted to? Please explain.

26. What do you like and dislike about kissing a partner? Do you spend much time kissing?

27. How important is friendship in your sexual relationships?

28. How important is romance in your sexual relationships? What are some of the things you find romantic?

29. Do you have a favorite sexual position? If so, what is it and what makes it better for you than other positions?

30. Do you like to change positions when you are having intercourse?

31. What traits do you find most attractive in a partner? What traits do you dislike?

32. What would make your PARTNER a better lover?

33. What would make YOU a better lover?

34. How do you know when it’s time to breakup with a partner?

35. Have you ever had sexual feelings towards another guy? If so, please describe?

36. Have you ever had sex with another male? If so, what did you do and what was it like for you?

37. Have you ever lied to a partner? If so, about what?

38. Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were in a relationship? What did you do? How did it affect your relationship?

39. What advice would you give to a PARTNER to improve their oral sex skills? Followup - what advice have you been given to improve YOUR oral sex skills?

Doctor question #1. Have you ever discussed sexual issues with your doctor(s)? If so, how did it go?

Doctor question #2. If you had the ideal doctor who was helpful and never judgmental, what are some of the questions you would ask?

 

[Storybook_Man]

1. How old are you?
25 Turn 26 April 7th.

2. Please describe yourself as totally straight, mostly straight, it depends on the day and time, mostly gay, totally gay or ???
Bi Sexual, Leaning towards Gay

3. If you are currently in a relationship, how long have you been together?
Just out of a relationship of 2 years. But I am currently seeing a guy for about 7 months.

4. If you are currently in a relationship, how would you rate the sex and how often do you usually have sex?
My previous relationship, I felt the sex was rushed. I am a sensual guy when it comes to sex with a woman. With a guy I am still some what sensual but love a good pounding lol. With the girl about 4 times out of 7 and I'd say a 6 rating. With the guy I am seeing, almost every time we see each other. To rate sex with him, last night was a 10 as he had this lust in his eyes to get me off after I just sucked a load out of him, we haven't fucked yet so overall a 5.

5. Approximately how many sexual partners have you had?
150-200 Mostly blowjobs though

6. How many partners have you had casual sex with? (Casual sex = sex where you were just doing it to enjoy the sex without wanting a more involved relationship.)
148-198 lol

7. Do you use social networking to hookup for sex? If so, is there a process or scenario that works best for you?
I am not sure if Craigslist or AOL counts but I have met most of the people I know from there or Cruising parks/piers. One person from Grindr which is who I am currently seeing. There is no process other then giving my stats and common communication.

8. Have you had any funny or embarrassing experiences using condoms? If so, please explain. If not condoms, then what kind of contraception are you using? Any thoughts about it?
Was once in a three way with 2 other guys and the guy fucking me, his condom broke off inside of me.he pulled out with the rubber band portion of it on his dick and the rest in my ass... lol

9. If you use condoms, are there any problems you sometimes have with them?
No problems unless it is the extended pleasure where it numbs the head.

10. Please tell me a few things about yourself or your life.
I am a sensual, kind, caring and giving guy.

11. What goes through your mind the first time you see a new partner’s vagina/vulva and/or penis/balls?
The look of it, is it discolored, the size, girth, weight, hairiness, openness, what it would feel like what it would taste like.

12. If you had to choose between receiving oral sex or having vaginal/anal intercourse—and your partner was good at both—which one would you choose and why?
Hm tough to answer, I'd love to have both. I think I would choose receiving and giving oral depending on size lol.

13. What’s your record for the number of times you’ve masturbated in 24-hours? Was there a particular reason, or was it just one of those days?
4-5 times I think and it was because I hadn't jerked off in 2 months.

14. How do you feel about a partner watching YOU masturbate? If a PARTNER masturbates in your presence, how do you feel about it?
I really rather have my partner join in then watch. Just watching has its perks when you're having sex but when you're not and they are just watching is rather dull and not much of a turn on.

