Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

[heir-to-the-wind]

The anticipation of pain, either as a bottom or top, enhances the erotic experience.

 

[jmadaf]

Nice bush sweetheart!!

 

[Brynad1ne]

I've never had full sex with another man, but i have tried a small/ medium dildo up the never/ never ;-) i swear to you it hurts, i hope the real thing is easier, its a huge fantasy of mine, but i think its gonna be a Painful trip :-/

Dont worry, I had practiced with dildo's,for years , increasing in size until what can be considered large.....9" x 2.5" girth....prior my first time i cleaned up and opened up with my 10" x 1.75" girth. when i reached and finally being fucked for real for the first time it didnt hurt at all...and his dick was quite big....i must say i actually craved for more and bigger.....and harder.....now need to work up my guts again to find someone. Actually looking for gay couple for threesome so i can be fucked by more then one. Its taking the actual step thats difficult.....

 

[Brynad1ne]

Dont worry, I had practiced with dildo's,for years , increasing in size until what can be considered large.....9" x 2.5" girth....prior my first time i cleaned up and opened up with my 10" x 1.75" girth. when i reached and finally being fucked for real for the first time it didnt hurt at all...and his dick was quite big....i must say i actually craved for more and bigger.....and harder.....now need to work up my guts again to find someone. Actually looking for gay couple for threesome so i can be fucked by more then one. Its taking the actual step thats difficult.....

 

[Brynad1ne]

Dont worry, I had practiced with dildo's,for years , increasing in size until what can be considered large.....9" x 2.5" girth....prior my first time i cleaned up and opened up with my 10" x 1.75" girth. when i reached and finally being fucked for real for the first time it didnt hurt at all...and his dick was quite big....i must say i actually craved for more and bigger.....and harder.....now need to work up my guts again to find someone. Actually looking for gay couple for threesome so i can be fucked by more then one. Its taking the actual step thats difficult.....

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[MoaningMike]

Practice is essential for anal pleasure. Yes, getting cornholed can be VERY painful if you don't practice with toys or objects first. Leave the getting fucked without foreplay or lube in prison where it belongs! If you live near a store that sells adult toys go check them out. You can buy everything online, but seeing it in person will help you decide what you want. My best advice is to do what I did: start small and work your way up. Of course, I had to use things I found around the house because I wasn't old enough to go to an adult store, but the end result is the same. You might be tempted to buy a thick 10" dildo out of sheer horniness, but will quickly discover it was a mistake. Buy a dildo that's the size of an average 6" dick, and not overly thick (thickness is the challenge). Once you find yourself slamming it in and out and cumming your brains out it's time to get a bigger one if you want. Some guys like the same size, others crave a monster cock. You can buy an "anal training kit" that includes several dildos in different sizes and lube, Colt makes a good one. Or just buy 3 dildos in different lengths and thickness. A toy that vibrates adds a real thrill. You owe it to yourself to insert a vibrating dildo crank it up full throttle, sit down and jerk off. The orgasm will be superior to any you've had before. Now imagine a real dick slamming in and out, rubbing your aching prostate over and over! You will be a bossy bottom in no time, begging guys to fuck you harder and longer!
There is always some degree of pain on entry, but a trained bottom will ride it out because they know the insane pleasure that awaits. There are some guys who love the pain of entry. There are times you're going to be so fucking horny, you just want to get in the doggie position, spread your cheeks, and have a guy slide up your slick cunt in one slow thrust.

 

[xyxyxy]

Fear of the pain is why I don't think I would actually go through with taking it, but I sure do fantasize about it a ot

 

[sweet_taboo]

For me, thick always trumps long; however, both....YES!!

Great advice all. I had a second experience with a guy.....thick not long but it did not feel as good. On my back with lube but it just felt uncomfortable. I moaned so he could get off but really not pleasurable. Not giving up though

 

[sweet_taboo]

That part...

...There is always some degree of pain on entry, but a trained bottom will ride it out because they know the insane pleasure that awaits. There are some guys who love the pain of entry. There are times you're going to be so fucking horny, you just want to get in the doggie position, spread your cheeks, and have a guy slide up your slick cunt in one slow thrust.