15. Please describe one or two of your best sexual experiences.
I know I have had more then two but I will recall the two that come to my mind now. The first being last night. It was with a guy I have been seeing as earlier stated. He is a dominant alpha male. I was in the process of giving him a massage when he pulls his dick out and starts playing with it. I seductively started to lick away at his dick because usually he has to give me permission to do it. Soon he gives in and I start sucking on his dick, he is talking dirty to me and me to him. He then proceeds to tell me to smell his feet (he has a foot fetish but also because I told him about my first experience with a guy and that guy had a foot fetish). Before he tells me to start sucking his toes I immediately start doing so, also licking the soles of his feet (yes they were clean). At this point I am jerking off with him, He sees this then he starts to furiously jerk off so I start sucking on his balls while looking up at him seductively. He is about to cum and I tell him cum for me baby, give me that fucking load. He spurts out one shot then I immediately take him into my mouth to drain the rest from him. After that I lick up the spurt that came out and he pulls me up to him and gives me a sensual kiss. I sit upright again and my hard dick is now laying on his pubes. He has this look in his eyes that he loved what just happened to him and that he wanted to get me off. So he grabs my dick and starts jerking me off first with his left, I am moaning and looking into his eyes non stop. He switches to his right and starts to furiously jerk me off, I start moaning louder. He pulls his shirt up and says yeah baby cum on me. I let out some loud moans and exploded on his shirt, chest and stomach all while looking him dead in the eyes. Afterwards I kiss him, then he says you got cum all over me so being the good cum slut that I am, I lick all of my cum off of him then go back and started making out with him again. That was the best sex him and I have had. He is really the first guy that I think I may be falling in love with.

Second time, ill keep short. It was my first time doing poppers, I was at an adult bookstore having sex with 4 guys. The guy who I mainly went there with gave me the poppers, in turn I ended up sucking his dick like a mad man but very good. He is so screwed up on them that it took him a while to cum. So he tried fucking me but I was too dry, so he got a pig in the theater to get my ass all wet while I got his dick soaking wet. Then I turned around and forced his dick into my ass, the poppers helped A LOT. While he is plowing away at me I take two guys into my hands and start jerking them off while one of them starts jerking me off and I have a cock in my mouth as well. My friend fucking me is about to cum so I pull off everyone and get onto my knees and swallow my friends dick whole and took his load into my mouth. It was such a turn on to be in a small orgy but to also have others watch jerking themselves off at the scene in front of them.

16. What are your biggest turn-offs when having sex?
Smells. If a guy doesn't clean himself well enough when I actually fuck him, I won't get hard again until that smell and the guy is completely clean. Also when the guy is having a hard time getting hard. I start to think I am not going a good enough job so I psych myself out.

17. Do partners ever ask you to do things sexually that you don’t want to do? If so, please explain.
I have had people ask me if they could piss on me or have me drink from the tap or me piss on them. I always refuse and the reason why is because i am just not into that.

18. If you’ve had a one-night stand, what was the sex like and would you do it again?
I have had a lot of one night stands. Most of them are forgettable. But there are a few gems and when they are gems, I tend to keep them around . If they aren't, obviously it was bad.

19. If you’ve had sex when you were drunk or stoned, what was it like?
Was stoned last night, you saw the description I gave lol. I feel when I am stoned and have sex, I will get more high and it ends up being the best sex. When Drunk, feeling goes out of the window, this feels best for the other person because I am virtually a gaping hole, of course granting on size lol. When I am fucking someone though while drunk I get rough.

20. Are there types of non-vanilla sex that you enjoy? If so, what and how often?
Having a guy fuck me without a rubber and having him pull out and me sucking the cum out of him. Also bondage, slave master recently but that was with this guy I am seeing now. Both doesn't happen often. I have to be really into it in order to do either.

21. How important to you is cuddling and having intimate conversations with a sexual partner?
VERY important. I find cuddling to be sensual. It makes you feel loved. I could do without it, but when it happens, its amazing.

22. If there is anything you could change about your PARTNER’s (or a recent partner’s) vagina/vulva or penis/balls/etc, what would it be?
The only thing I would want to change is his weight. They say every 20 lbs you are over weight, you lose an inch of dick. All I have to do though is hold the base and its big .

23. If there is anything about YOUR penis or testicles you could change, what would it be?
My balls are perfect I think. My dick I wish was either thicker or longer. But I wish I could stay hard the entire time during intercourse.

Followup - is there anything about YOUR genitals a partner has ever mentioned they’d like to change?
He hasn't mentioned it but I think he would like it hard the entire time during sex. I go soft sometimes when I am servicing him mainly because my mind is so focused on that, that I don't care about my own dick. But I also think that he wished it were a bit bigger.

24. Have you had anal sex? If so, can you describe how it feels vs. vaginal intercourse?
I actually find vaginal better then anal. The vagina is actually in a perfect spot, where as anal you have to move around a bit especially if you aren't big in the penis department. Vaginal sex I find it to be a lot warmer and more able to take a pounding, where as anal you're less likely to be able to pound but you definitely get tighter .

25. If you’ve had anal sex, do you think it’s because your partner really wanted to have it, or was s/he just doing it because s/he thought you wanted to? Please explain.
Both. The current guy I am seeing knows that I want it but he hasn't done it yet. Wish I knew why. But the reason why I said both is because I know they want it and because they know I want it. Its rather simple .

26. What do you like and dislike about kissing a partner? Do you spend much time kissing?
I dislike kissing when they don't know how to kiss. But otherwise I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE kissing. It enhances sex for me. The passion a kiss, especially a good one can hold a lot. I try and do it whenever I can.

27. How important is friendship in your sexual relationships?
If you're just having sex with no friendship it makes you feel empty (lol), pretty much a sex object, it also makes you feel used. Compared to having friendship in a sexual relationship it makes you feel like both parties involved are/share mutual/common ground.

28. How important is romance in your sexual relationships? What are some of the things you find romantic?
I have had so much meaningless sex that romance during sex to me doesn't compute. However there are times that romance is shown, you will notice those times. For example. You are up close to a person, you feel their body and they feel yours, theres like an electric spark that goes off that enhances the feeling, making you feel love/romance. Also kissing I find to be romantic but I am more on a passion level with that then romance.

29. Do you have a favorite sexual position? If so, what is it and what makes it better for you than other positions?
Missionary because we can kiss during sex and it seems more intimate. Doggie has its benefits, but thats if you want to get pounded, but I love when it is given this way and the two of you kiss.

30. Do you like to change positions when you are having intercourse?
If it feels good, why change something that is good/great. But yes sometimes I do to get more comfortable.

31. What traits do you find most attractive in a partner? What traits do you dislike?
Eyes, smile, face/facial hair are big traits that I like. I don't particularly have any traits that I dislike come to my mind.

32. What would make your PARTNER a better lover?
If he was always into me like he was last night. Also the whole stop and go is a big bother. Where I'll suck him off or he will suck me off for a few minutes then we just stop dead and won't start back up for an hour or more or not at all...

33. What would make YOU a better lover?
If I were to lose weight. One of the major contributors in why I don't fuck often is because I am out of shape and I do smoke. So increasing tempo during sex can make me lose my breath. This was a major problem that I had with my girlfriend, I just never shared it fully with her.

34. How do you know when it’s time to breakup with a partner?
If you find that you aren't happy. You have to be happy otherwise why bother your or their time. You have to be 100% into the relationship.

35. Have you ever had sexual feelings towards another guy? If so, please describe?
I think this question is wrong for the website you're posting it on lol... But yes I have. (this is a question for straight guys which most "straight" guys on here are mostly bi.)

36. Have you ever had sex with another male? If so, what did you do and what was it like for you?
I have done everything with another male. Anal, Oral, Rimming, Kissing, Body Contact, Jerking off, swallowing. And most of the time its eh, but sometimes its amazing.

37. Have you ever lied to a partner? If so, about what?
Well my girlfriend I lied about working when I wasn't and was out with another guy. But mostly cheating on her with another guy. As for the current guy I am seeing. I only lied about three things, First one was that I told him I broke it off with my girlfriend, even though I was still in a relationship with her and the only reason why he knew about that was because he facebooked me lol and the second one was about my second job. The reason why I lied about it is because I deliver food. Its extra money in my pocket in the food industry which is what I want to be in and he knows that, plus it works perfectly with my first jobs schedule. Its just for my age and the type of work it is, I feel embarrassed by it to say. I feel if I were to tell him that I do that, that he would look down on me. The third wouldn't be that way if he would be more intimate with me, and thats me telling him that I am not having sex with anyone else but him.

38. Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were in a relationship? What did you do? How did it affect your relationship?
Yes just recently. The last year my girlfriend and I dated I have been feeling issues between us, most of them stemming from her and my own problems. But when I met this guy at first it didn't affect anything. However over the course of time that I knew him, I started to gain an infatuation to him and started to look at my life differently. I became more mature ever since I started seeing him and that is because of him. I have been thinking of coming out because of him otherwise I would never even have entertained the thought. The end result, I broke up with my girlfriend and am seeing this guy. I don't think he affected it greatly though, but I do know that he did affect it. I know that I didn't have as strong as a love for my girlfriend as I should have and if you don't have that, don't lead the person on, why the break up amongst other things.