 

[fitbottom]

If your wanting to take a cock in your ass you should be playing dildos and plugs, well before then. I was playing with my toys long before the first time I took the real thing, it gives you a chance to get comfortable and used to having things in there on Your Terms at Your Pace You figure out what feels good and what doesnt, what your limits might be.
If the first time you have something in your ass is a cock being driven by a horned up top excited about drilling you, it may not be pleasant for you!
The first time I hooked up I was already super comfortable with having things in my butt and loved it, so I was that much more excited to feel the real thing and so much more relaxed. I didn't have to go into with the pre-concieved notion of the pain, and anxiety. We both had a incredible time, he got to enjoy a nice butt without worrying about being overly cautious or gentle and I got to enjoy a Real Cock in my ass minus pain which was freakin amazing! I'm not gonna lie though there were a few deep thrust when I was on my stomach, that were a little uncomfortable but not painful.
Like anything else practice makes perfect!

 

[hjsimp_992]

Yes it will hurt. But eventually it will be hot as fuck for you.

 

[Kyanimal]

How about we let these guys describe how it feels ...

 

[Juilian]

The thought of getting fucked turns me on

But 1. Still a virgin and 2. I wanna play with my ass but I don’t really wanna buy a dildo ( well I do but I’m still in the closet)

What have you guys used in the past to get good penetration without cock or dildo??

 

[MoaningMike]

The thought of getting fucked turns me on

But 1. Still a virgin and 2. I wanna play with my ass but I don’t really wanna buy a dildo ( well I do but I’m still in the closet)

What have you guys used in the past to get good penetration without cock or dildo??

You came to the right place for the answer! I was a virgin when I started fucking myself, and too young and closeted to buy a dildo There are so many things you can substitute for dick, just make sure it won't hurt you or break! Rule number 1: LUBE. Use lots of it, and since you won't (mostly) be using condoms, go ahead and use oil-based lubes if you want. Albolene is my choice: very greasy, won't drip all over, stays greasy so you don't have to keep re-applying like water-based lubes, it's perfect for jacking off. The very first thing I ever put up my ass (aside from my fingers) was the handle of my hair brush: it was about 5" long and cylindrical. It had ridges that kept it from slipping in your hand when you brushed your hair, and those felt awesome sliding in and out of my hole. The joystick of a video game, the grip of a hockey stick, a cucumber, a corn cob, a pepperoni, candle sticks, the handles of kitchen tools (an ice cream scoop is amazing). My fathers workshop was prime hunting ground for ass toys: most everything had a handle that was penis shaped. The handle of hammer was my fave, I loved ride it while I beat off. Getting your prostate massaged by a toy will make you super hard and you'll cum like never before. I've sat on the stick shift in a car and rode it. Those big metal flashlights that look like a cop's nightstick are an amazing fuck. I'm sure you can find something to make your hungry hole happy without having to leave your house! Toys are not just a substitute for sex with a guy, I still use toys in a relationship. Sometimes my guy isn't around and I need an orgasm, and toys never go limp or are in a bad mood. Toys are fun to use with a partner, my guy and I love fucking each other with our toys.

 

[Natello4]

I tried to bottom for the first time during a hookup on NY eve. It went pretty well when he started playing with my anus using his fingers while we were kissing. Fingerfucking was very pleasant and gave me a pleasurable, electrifying experience. However, my crack was too tight to take his cock deeper once we decided to have anal sex. It popped outside my hole a few times. Other than an unexpected twist of situation, it felt pretty good. I was very turned on and he was helpfull and attentive, yet could not make my crack open wider this time.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Wasn't familiar with albolene then, so Vaseline was my lube of choice before discovering KY. Pepperoni was great because of the thickness. Corncobs were great because of the texture. Cucumbers were the best of those food items because they were long, thick, curved, had texture, and you could also squeeze on it and it gave a little...like a real dick does. I'd always use the food items with a condom tied at the end so I'd have a way to pull it out when I got a little carried away and the whole thing slid inside of me. Handles weren't always my favorite because most were too thin for me to enjoy after the initial penetration of my hole, and they could sometimes feel like you were being poked; however, those big "cop" flashlights were very nice because they were thick and super long, heavy, often had some kind of ridges (for texture), and the light end was wide enough to keep it from sliding all the way in, so you could actually sit on it and ride it hard.