39. What advice would you give to a PARTNER to improve their oral sex skills? Followup - what advice have you been given to improve YOUR oral sex skills?
Use more suction, watch your teeth and use more tongue. For advice I have been given. It would be to suck harder and to deep throat longer. I have nose issues so its hard for me to breath through it while giving head.

Doctor question #1. Have you ever discussed sexual issues with your doctor(s)? If so, how did it go?
No But I have been tested by a doctor other then my family/primary doctor.

Doctor question #2. If you had the ideal doctor who was helpful and never judgmental, what are some of the questions you would ask?
I didn't have a doctor that my entire family uses, I would use him for blood tests but to also talk about the effects of anal sex.

 

[andyspete]

I like taking surveys but this one would take 45 minutes or more. Too many questions.

 

[HunterM]

OMG! Too much to read. I only read books with lots of pictures.

 

[ElmosToe]

The OP joined May 2012, this is the first post, Mach 15th, 2013.
Probably took him that long to come up with the survey.

 

[Storybook_Man]

lol the survey did take a while when I did it...

 

[HunterM]

This ain't a survey. This is the SAT college entrance exam.

 

[njcollegekid]

1. How old are you?
20

2. Please describe yourself as totally straight, mostly straight, it depends on the day and time, mostly gay, totally gay or ???
bi

3. If you are currently in a relationship, how long have you been together?
NA

4. If you are currently in a relationship, how would you rate the sex and how often do you usually have sex?
NA

5. Approximately how many sexual partners have you had?
15-20

6. How many partners have you had casual sex with? (Casual sex = sex where you were just doing it to enjoy the sex without wanting a more involved relationship.)
10-15

7. Do you use social networking to hookup for sex? If so, is there a process or scenario that works best for you?
not unless you consider a4a a social network

8. Have you had any funny or embarrassing experiences using condoms? If so, please explain. If not condoms, then what kind of contraception are you using? Any thoughts about it?
hate em, but always use em.

9. If you use condoms, are there any problems you sometimes have with them?
they are almost like novacaine, deaden every sensation

10. Please tell me a few things about yourself or your life.
you need to be more specific

11. What goes through your mind the first time you see a new partner’s vagina/vulva and/or penis/balls?
all the blood is in my penis, my mind is on standby

12. If you had to choose between receiving oral sex or having vaginal/anal intercourse—and your partner was good at both—which one would you choose and why?
depends on the partner for guys, vaginal for girls.

13. What’s your record for the number of times you’ve masturbated in 24-hours? Was there a particular reason, or was it just one of those days?
at least 5. was bored out of my mind.

14. How do you feel about a partner watching YOU masturbate? If a PARTNER masturbates in your presence, how do you feel about it?
either would be cool

15. Please describe one or two of your best sexual experiences.
hot guy, a bit shorter than me, cut tight body (meaning showing some muscle definition), and constantly showering me with compliments

16. What are your biggest turn-offs when having sex?
the lights being off. im a visual person

17. Do partners ever ask you to do things sexually that you don’t want to do? If so, please explain.
sure

18. If you’ve had a one-night stand, what was the sex like and would you do it again?
good; yes

19. If you’ve had sex when you were drunk or stoned, what was it like?
sloppy

20. Are there types of non-vanilla sex that you enjoy? If so, what and how often?
yet to try

21. How important to you is cuddling and having intimate conversations with a sexual partner?
very little

22. If there is anything you could change about your PARTNER’s (or a recent partner’s) vagina/vulva or penis/balls/etc, what would it be?

23. If there is anything about YOUR penis or testicles you could change, what would it be?

Followup - is there anything about YOUR genitals a partner has ever mentioned they’d like to change?

24. Have you had anal sex? If so, can you describe how it feels vs. vaginal intercourse?
preffer the feeling of vaginal, but both are good

25. If you’ve had anal sex, do you think it’s because your partner really wanted to have it, or was s/he just doing it because s/he thought you wanted to? Please explain.
they wanted it more

26. What do you like and dislike about kissing a partner? Do you spend much time kissing?
hate it when the person seemingly tries to swallow my face

27. How important is friendship in your sexual relationships?
4/10

28. How important is romance in your sexual relationships? What are some of the things you find romantic?
1/10

29. Do you have a favorite sexual position? If so, what is it and what makes it better for you than other positions?
cow boy/girl

30. Do you like to change positions when you are having intercourse?
yes

got bored, didnt answer the rest.