There are so many things you can substitute for dick, just make sure it won't hurt you or break! Rule number 1: LUBE. Use lots of it, and since you won't (mostly) be using condoms, go ahead and use oil-based lubes if you want. Albolene is my choice: very greasy, won't drip all over, stays greasy so you don't have to keep re-applying like water-based lubes, it's perfect for jacking off...a cucumber, a corn cob, a pepperoni, candle sticks, the handles of kitchen tools (an ice cream scoop is amazing)...The handle of hammer was my fave, I loved ride it while I beat off. Getting your prostate massaged by a toy will make you super hard and you'll cum like never before...Those big metal flashlights that look like a cop's nightstick are an amazing fuck...

 

[MoaningMike]

I tried to bottom for the first time during a hookup on NY eve. It went pretty well when he started playing with my anus using his fingers while we were kissing. Fingerfucking was very pleasant and gave me a pleasurable, electrifying experience. However, my crack was too tight to take his cock deeper once we decided to have anal sex. It popped outside my hole a few times. Other than an unexpected twist of situation, it felt pretty good. I was very turned on and he was helpfull and attentive, yet could not make my crack open wider this time.

Sounds pretty good for a first time! Having a top that's patient and caring makes all the difference. So many guys have a bad first time because of a top who was pushy, selfish, rough, or limp. Having his dick pop out of your hole is quite common, especially if you're new, so don't worry about it. An experienced top won't be fazed by that, he will just shove it in again. Remember, the anus is going to naturally want to eject things. One not so fun part of the initial penetration is that feeling like you have to shit. Once the sphincter muscle has time to adjust to the invasion of a big dick the pleasure will take over. The last thing you want your first time is a top who will just shove his entire cock in with one brutal thrust. It looks hot in porn, the reality is different. It sounds like you'll be open to getting fucked again. In the meantime, just keep fucking yourself. Vibrating dildos are the best, but just find something you love to stuff your manhole with and use it daily. The more you practice, the more you'll get used to it. Being a great bottom (or top) is a skill that has to learned. Before long you will find yourself on your back, legs spread, jerking off, a big dick up your ass, moaning and begging for it harder and faster. Having a guy fuck the cum out of you will change your life.

 

[Frenumella13]

I've never engaged in gay sex yet? And thank you all, great advice

 

[Natello4]

Sounds pretty good for a first time! Having a top that's patient and caring makes all the difference. So many guys have a bad first time because of a top who was pushy, selfish, rough, or limp. Having his dick pop out of your hole is quite common, especially if you're new, so don't worry about it. An experienced top won't be fazed by that, he will just shove it in again. Remember, the anus is going to naturally want to eject things. One not so fun part of the initial penetration is that feeling like you have to shit. Once the sphincter muscle has time to adjust to the invasion of a big dick the pleasure will take over. The last thing you want your first time is a top who will just shove his entire cock in with one brutal thrust. It looks hot in porn, the reality is different. It sounds like you'll be open to getting fucked again. In the meantime, just keep fucking yourself. Vibrating dildos are the best, but just find something you love to stuff your manhole with and use it daily. The more you practice, the more you'll get used to it. Being a great bottom (or top) is a skill that has to learned. Before long you will find yourself on your back, legs spread, jerking off, a big dick up your ass, moaning and begging for it harder and faster. Having a guy fuck the cum out of you will change your life.

Thanks. I do agree that it takes patience and practice to get better at sex. Bottoming felt painful a few times for me as my hole was tight, but eventually I've figured out that relaxing and losing control by letting him inside of me increases pleasure. Also, in some occassions it felt like peeing when he penetrated me. Topping can be fun, too. I like to explore both roles. Wish to meet a partner and explore sex more.

 

[dbeatty5476]

I had been using a dildo and vibrator with plenty of lube for several months to get used to it. First time I had no trouble receiving him inside of me. I met him at the door of my hotel room wearing a thong panty and robe. He came into the room which was dark and immediately opened his shorts to expose a magnificent cock. We climbed into the bed without hardly speaking. I was lined already and he added plenty as he fingered my ass. I was so ready to fuck. I lay on my back and I fucked him in the missionary position - he entered me slowly at first to make me feel comfortable. The feeling of the head of his dick spreading my ass was incredible. Wasn’t long before he was fully inside of me and was able start fucking in earnest. I found myself arching my back to meet his thrusts and maximize how deep he could go. I leaked cum the entire time as I rubbed his chest and pulled at his back with my hands. I can’t describe the pleasure. He started rocking faster and went even deeper as he came. Was an excellent first experience.